I'M PREGNANT ONE MONTH AFTER A MISCARRIAGE - Maternal & Child

Court730

Dec 26, 2010

This is all so encouraging! My husband and I had a miscarriage in November the week before Thanksgiving and just found out Christmas Eve we're pregnant again! We are very nervous and every twinge sends me running to the bathroom to check my panties. It almost doesn't seem real that we're pregnant again, I have trouble letting myself get excited because of how terrible the last month has been.

mrsmaldy

Dec 26, 2010

This has me excited. I miscarried the day before thanksgiving. My blood test that Wed was a 8 and friday was a 3. My count was at 0 at that point. I bled for a week and have had unprotected sex a few times since then. I have not had any bleeding but I have had period like cramping specifically over my right ovary. (my last pregnancy was in my left ovary and felt the same things) I feel sick sometimes after I eat. I am just nervous to take a test for too soon. My last m/c was so devastating. Though I was only 6 weeks along it was such a shock to my husband and me since we had just got married at the beginning of October and got pregnant so fast. I felt like that was god's way of say "get ready for this" and I believe it put us on the same page. It's something I know now we definitely want sooner than later. Only time will tell, but I am hoping it will work itself out.

Metcalf30

Dec 28, 2010

How ironic!! I miscarried the day after Thanksgiving and my husband and I found out I was prego Christmas night...The nurses at my doctors seemed annoyed cause they dont know how far along I am. But YAY!! for the both of us getting prego right away : )

Mistybby

Dec 29, 2010

I had a feeling something was wrong on the 8th of November, and on the 10th I miscarried. I was about 14.5 weeks, give or take a week. I don't know if it's normal, or if I'm pregnant again, but... I had a period and it was light for two days, and then very light (I only bled in the morning and at night, just barely). It only lasted a few days. I have been having symptoms really bad; the same ones I had last time I was pregnant. After I lost the baby it didn't feel like anything was in there, and now it feels like I'm pregnant again. My hcg levels went from 21,000 when I first found out to 3,500 before I even passed the baby during my miscarraige (miscarriage). I don't know if it's too soon to take a test, or if I'm supposed to still feel pregnant, or if it's all wishful thinking..? What should I do? My symptoms: mood swings, pee often (but not much at a time, and it still feels like I have to pee after I pee; like something is pushing on my bladder), cramps like I had before (sharp, shooting pains or cramplike pains in random places), I'm breaking out along my spine and getting little bumps on my stomach (I had those last time I was pregnant), having severe headaches, tired a lot, hungry and having cravings, veryyyy thirsty (I wake up in the middle of the night I get so thirsty), wake up at night having to pee, when I eat I get full fast but am still hungry and can't eat much at one time, I'm having problems with bowel movements like before, smells make me feel nauseated, etc. Doesn't that sound like I am again? I don't know what to think. All my symptoms went away, like they faded; but now they are back. Everybody keeps asking me randomly, "You're not pregnant again, are you?". My spanish teacher has even asked me, and I told her how I felt; and she said she doesn't know. It is making me paranoid. Can anyone help me? When I miscarried I lost a lot of blood. They thought I was going to die it got so bad. Could that have anything to do with it? Should my Hcg levels be down by now, or should I still feel this way? Please, all comments appreciated.

neverlosehope

Dec 29, 2010

To: everyone

Hi Everyone
I have been reading your post since I misscarried on Nov. 4 and found your comments very helpful. I had a D and C done on Nov.16. 6 weeks ago yesterday. I was 10 weeks preg, the baby developed to 7 weeks.I haven't got my period yet and wondering if there's any chance I could get pregnant so soon? I was tested on Dec.6 and my HCG was at 0. We tried to conceive again right away and I want to take a home preg test but theres no way it would show up yet if I was. Don't want to get my hopes up. Has anyone gotten pregnant before their period and had a healthy baby? How much longer should I wait to test and how long is normal to get your period after a d and c?

This has been really hard and I wish I knew what my body was telling me because I've had really bad cramping but no period but a couple pregnancy signs but I don't know if it's in y head?
Thank-you for any comments and my heart goes out to anyone who has ever had to experience such a heart breaking thing.

cspencer0054

Dec 30, 2010

this is soooo weird! i miscarried the week of miscarriage and just found out im pregnant again too! i swear this is very odd that its happened to all of us! but maybe its a sign that God is giving us telling us everything will be alright. i am very anxious, im not going to tell anyone until we've gone to the doctor, maybe a couple of times. but i know im going to be very nervous until it gets further along. but if it turns out healthy then maybe it will help me heal from the lasts month hurt. i hope nothing but good things for all of you and i hope that everyone has a healthy, normal pregnancy this time :)

mummyloulou

Jan 01, 2011

To: everyone :)

hiya guys new to this but saw all ya posts and had to replay...i had a mc 5 weeks ago and on new years eve did a test and im now 4weeks just over :) soooo happy :) i have stopped smoking right away and im being carefull not to over do it but im sooooo worryed i will lose this baby too :( we want this baby sooooo much...this is my 3rd child but my hubby-2-be's 1st and our 1st together so this baby is very much wanted and loved already :) fingers crossed x good luck to you all hope we all started a nice 2011 baby boom lol :)

neverlosehope

Jan 01, 2011

Ended up doing a home pregnancy test new years eve and showed pregnant 3+ weeks. I thought how is that possible when my hcg was zero on the 6th of dec? I just couldn't believe it! Went up to the hospital to know fursure and sure enough it was positive!!!!! We still just can't believe it! We are so happy, starting 2011 with great news! Hadn't got my period since the misscarriage but the doctor said that was no problem. Good Luck to everyone and Happy New Year!!!!!

MrsOsman

Jan 01, 2011

To: Everyone

I'm 22years old and i had a miscarriage about 4weeks i was 8weeks pregnant. Me and my husband have been having unprotected sex non stop, the doctor said there no reason why i should wait because am still young and my period was right on time but is it possible i could be pregnant right after a miscarriage??

neverlosehope

Jan 02, 2011

To: MrsOsman

yes it is possible, it's been 61/2 weeks since my d & C and I never got my period yet so I took a test and I'm over three weeks. Exept yesterday I had some cramping and some bleeding and I'm really scared I'm miscarring again? I'm not going to lose hope yet but i'm scared now and don't know whats going on.
I would take a test i was amazed how soon it showed up. Good luck and I hope everything goes good for you!

mschultz2207

Jan 02, 2011

To: everyone

I admit I was freaked out on dec 9th, 2010 when I was having severe bleeding *soaking heavy tampons in 2 hours* and horrible pain plus muscle spasms down there. I went to ER and they told me I was maybe 5 or so weeks but more than likely in light of all the symptoms I had probably miscarried...the kicker was i didnt even know i was pregnant...just a little nervous that I had missed novembers period but thought it might have been stress. I know its only been a month since that happened but my husband and i have been trying every day to make the miracle happen for us again, is a month too soon?

elis_mommy

Jan 06, 2011

I was 8 weeks and found out my baby didn't have a heart beat I lost my little one a couple days later I had a d&c this was on new yrs day 2011 when can we try again? I am scared this was my 2nd m/c in 6 months. Is it just bad eggs? My dr is testing me for everything.

sparkles958

Jan 08, 2011

To: everyone

Hi ! I'm confused. I m/c after 4-5 weeks pregnancy on 20th December 2010. I stopped bleeding on 28/10/10. I tested negative on 31/12/10. I had sex on 1/1/11 and 2/1/11...since then I tested again 3 days ago still negative..however.....and this is the confusing part...!... I am exhausted but can't sleep, on and off prickling in my bbs, threw up 3 days ago after smelling something gross in the bin and then again today after feeling queasy all day, Major cramps in stomach 3 days ago, bubbling feeling in stomach yesterday, serious mood swings (i mean so bad! I'm lucky my fiancee hasn't thrown me out the window!)... one minute i'm angry next i'm crying my eyes out. I've been in bed since 3pm today, not sleeping just too tired to move. I've eaten, a chicken kiev, singapore noodles, an eclair, massive plate of dinner and then 10 crackers and i've peed 9-10 times today....maybe i just want to be pregnant and it's all in my head?? I mean is it even possible two weeks after stopping bleeding?? Please let me know what you think :0/

Lilly_Pad

Jan 10, 2011

To: Everyone

Hi there,

This is the first time Ive ever posted on a forum but I feel like I need to and after reading all your storys I think you guys will be the only people who truelly understand. I Miscarried on the 20th of December so it is still very fresh for me...It was my first pregnancy and I was 9+1 weeks preggo, it wasnt planned although we had allways talked about how much we wanted children but were going to wait until I was 28 (I have just turned 25).

I feel like the only thing that will make me feel ok again is to get preganant straight away although my bf thinks I should make sure I am happy again before we try again. Over the weekend we had sex again for the first time and didnt use protection, could I get pregnant again so soon? And if I did would it be dangerous?

love2012

Jan 11, 2011

To: all

i also mc'd at 4 weeks 12/14 and started trying 12/24. my bb are sore and areolas dark. ive been feeling some cramping. i tested negative today could still be too early i guess.

Trinitynjdr

Jan 11, 2011

To: Lilly_Pad

I don't think it would be dangerous for you to try again so soon. There are so many ladies on here with great stories. I understand totally how you feel. I technically miscarried on Dec. 28th but i went into the hospital on Dec 27th of this past year. We never took precautions against pregnancy because i was told i couldn't get pregnant and i refused to take birth control to possibly increase the chances of never having my baby. There has never been a secret that i wanted a baby.

I think you need to talk to him becuase if you are stating you want to try again now he may be hesitant becuase of how he personally feels about the miscarriage. It is very possible that he is just scared and concerned. It seems that as women we are more eager to get our baby because now we feel incomplete or maybe just empty losing something that was growing inside of us and we want to fill that void to deter the negative impact has on us.

baby2011xxx

Jan 13, 2011

To: Everyone that can help me xxx

I am from the UK and I had a very very early miscarriage on 31st December - NYE - not good :(
My period before then was on the 30th November, I did a Clearblue Digital that showed 1-2 weeks- I then did four over the following weeks and they all showed the same - so no progress - I knew something was going to happen and my family took it real bad and GAVE me ALOT of stress making me totally uneasy about everything and cried alot- they infact were very nasty and told me they were going to throw me down the stairs as I had brought shame upon them :( I am 24 my partner is 27, we have been together 10 mths and we are so in love we are inseperable. We got so excited and happy we even brought clothes - even though I was only about 4 weeks 3 days. Now I am so desperate for a baby, but when I said to my partner shall we try for a baby he said no I cant go through that :( It gutted me BUT since then we have had 4 times unprotected sex and he finished inside me but I dont know how he feels. I feel I cant speak to him about it though as I know he will say no. We went to have sex again last night and he said "oh no we better hadnt your not on the pill yet" - Which again made me so sad, HELP!!! xxxx

Lilly_Pad

Jan 13, 2011

To: Trinitynjdr

Thanks so much for your nice comments and I'm so sorry for your loss too.

We had a good chat the other day and I think he is right about being ok with myself (ish) before I get pregnant again so that its not just replacing it.. (although If I was to find out I was pregant again after that one time I cant say I wouldnt be over the moon!)

Good luck to you and everyone here for the future xo

Trinitynjdr

Jan 13, 2011

To: Lily_Pad

Good luck with both happiness and your babies.

Kiwi1nabamome

Jan 14, 2011

Wow you guys!!! I must say I'm extremely inspired... I miscarried on December 20th had the d and c the same day. I had been spotting for a few days. I guess the spotting started on the 17th of dec. No cramps nothing it got a little heavier the 20th of dec. Same day I had my u/s... I was 12 weeks 3 days... I heard the heartbeat at 10 weeks 5 days but they said the fetus stopped developing at 8 weeks 3 days. Since then I haven't had my period but a few days ago I had mild cramping overnight over my right ovary. Wasn't horrible pain but just noticeable. I've also been having watery discharge, or cervical mucus. So my hopes are up. Went the drs yesterday and everything was fine. I didnt ask for a prego test becuz I didnt want to jump the gun! I figured if it's ovulation ( and me and my husband have unprotected sex) I will get prego. And if not and I don't get a period within the next 2-3 weeks I will test for pregnancy. My hopes are high. And I wish everyone here so much luck and I feel all of you are very close to me becuz we share something so common. And ladies please do keep your heads up. Gods with us

BREEZE5

Jan 15, 2011

To: Everyone

I just had a mc on Jan. 13, I was so upset and in complete shock. I have a daughter and got pregnant with her and had no complications. i went as far as buying my daughter a t-shirt that said BIG SISTER. So on thursday of last week I was having some cramping, they did an ultrasound and a week of lab test that did not end well. We have been trying to get pregnant and then the mc. I am trying to keep hope that I will get pregnant agian, and reading these post is restoring a little bit of that hope. I am wondering how long it took to get pregnant after the miscarriage and if anyone knows if you are greater risk for another miscarraige (miscarriage) if you have had one previously?

Trinitynjdr

Jan 17, 2011

To: BREEZE5

I have looked at some studies and there is no significant distinction as to whether you will have another miscarriage or not. For the most part the doctors are split. There are some that say they prefer you to wait at least three months but others say that there is more success the sooner you get pregnant. But for the sake of your body I think most suggest at least one cycle. Ultimately, it is a choice for you and hubby because I haven't found any studies that suggest that you are at an increased risk by getting pregnant sooner. It is a personal choice for your family and if you wish to include your doctor you can. If your doctor suggest that you wait request information that supports your doctors opinion and do some looking on your own. I think you should get as much information as possible.

-Good luck

calimomtx

Jan 18, 2011

To: Trinitynjdr

Hello everyone, I had a m/c on March 30th 2010 and on Tuesday 1/11 found out I was prego and probably m/c again. The did the HCG test and I was at 43 on Wed and 40 on Friday. That pretty much confirms. I have been reading the posts of women who got pregnant right away and others who didn't. I will be 39 in March and have a 9yr old now. I know I should be satisfied but somehow I just have this emptiness. I often wonder if I am only setting myself up for more disappointment. All of your words are encouraging and give me hope. My prayer is that I will become pregnant again soon. I wish all of you the best of luck and blessings!
Jen

Dragnfly21

Jan 18, 2011

To: everyone

I just had my 2nd miscarriage on Christmas and found out it was tetraploid or something. I had a D &C on 12/29/10. Today, I had a positive preg test 3 weeks after my d &C. Is it possible to get pregnant that quick or could it be that the hormones have not returned to normal? I go to the Dr tomorrow but am anxious and would like some ideas/advice/support please

Trinitynjdr

Jan 19, 2011

To: Dragnfly21

Although it is possible to get pregnant that quick, the positive and negative aspects of doing so are debated in the medical industry.

There are several questions that you should consider.  Have you been back to the doctor after your D&C to ensure everything was removed?  How far along in pregnancy were you?  Have you had hCG levels checked since D&C?

You can do a comparative reading but that in itself will mean nothing considering a new pregnancy and one that is ending can yield similar readings unless they are increasing from the last test.

Talk to your ob/gyn and good luck and wishful news at the appointment..

nbuthelezi

Jan 20, 2011

To: everyone

Hi Guys

I had a miscarriage on the 03 Jan, had my d&c on the 6th Jan. can any one believe that i started having unprotected sex since the 12th Jan as i have stopped bleeding then. well me and my hubby we are not talking about me being pregnant as i don't want us to get desperate. i have a 5 yr old daughter which i love so much and even though she was also asking when is the little one coming. i think God will give us the baby when ever he wants, we will just wait and continue with our lives normal. i know some time it get difficult but i think if you get more frustreted by this then it won't happen or it will take to long. i have just went back to work and i just want to continue and live. i just live reading this forum as i also get hopes and keep on praying. i wish all of you good luck and i just hope you all have little beautiful babies this year. my husband is very supportive and really doesn't want me on a pill as he wants his second baby but we not desperate for one. so every one just belivieve that God will answer their prayers.

MyBloomingLife

Jan 22, 2011

To: All

I was 6 weeks prego when I miscarried December 15th. It was my 4th pregnancy and I had 3 perfect ones prior. Identical twins! I saw their beating hearts on Dec 10th and by the 15th they were gone :( It was shocking. I had a D&C on the 18th and didn't think I needed to worry about anything for a month or so. Well, I had a positive pregnancy today. only 1 month later! I am a bit nervous about getting pregnant so fast after a miss. I was not "trying" for either pregnancy they just happened. I have 3 girls under the age of 3 and 1 ovary! How the heck does that happen!!! Anyone talk to a DR about getting prego so fast?

lexthien

Jan 22, 2011

To: baby 2011

there is hope ...................hi i have just read your story, so sorry for your loss i also miscarried on NYE i started to bleed on the 30th i bled for 3 days, my last period was the 26th of november 2010,, i didnt even know i was pregnant i have irregular periods never on the same day every mth, straight after my miscarriage i was intimate with my partner i started to feel light headed headaches tired and such sore breasts something just klicked that i was either still pregnant or i was pregnant again, i took a test and it was possitive i couldnt believe it, i went to have a scan and they have said the baby is fine and i am 5 weeks 1 day, i am so confused by this i was thinking was it a twin?? but if that were so if u work it out from my november period i would actually be 8 weeks pregnant... if i had got pregnant after my miscarriaged i should only be 3 weeks but my scan said i was just over the 5 week, how can this be can anyone tell of a simlar story ????? i have 2 sons aged 11 and nearly 2 i have had 10 previous miscarriages it took me 8 years to conceive my baby son, this was heart wrenching i am now 32 and feel time is running out i have started spotting am back at hospital tomo for blood test, over the years i have come to learn that a miscarriage happens for a right reason its gods way of saying something isnt right, it happened for me again after 8 years you have all the time dont rush it will happen for you... and if its gods way again to end my pregnancy then i have my 2 beautiful sons have time with your partner god bless you

lexthien

Jan 22, 2011

there is hope ...................hi i have just read your story, so sorry for your loss i also miscarried on NYE i started to bleed on the 30th i bled for 3 days, my last period was the 26th of november 2010,, i didnt even know i was pregnant i have irregular periods never on the same day every mth, straight after my miscarriage i was intimate with my partner i started to feel light headed headaches tired and such sore breasts something just klicked that i was either still pregnant or i was pregnant again, i took a test and it was possitive i couldnt believe it, i went to have a scan and they have said the baby is fine and i am 5 weeks 1 day, i am so confused by this i was thinking was it a twin?? but if that were so if u work it out from my november period i would actually be 8 weeks pregnant... if i had got pregnant after my miscarriaged i should only be 3 weeks but my scan said i was just over the 5 week, how can this be can anyone tell of a simlar story ????? i have 2 sons aged 11 and nearly 2 i have had 10 previous miscarriages it took me 8 years to conceive my baby son, this was heart wrenching i am now 32 and feel time is running out i have started spotting am back at hospital tomo for blood test, over the years i have come to learn that a miscarriage happens for a right reason its gods way of saying something isnt right, it happened for me again after 8 years you have all the time dont rush it will happen for you... and if its gods way again to end my pregnancy then i have my 2 beautiful sons have time with your partner god bless you

Mom_2be

Jan 25, 2011

Hello every.. I am 9 weeks 5days pregnant today..and miscarried 10 weeks before this pregnancy. In other words, I miscarried November 16th 2010(with no D&C needed) and became pregnant November 18th 2010(according to my ultrasound). is this POSSIBLE! I didn't have intercourse on the 17th or 18th.. Its really bothering me.. Although, I'm very exited about me being pregnant and anxious to reach to my second trimester.. i Just want to know when i ovulated and when where my fertile days.

Nathans05Mommy

Jan 26, 2011

hii im wendy,,23yrs old,,mother of a 5yr. prince,, ALL YOURS stories make me have faith aqain:) i was 15 weeks "Preqo" when i found out i have had a miscarriage [o1.o2.11 niqht] my liddoh'one "stoped-qrowinq" at 8 weeks:( i jusz had an d&C done on o1.10.11! but with qods will and my hope and love, im hopeinq i qet another chance soon:D ima start tryinq by valentines day <3 hopinq a qet meh a blessinq one aqain... datsz if i didn't concieved yesterday.lol.
but I WISH ALL OF YUH MY BEST OF BEST WISHES AND BLESSINGS ON GEttiNG WHAT YUH WANT [A-BBY] :D best wishes mommies:)
[[ill be back to update my luck after a misscairage after valentines'2o11!]]

vicki24xx

Jan 26, 2011

To: vcki

Hi I missedcarryed 2weeks it broke my heart like the rest of us I've a 3yr old pregnancy first time was gr8 I've gt a healthy wee boy waited 3yrs to try again then I missedcarryed, miscarry was normal no d/c bleeded 4 a week a few cramps n that was it I'm trying again as I wnt an other bby dose any1 think I'll fall pregnant so fst after my miscarry?? Thanks

Trinitynjdr

Jan 26, 2011

To: vicki24xx

It is possible for someone to fall pregnant quickly yes. Our bodies are all very different and there is no one who can tell you for sure. I hope all goes well with your health and joy in getting another pregnancy.

veryfaithful

Jan 26, 2011

I have a lap for an ep on Christmas Eve 2010. I was 6 weeks prego and didnt even know it. We had been ttc for about 5 months and low and behold i was prego. I was even refered to a RE bc i have history of endometriosis and small cysts and was misdiagnosed. I had a follow up appt on Jan 12th and my doctor said i am healthy and can start trying right away. Of course we took that great advice! So, last night i had some small twinges in my right ovary and i have felt some cramping today. I bursted out in tears on the phone yesterday while i was paying a bill!! Seriously, weird. Anyways, I havent started AF yet, so just the dreadful wait right now. Has anyone gotten prego again after a misscarraige before having their period? I wasnt sure if it was even possible.. I dont even know when I should be starting or if I O'd.
Thanks for your help ladies. This site has been so inspiration to me.

Trinitynjdr

Jan 26, 2011

To: veryfaithful

Yes, it is possible to get pregnant before you have your period. If you have no signns that you recognize for ovulation just dont have sex everyday all day. It should be spaced a bit to ensure number and strength of sperm.

Dolores22

Jan 26, 2011

Your stories make me have hope.... Hi im 22 yrs old and just miscarried at 15 weeks, it was devastating, it happend on january 20th. I am so depressed, but i have hope after reading yalls stories. Could i get pregnant again and everything be ok. I need some advice has anyone had a similar story. My water broke early on the morning of the 20th and i though i had urinated on myself. Has anyone experienced this?

Movingforward1982

Jan 26, 2011

I miscarried on November 26, 2010, got my period on December 29, 2010 and now I am pregnant again January 26, 2011. I had a D&C and everything seems to be going as it should.

vicki24xx

Jan 26, 2011

To: trinitynjdr

Thank I reali hope I do get pregnant again..wish every 1 all the best and hope we all get to get pregnant n have healthy wee babys.xxx

tinahamna83

Jan 26, 2011

To: all

i am a mum of two children . i fell pregnant in november 2009 and i m/c in jan 2010 , and then i feel pregnant in nov 2010 and m/c on12 dec 2010 i did not have a DNC i had a medical managment which is me being in hopspital and bein put though it nautaly in there to comtrol the pain .
well today something in my head said do a home preg test and it came back possitive . i spoke to the hospital and they said it look's like i have not passed all of wot i was ment to pass during the time . and i was thinking that i was pregnant again .
i'm scared that there is going to be something wrong when i go to the hospital tomoz

Trinitynjdr

Jan 27, 2011

To: Dolores22

You are young. I don't think there is a reason why you couldnt get pregnant again and have a healthy baby when the time comes. On here most all of us have had similar stories. Some women have had their babies and others like me still wait. I wait with more faith that I will be pregnant and have a healthy baby. I miscarried on dec 28, 2010. It was my first, my point is don't give up on yourself. As a woman you will go through much but I think that with the help of others we just get stronger. Good luck with your future baby making.

Trinitynjdr

Jan 27, 2011

To: tinahamna83

I hope all is well with you. I think you may very well be pregnant. I know we are all different but my miscarriage was later than yours and my last hpt was negative. If you remained in the hospital they should have been checking with you to see if and when everything was passed. Best of wishes to you and your family.

Kate_1984

Jan 27, 2011

I have found reading all your comments very interesting! I had a miscarriage on the 28.12.10 at 5 weeks pregnant. My husband and I waited about 10 days and then started to try again, I was going to wait for a 'normal' period to come first but I read a lot of people had not waited and it hadn't mattered. Anyway, I guess I am due on soon? not sure. But I have had lots of pregnancy symptons in the last few days, but I am too scared to do a test! Should I do one? My husband said let's wait til' mid Feb, but that seems ageeees away! x

veryfaithful

Jan 27, 2011

To: Kate_1984

I am right there with you! I had surgery for an EP on 12/24 and havent had my period yet. I have had some weird feelings lately like I did when I was prego before, but I am too scared to test! I have no idea when AF should be coming...My husband says the same thing. Easier for them to say! Keep me posted... :) Best wishes!

Trinitynjdr

Jan 27, 2011

To: Kate_1984

Your husband is looking out for you. We had our miscarriage on the same day. I think that would be a good time actually.

He may want some more time to get some "back up Sperm" in your system, LOL. I know he wants the best.

Dolores22

Jan 27, 2011

To: Trinitynjdr

Thank you. Doctors did a lot of testing and there was no reason for why happened either infection or chromosome abnormality. I wanna try again now. Do you think i would be ok? The doctor said hopes look high for my next pregnancy. Which im praying on everyday.

Kate_1984

Jan 27, 2011

To: veryfaithful

Thank you! Fingers crossed for you too :-) x

Trinitynjdr

Jan 28, 2011

To: Dolores22

My doctor said that i should wait a month from my visit, that takes me to Feb 3rd.  I had no complications and have no clue how she made the decision.

If your cervix has returned to "normal" as close as it will get now that it has been opened by birth then i think you will be fine.  Some doctors are concerned about increased chances of infection prior to that normalcy.

I think you should talk to your doctor about what you should not put into your canal ie. tampons, douche, etc.  If your doctor thinks everything is ok with you i would totally go for it.  I wish you all the luck even before your new pregnancy.

vicki24xx

Jan 30, 2011

To: all

Hi guys I lefted a msg afew days ago I misscarryed 2 r so weeks ago I bleed 4 a wk but wen I went to the toilet there n wiped n wiped brown wiv a clot it luked like that the doctor told me to do a pregnancy test throw the week just to make sure it was neg n it was me n my partner have been trying to fall pregnant again we started trying last week..dose any1 knw wat the brown blood could be??thx

phillip750

Jan 30, 2011

To: hello

hello,

I just married last year oct 18 ,after marry we had sex weekly 5 times and now she is pregent tested on last month (2 months alredy) ,is it possible?
does that means i could be the father?

Abbiegail563

Jan 31, 2011

To: All

Hello ladies. I am 24 and have a beautiful 21 month old who i had no prbmlems with. Got pregnant again oct 2010 and misscarried Jan 25th at 17 weeks. I had to deliver and ultimatly have a DandC. I am so devistated, never knew i could hurt like this. The only thing that makes me feel better is thinking about the fact that I will be preganant again. My Dr. said she wants me to have 3 normal periods before trying again. I am not a patient person and want to just have unprotected sex and whatever happens, happens. BUT i do NOT want to go through this again, so i am going to wait. I think everyone should wait atleast 1 period. But keep us posted. Success stories after a m/c helps us all i think. Good luck and God bless.

veve11

Feb 01, 2011

Hi, Last night i went to the hospital because i started to have a light bleeding. They did test and said that i was still pregnant.This was my first ever pregnancy. However, they booked me a scan today to see what was going on. I should of been 6-7 weeks pregnant however when they did the scan the baby size was at 5 weeks and couldnt find a heartbeat. As soon as i got home I had a miscarriage. But today and yesturday even when i miscarriage i had no pain or anything. So i was shocked.
I only found out i was pregnant aswell 3 days ago so its been an eventful couple of days.
Hope i can get pregnant again very soon, how long should i wait before i can start to try again x

BabyBMine

Feb 01, 2011

Hi girls, this is my story, my last period was 11/6/10, about mid Dec i started to get very sick i actually got the Flu and throat infection the whole time it never dawned on me that i could be pregnant, well i got so sick that i finally went to the Dr on 12/21/10 by this time i started to realize that i was 2 weeks late with period, low and behold they tested me in the clinic for pregnancy and it came back Positive, I was in SHOCK as this was my 1st pregnancy,,,,on 12/24/10 Christmas Eve i miscarried i actually passed the placenta and got rushed to the Hospital, i was about 6 weeks and they said it was a complete miscarriage, i bled for a few days then went back to normal everything felt fine we were told if we wanted to start TTC that it was fine,,so we did,,, fast forward to 1/28/11 and here i am again Pregnant with 2 PPT's Im SO EXCITED and yet so worried i cant believe i could have gotten pregnant so fast and with no period in between so tomorrow 2/2/11 we have our 1st Dr Appt and im a nervous wreck, ladies i do want to say that I have the upmost Faith and i Pray for all of you and myself that everything comes up BLUE AND PINK for us all and wish me luck tomorrow i just want to see a heart beat and get to my 2nd trimester so I can really start to enjoy this exciting time in my life,,,,xoxoox if anyone has ?'s please feel free to ask!

veve11

Feb 02, 2011

To: BabyBMine

Cograts, hope all goes well for you =) hopefully soon i will be posting on here that i am again pregnant =) x

Dolores22

Feb 02, 2011

To: Trinitynjdr

Thank you so much! I wish everyone the best in there next pregnancy, just remember to pray everyday. I believe god will bring us all a healthy beautiful child if we just be patient.

Dolores22

Feb 02, 2011

To: Abbiegail563

Hey did doctors find a reason as to why you miscarried? i am so sorry for you loss i wish you the best luck in your next pregnancy.

Tricia_Lynn

Feb 04, 2011

To: everyone

hi there :) thank all of you for your posts...i am so very sorry for your losses, i know the heartbreak. i just found out christmas 2010 that i was pregnant and 3 weeks ago i m/c my baby...i was 12 weeks along. (this was my 3rd mc). here's the thing, i do have a 13,8 and 6 yr old...BUT I AM GOING through a divorce after 19 years and i am back with my high school sweetheart AFTER 23 YEARS :) he has no children, and his first wife m/c 2 of his babies. i wanted so badly to give him a child bc he IS the perfect daddy...my babies ADORE him. we were 17 yrs old THEN before he left for the marine corps...now we are almost 40. he told me that for the past 20 some years he has had this reoccuring dream that WE had a baby (girl) together)....i'm just wondering...since my divorce has been dragging on for over a year, it seems to me that God was telling us not to worry that we STILL CAN/are capable of having a baby....but that this is not HIS timing. it just makes me sad bc my ex husband had always worked 80-120 hours a week and i've raised my babies alone and have just felt totally abandond...whereas NOW....my love NEVER leaves me, he is everything to me. it's just so hard to let my EX drag this out AND WASTE MORE OF MY YEARS waiting on HIM.....i feel i am getting too old to (safely) have a healthy baby. so here's the question :) lol do you think since i haven't bled for 2 weeks...that it is safe to and maybe even EASIER to get pregnant NOW??? or should i wait?? i know the obvious answer is WAIT, but what if my EX takes another 4 years to sign???? i mean, should i put off OUR life for HIM???? help....please pray...i will pray for all of you, that God gives you your hearts' desires. xoxo Tricia

rejoyce

Feb 08, 2011

To: everyone

hi, I'm new on this forum here. My name is Joyce. I had a miscarriage black Friday last year (it certainly was a black Friday for me and my husband). It was a natural miscarriage, I was about 8 weeks along, I had seen the heartbeat at about 7 weeks, didn't discover that the baby had stopped growing, etc. at 8 weeks which was around end of October. It was devastating, but with support from family and friends, and of course God's care and comfort, DH and I are ok emotionally and physically.

The MD told us to wait 2 cycles but after 1 cycle (I got a full regular and pretty heavy period about 5 weeks after my miscarriage) I felt it was ok to try so we did and yesterday I took a home pregnancy test and it was positive! The positive line isn't very dark (like with my first pregnancy when I found out at 7 weeks) this time, I think I'm about 4 weeks along. No symptoms except for a little bit of cramping. The most reassuring thing so far is that I have had no spotting (not brown or red, sorry if TMI) like I did last time which I believe was implantation spotting (it was brown and pretty much exactly one cycle after my last full regular period). Should I email my OB/GYN? I know for sure I had 1 period after my m/c so I know they can calculate my due date (I didn't wait 2 periods but I did wait 1, so hopefully they can't get all mad at me). I am kind of afraid to email my OB for fear she'll chastise me for trying too hard. Anyone else feel like they not only failed themselves, their hubby, but also the doctor(s) and nurse(s) for having had a m/c? I know it wasn't my fault but I feel bad like I failed them (people at the hospital). I feel like I don't want to tell my OB until I'm far enough along that it's safe enough to share but of course I know that's silly, since she's seen lots of m/c's and don't blame her patients.

I'm praying for everyone of us to have a healthy, normal pregnancy and for all of us to bring home a healthy, normal, happy bundle of joy in 2011! =) God bless!

joyce

waiting4an_angel

Feb 09, 2011

To: Everyone

Hi! I am also new to this forum so here's my story and would like to ask for your opinion. I had miscarried jan 5, found out during my 8 week US that the baby stopped growing at 6w 5d, I saw the heartbeat at 6w3d. This is my 2nd m/c. on Jan 10 I passed the fetus, had light bleeding for 5 days and on the 5th day my husband got intimate. On Jan 26th I went to see my doctor and we did an US and she said that everything looked fine, that my uterus were back to normal. Did a blood test too but I didn't get a chance to call figured they will call me if they need a follow up blood test. I tried an OPK today Feb 9 and it showed positive. It surprised me because I never got + OPK (i have PCOS), I asked my husband to buy a HPT and it also turned out +. Could I really be pregnant this fast or could it be because I still have some hcg in me that's causing the HPT to be +. Any advice will be greatly appreciated.

Lynn

jennalemaster

Feb 10, 2011

i have a question, im new to this. I had a m/c january 10th, the doctor at the ER said i didnt need to have a D&C done, i was between 8-10 weeks. i think i might be pregnant again, ive had all the symptoms i had the last time, and im not lightly spotting. i noticed it last night, and it was a brownish color, and then this morning it turned to a light pink color.. but my question is, since i didn't ahve a d&C and passed it by myself, can that cause problems this time? me and my husband want so badly to be pregnant, we lost our first and was devestated and i just dnt wanna loose this one. Help Please!
jenna.

Kritt777

Feb 11, 2011

Hello Everyone!

I can't put into words how awful a miscarriage is, at any stage of a pregnancy. I was 15 weeks pregnant, planning the theme for it's room, picking top names I liked, when I went to regular check up and they heard no heartbeat. DEVESTATION puts it lightly... long story short, the baby was dead, and I had to get a D&E. I felt like I was having an abortion.... i have never been this sad in my life. We found out that it was a genetic chromosonal defect and the baby would never have lived... That was on November 19th. Now, few months later, after only having one regular cycle, I am pregnant again. Mentally, I wasn't prepared, I even thought i was SAFE... but the tests came back positive. My emotions are everywhere... Terror, excited, scared, happy.... I don't want to lose another baby. I don't know if I am strong enough. I am scared to even go to the doctors cause i dont want them telling me bad news. You all aren't alone. I hope this helps anyone else who feels the same way!

vonna2008

Feb 20, 2011

To: everyone

I had a miscarraige (miscarriage) on Jan 8th I was 6 weeks I bled for about 10 days give or take a day so here it is Feb 20 and I just found out I am pregnant again on the 18th From a blood test. How do i find out my due date ? Im really scared about this one but cant help but be excited My husband and I want another baby so bad. we have had unprotected sex since I stopped bleeding.. please e mail me if you can help me ***@****

countrygirl991

Feb 26, 2011

To: everyone

I two took a pregnancy test on Jan 29th/11 and they were both positive. The next day I took another one and it still said positive. So the next day I went to the hospital and they said it was neg. I went home and took another test and it yet again said positive. By Feb 9th i had a m/c and started bleeding feb 4th. I had a doc appt on feb 9th and did some blood work and it came up neg. The doctor thought it was the weirdest thing. But now on feb 26th i still feel pregnant and I am just waiting for my period to start around march 7th. Is it possible to be pregnant again so fast? Please help!

Gail318

Feb 26, 2011

Mc January 6, 2011 and bled only 4-5 days. Had unprotected sex around end of January. HCG level was zero on February 10, 2011 and I still haven't had a period. My breasts are really sore right now and I've had some random feelings like my period is going to start, but it hasn't. Is it possible after having zero hcg levels 16 days ago that I could still be pregnant? Or are the sore breasts probably PMS symptoms? Again, it's been about 50 days since my miscarriage. Thank you to all of you who share your experiences, it truly helps to know I am not alone!

blissfulafterall

Mar 12, 2011

To: all

I miscarried on August 10th 2010. I was 41. Then, I took a positive pregnancy test on Jan 31, 2011, a week into my being 42. I probably got pregnant on my 42nd birthday, actually. At 8 weeks, march 3rd, the ultra sound showed a fetus measuring 6w1d. I thought this was impossible since I had a positive test 6 weeks prior. The doctor had me return a week later, March 10. There was no visible image of a fetus and no heartbeat. It measured 5wks2days. So, I really should've been 9 weeks but the fetus stopped growing at 6. I could tell, the Monday prior to my thursday visit, that something was different. I wasn't as tired. My breasts weren't as swollen. My stomach felt empty. It wasn't as heartbreaking the second time. I burst out in to tears, naturally, but I was ready this time to hear it. The first time I miscarried, I was just in shock. It rendered me depressed and anxious for months, until I took a positive pregnancy test on the 3oth of January. The thing is, my first pregnancy, at 39, was a snap. We weren't even trying and I got pregnant right away. I realize now, what a blessing my son Rylan trully is. I am hopeful, reading your posts, that I will conceive again. One peace of mind I have is... mother nature decides. She knows what's best. I have to, we all have to, trust that there is a reason for everything. And while, it is torture, there is a greater purpose and blessing in the works.
I want to cherish every moment I have with Rylan in these crucial years and here I am distracted about having another baby. My life just got off to a late start but I still want to have it all. I have only been married for three years. I am in great physical health. No issues. My weight is on track. I don't feel 42, or live like a 42 yr old. I don't know if I desperately want another child because the window seems to be closing or if it is something I can't live without.
The doctor says not to have unprotected sex until she can confirm the fetus has completely passed. My visit is the 24th of march. If you would like to follow the progression of this story, my blog is blissfulafterall.blogspot.com

kelly1134

Mar 13, 2011

I miscarried on feb 10th and on March 10th I took a test and it came back positive. i have not had a period since christmas. I feel pregnant now and after I mc's i felt like the baby was gone. I always though I was pregnant til i read these stories about false positives because of hormone levels still high. When I called my doctor's office to make my appointments again, they didn't seem concerned about a false positive and I told them exactly a month ago I mc'd. Now I am nervous, but I have had a healthy baby 11 months ago. I think I will have a blood test done to check my levels. I just hope i didn't get my hopes up for nothing.

dpink143

Mar 18, 2011

hi how are all of you i really have had so many questions after i miscarried i was 6 weeks prego . the date was 3/12/11 exactly me and my fiance have tried on3/15- 3/16 and im wondering if i am going to be pregnant i feel like i more than ever want to have what i lost my fiance wants to give me o\a baby right away it was really hard when i fouind out i miscarried.

lolly1608

Mar 21, 2011

Just to update from my first post on 13 oct 2010, i am now 20 weeks pregnant with a healthy baby girl, conceived 6 weeks after my miscarriage so i hope this brings some hope to anyone wanting to conceive again straight after a miscarriage like i was x

lcrawford1308

Mar 24, 2011

hi my name is Leighanne. My husband and I have been trying to have a baby for 8yrs now. I have been through surgeries and fertile drugs. Finally the 1st of the yr I started on a new fert drug and I just knew this was gonna be the yr. I found out i was pregnant on Jan 31st. I never felt joy like that. I set up my 1st baby appt for Valentines day!!! Great day to get your 1st u/s right? Well the wednesday before V-day i had cramping and light bleeding.. Called the dr and they told me it was normal but in my heart I just knew. They had me come in the next day and the u/s showed the sac but no baby inside. I will never forget the pain and emptiness I felt that day. They sent me home to try and "pass" the baby on my own. Which was horrible pain.. I kept my appt for v-day and another dr confirmed it was a mc. The next day Feb 15 i had a d&e. So here it is a month & half later and I still didnt get period. My husband and I just started trying again because we are sick of waiting for my period... Im still so sad.

lcrawford1308

Mar 24, 2011

Yes, i was only 6wks along but I was so in love with my baby. And wanted nothing more then to be a mother... Everyone around me is prego all my friends and family members have babies and here we are. I always wanted to be a mother. I have no one to talk to that understands. My husbands great but he doesnt understand my feelings. He looks at it like we finally got preg n its possible. I look @ it like im never gonna no that baby... Im hoping we get preg again very soon. I kno it'll never take away the pain i feel over this loss but i still wanna be someones mommy!!

bree80

Mar 29, 2011

Would like to tell everyone that if your doctor asks you to wait one cycle between a m/c and getting pregnant again, please do. I did not listen and have had 3 back to back miscarriages. 6 months of heartbreaks. 11/12/10 7 week m/c went for D&C. 1/14/11 6 week m/c went for Kuma Biopsy...D&C without meds. 3/29/11 5.5 week m/c and bleeding has just began. Cramping badly.
All 3 have had HCG's way over 3000
I am so numb now! It is hard to even imagine getting pregnant again. Or waiting for a period. I tried so hard to wait for a period to come, but it never happened. That is when I found out I was pregnant again. I dont know if I want to cry, scream, or run away from all of this.
Like many of you our husbands are supportive, but they just dont get it. And many of our friends are pregnant or either never experienced heartache like this.
So please take my advice and wait one cycle. It may seem like forever, but it is longer to not wait for a period and get pregnant and miscarry again.

lcrawford1308

Mar 30, 2011

Bree08 im so sorry for all ur losses. Ive only had one mc 2/15/11 but the pain is still there. My hubby n i have been trying for 7yrs. I just found out tonight that a really good friend of mine is prego. She has been off bc for 2months.. I hate the way i feel. I hate the jealous feeling... The why not me thoughts. I feel horrible. Im still trying to get through this and its sooo hard when its everywhere you look.. i feel like it is constantly in my face.. Im still waiting for the pain to fade... Does it ever???

claires75

Apr 02, 2011

To: EVERYONE

Hi all, my last period was dec 27th 2010, found out i was pregnant 2nd feb 2011, and sadly miscarried 3 weeks ago 12th march 2011, our baby had died at 6 weeks and i didnt find out till i was supposed to be 10 weeks, totally gutted ! We are TTC straight away, i only bled for 5 days, and have no idea when i will ovulate or when i should test for pregnancy. I cant wait for 7 weeks after MC like the midwife advised. I really want a baby, this was my 2nd MC and i cant go through another one :((

lcrawford1308

Apr 02, 2011

Claires-im really sorry to hear about your loss. I too TTC right away. Although, i just got my pd. It is very very hard to deal with. Alot of sleepless nights. Our situations are too much of the same, it brakes my heart. Dec 29th was my last pd, i found out preg jan 31, miscarried @ 6wks on feb 15th.

lawzc

Apr 05, 2011

hi! this is the first time i have wrote on anythin like this but desperatly need some advice... here goes,i found out i was pregnant, had very faint positives on 6 hpt, doctors did blood tests and was 33 then 3 days later 65, i started with crampin on march 4th soon to be followed by 3 days of bleedin, i was 5wk pregnant and straight away recieved negative urine and hcg blood results... me and my partner wanted the baby terribly and once all the bleedin had stopped we started tryin again... one wk ago i did a home pregnancy test and got a strong positive straight away, repeated the test daily for a week recieving the same result every time (now done 7 in total) had blood taken at the doctors and hcg level is only 29, i am confussed as i thought the blood test would be stronger, do i stand a high chance of miscarryin again, my doctors keep tellin me to wait a week but thats hard when the baby is wanted so badly

juswannakno

Apr 06, 2011

To: hey

iam i was 5 weeks when i found out i was prego on 3/ 19/2011 then days later i started bleeding.. it wasnt a lot that soaked the pad. for about 7 days i went to the doctor twice a took a test it came out nev. then they took blood and said i was still prego but i might be havein a miscarrige.. they really couled not tell me nothing cause i was still early/ or see anything. on the urtlasound.. so know my breast is not sore anymore.. but i still fell prego i scared to take a nother test. cause i dont want my feeling hurt.. i have stop bleeding sense then .. so me and my husband are trying again.. i just want my baby back if i lost it. i have a appt with my doctor on the 18 wish me luck

lcrawford1308

Apr 06, 2011

Lawzc: after i had my mc my hgc levels took awhile to go back to 0. It takes up to 3 wks. Even though you could be possibly preg again!! good luck! Keep checking ur levels. I would do a test a week. The dr usually orders one until ur levels r back down or in ur case maybe up again :-) Juswannakno: i was almost 6wks when i found out i was mc and they could see it on an ultrasound so im 100% sure they could for u too. Thats weird they said that. Maybe a second get a opinion.....i still felt preg for weeks after i mc. My hormones were outta wack. But i will tell u my breast were soooo sore when i was preg and all the sudden it just stopped and a couple days later i mc. I wish the both of u lots of luck. My hubby n i are back on our schedule and still ttc. So hoping by the end of the month im prego again... Wish me luck. Keep me posted girls :-)

juswannakno

Apr 07, 2011

To: lcrawford1308

thanks so much for that advice it really help.... iam trying agian it has been 14 years sense i gave birth to my son.. and this baby was a surpise to me. i was happy then i lost him or her.... i jus dont kno what going on with my body.. but i wish u all the luck in the worled i will kepp u post if i become prego again

lcrawford1308

Apr 07, 2011

Yes, deff keep us posted. i wish u all the best of luck. It is soo hard to get through a lost of a baby. Im struggling more n more to get through the days. One minute im ok and the next im not ok...very sad...i wouldnt wish this on anyone.. Good luck ladies!!

mamaduty23

Apr 10, 2011

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lcrawford1308

Apr 12, 2011

Mamaduty: you could be pregnant but im sure ur hcg levels just arent back to zero. It could take up to 3 wks to be back to normal. Also after my DNC i still felt preg for like 2 wks after... I know ur just trying to keep the faith and just hope but sometimes getting ur hopes up leads to more heartache and heartbrake. Just wait a couple of weeks to take another test. Good luck. Hope everyone is doing well!!

vixen224

Apr 13, 2011

To: All the Beautiful Ladies here

I too had a miscarriage on the 12th of November 2010. It was devastating, I was pregnant with that surprise baby TEN years after my last son was born. It was a girl, so it was very hard. I was already 21 weeks along with her, and they told me she stopped developing just days before discovering she was gone. March of this year, I found out I am AGAIN pregnant! I am already 12 1/2 weeks along, so I conceived pretty closely after the miscarriage. This pregnancy already seems a little different then my last, but it has me so worried day in and day out that something similar will happen all over again. I don't want to think that God would make my husband and sons and I suffer another loss. I hope that this is God's way of telling us that he was preparing my body after 10 years for a baby, that I was going to be destined to loose, in order to get to this pregnancy. I hope that all works out well for each and every one of you. I hope that all of us have healthy babies to hold soon enough! God Bless you all. I have had a total of three miscarriages, and so now I am very high risk, along with a few medical conditions that is going to stress my body a bit. I relate with you all on the loss of our sweet babies. Good Luck Ladies <3

lcrawford1308

Apr 13, 2011

Vixen: thank you for your words of wisdom. It gives me alittle hope. Im very sorry for ur losses. I could possibly be preg again this month (fingers crossed) i wont know for a couple more days. Good luck to u all.

ceeceemarie1981

Apr 15, 2011

well i just had a m/c on March 22nd and only bled for five days and now....its april 15th and i started to puke and gag at everything again and my breasts have started to hurt again . could i have gotten pregnant less than a month? i feel like im pregnant all over again :) but i dont wanna get my hopes up

lcrawford1308

Apr 18, 2011

Ceecee: it could be a possiblity. I would deff schedule an appt for bloodwork to check ur hcg levels. I wish u all the best. Good luck and keep us posted!!

judgejools71

Apr 20, 2011

Hi all
Im new to this site so hopefully some1 can help me....
I had a m/c on 14th dec 2010,i was 12 weeks but scan showed baby didnt develop passed the 6th week i started m/c day after u/s.2 weeks ago found out i was pregnant again but 6 days ago started bleeding and was told i was having a blighten ovum,2 days ago i started ovulating and now i gag at the slightest thing have tender boobs,hot sweats and lower backache whats going on????

kaayleighxo

Apr 20, 2011

im 16 i had a miscarriage on the 29th of january, it wasnt a planned pregnancy, my boobs and everything went straigh back to normal, i had unprotected sex a few times afterwards,and then a month later i missed my period, i came on and it wasnt a proper one, i was on for like 3 days and light, im having symptoms, my boobs are huge and they hurt, i dont know what to do im to scared to go to the doctor, i done a pregnancy tests before i had the miscarriage and it was negative, that weekend i went out and drank, and it happend, and like now iive done pregnancy test and they too are coming up negative, i honestly think im pregnant, :/ and advice?

kaayleighxo

Apr 20, 2011

im 16 i had a miscarriage on the 29th of january, it wasnt a planned pregnancy, my boobs and everything went straigh back to normal, i had unprotected sex a few times afterwards,and then a month later i missed my period, i came on and it wasnt a proper one, i was on for like 3 days and light, im having symptoms, my boobs are huge and they hurt, i dont know what to do im to scared to go to the doctor, i done a pregnancy tests before i had the miscarriage and it was negative, that weekend i went out and drank, and it happend, and like now iive done pregnancy test and they too are coming up negative, i honestly think im pregnant, :/ and advice?

stacey1212

Apr 21, 2011

i mc 2 months i was 10 wks 4 days and me an my partner have bein trying for over 4 yrs i was very destrort. i have that funny feelng that i am preg agen as i am havin mild cramps in my left side an spotting very very lightly. i really want 2 do a test but because my period is not due yet i am worried if i am that it will not show wot do i do as i just cant wait x

stacey1212

Apr 21, 2011

hi everyone
i mc the 24th of feb i was 10 weeks and 4 days.
me and my partner had bein trying for 4 years an nothing happened i had test done an they all came bk normal. in january my mom got me 2 do a preg test just for fun cus i was always doin them i did the test an it came bk positive i was over the moon and shock at the same time i couddnt believe i was finally going 2 be a mommy it was amazing my partner was at work so i called him we was so excited.
i had bleeding all the way through they put it down 2 a hematomer in my womb they sed baby would be fine but on thursday the 24th i was rushed 2 a and e with bad abdominal pain and very heavy bleeding i passed my baby in the waiting area as the nhs are so laid bk they didnt see me fast enough i no they couldnt have stopped it but at least i wouldnt have bin front of so many ppl.
it now 2 months on an the pain of wot i went though is still there
i was on and off bleeding as everythink came away natrually we have had sex on many ocations since as they told me i could try wen ever i felt ready.
i am now spotting very light but proper blood and have slight crampin in my left side.
i really wanna no if i am but my period anit even due yet and i have heard a test strip may not show even if i am what do u all think???????

lcrawford1308

Apr 21, 2011

judge: you sound like you could very well be prego but i would wait a week and take a test or even call a dr and go see whats going on. Keep us posted!! Kaayleigh: 16 & pregnant? Are you sure your ready for that? If you are I hope all works out for you and things turn out the way you want. I have no advice that would be helpful to you, im sorry. Stacey: im in the same boat as you now. Im coming up on my period due date and i cant help but think im prego. Im cramping light in my left side of stomache. no spotting yet though. I have prego symptoms but sometimes i think its all in my head cuz me n hubby have been trying for 8yrs. We got prego once and miscarriage on valentines day of this yr. Your right, the pain is still there and seems to hurt more n more as the days go on. I wish u all the best of luck. Keep us all posted...we need success stories to give people Faith and Hope..

sian_lou

Apr 23, 2011

Hi, iv very recently had a miscarriage on April 13th, two days before my long awaited 12 week scan.I feel like my whole world has fallen apart, but then to be told that i had a blighted ovum, which means my baby died very early on and my body still thought it was pregnant, had the bump, worst morning sickness ever etc.Can't get my head around it!Has anyone else had this happen to them??and as for waiting for a period before trying again, after reading all of ur stories, im ready to start tonight!:) x

lcrawford1308

Apr 23, 2011

sian lou: i am very very sorry for your loss. That is sooo horrible. It has been 2.5 months since my miscarriage and Im struggling sooo much. Today I was schedule for my period, which it didnt come so i took a test.... NEGITIVE! Story of my life. Maybe next month. Keep us posted :-)

sian_lou

Apr 24, 2011

lcrawford:its so frustrating, but i keep telling myself be positive and keep trying!there are so many people pregnant around me, and also so many trying, with some of those having ivf, a friend of mine has had ivf 3times with no luck, and now has fallen pregnant by natural means.....that gives me hope!it is so very hard, yesterday i cried all day, today seems to be a better day.....we can only keep trying.good luck xxx

lcrawford1308

Apr 24, 2011

Sian lou- it is so frustrating. I deff know what your saying when you say everyone around u is pregnant. That is me to. My sister-in-law just had a baby boy n my other sister in law is due soon. My b friend just had her baby and another one just found out she preg. Plus 6 ppl @ my work r preg. The sad thing is ive been trying for 8yrs and all that happen to me was a miscarriage. Im so sad n hurt n it just doesnt wanna go away. Still no sign of period but still negative test.. Ugh very very frustrating. Especially when im trying to stay positive!! good luck hun!

BBabyboo

Apr 27, 2011

To: All

Ladies, my name is Reginah and I had something the doctors called a pregnancy that never developed. I had been trying for over a year and my husband nd I just kept having faith.When i found out i was pregnant i was really excited and i was only 4weeks, and i felt so devasted when my scan didnt show the embroe sack and my HCG just kept on dropping from 600 to 350 in jst a week. The evacuation was done on 25 March 2011.Yesterday, April 26 I did a home preg test and it was positive (one stipe very visible the other nt so visible).I am scared to go to the doctor, i am actually nt sure what to do because i have not yet had my first period after they did the Evacuation. The doctor said we could start right away and we did, 2 days after the evacuation was done and i am really wondering if i could really be pregnant again or if its still in my mind.i am really scared,pls advice.

lcrawford1308

Apr 27, 2011

Bbabyboo: it could very well be possible that you are pregnant again. But you could also be testing positive because your levels have not reached zero yet. I would wait a week and test again or i would call your dr. I hope this helped. Good luck :-)

dawny19

Apr 27, 2011

To: Sian_Lou

Hi i know what you are going through i myself have just had a miscarriage at 12 weeks 2 days before my scan date. I was rushed to hospital by ambulance as they could not stop the bleeding. Not only did we loose our baby but my hubby nearly lost me too, having to go through the contractions and everything and then have a d& c was soul destroying so i know exactly what you are going through. You so want to try again but need to have chance to grieve, my doctor told me to wait at least 1 month due to everything my body had been through i would stand more chance if i wait a while. I really do hope that you get that baby you want and im sure that next time everything will be ok for you. Just make sure your body is ready to try again to maximise your chances of having a health pregnancy.

lcrawford1308

Apr 27, 2011

Dawny i agree with you 100%. Making sure your body is ready is the keep to a healthy "next" pregnancy. Its going on 3 months and it is killing me. It is destorying my life. we've been trying for 8yrs now and the last 2.5 yrs have been an uphill battle for me. This baby situation is taking over my whole life. i waking up thinking bout it, all day it is on my mind, i cry myself to sleep eveeynight thinking about it. Sometimes i think why not me? Selfish right. I would be an amazing mother I know i would be..i have so much love to give... Sooo HEARTBROKEN!!!

awomanda

Apr 28, 2011

Hi everyone!

I am in the same boat as many of you. I found out I was pregnant with my first child on March 17th and miscarried on March 28th. It was devastating! My doctor told me that because I miscarried naturally (no D&C) we could start trying again right away. We had unprotected sex the week after the miscarriage and have used protection ever since, on the fence as to whether or not we want to give ourselves some emotional healing time. Now I am feeling the same symptoms I had when I found out I was pregnant, minus the cramps, but a lot of those symptoms are similar to PMS symptoms, and I have not yet started my period. When should I take a test? If I am pregnant, I want to get it confirmed right away by my doctor's office, but I am afraid to be disappointed.

erelizabeth

Apr 28, 2011

Hi

In the beginnig of January 2011, I had weird symtopms cramping (sharp pains on my right side,) pee often, headaches, tiring, spotting, couple weeks later I went to clinic and I was pregnant 4.5 weeks. I was nervous because I didn't knew I was pregnant. In march 9 2011 I was 11.2 weeks and i had a m/c. That night was very scary I didn't knew what was happening I couldn't realized until couple hours later. Now we are in April 28, 2011, ever since i had my m/c a week later i started using my birth control pills i have had only one menstrual period so far Im bearly going to start on my secound menstrual but im feeling very strange. I'm cramping horrible, tired, sleepy, I'm not really hungry i just want to sleep. We been having relationship me and my husband and every time we do it he always cums in me. But after my m/c a week later we were already having sex. Is it possible that I can be pregnant again? Is it safetly? I'm so scared because I don't want to get happy and then lose it again.

stargate123

Apr 29, 2011

To: Anyone

Sorry for your losses, my heart goes out to you all. I knew the odds of pregnancies ending in miscarriage when we started TTC but like most people I didn't think it would be me. Reading these stories has really helped. Hearing a doctor say you can get pregnant again no problem just isn't the same as hearing about it actually happeneing.

Here's my story. I have been off the pill since 2009 but not activly trying. Was getting a bit worried cause I thought it would have happened by accident by now. Started actively trying for 6months before I got pregnant. Was happily pregnant for 11 weeks. I had a missed miscarriage on April 07 at 11 weeks, didn't find out untill the ultra sound that there was no heartbeat and the fetus had stopped developing around 6 weeks. I had NO signs of miscarriage. Infact I had been on here reading the MC stories and decided to avoid these sites because it was a bit alarming and caused some un needed stress so I had tried to follow the advise "Enjoy your pregnancy, don't worry about miscarriages cause there's nothing you can do about it" So it was absolutly devastating to hear " I wish I had better news for you" . The doctor asked if I still felt pregnant. I didn't answer but I had the urge to smack her in the face. Of course I did, I had no idea until the moment she said it. I felt cheated. Like my body cheated me out of the pregnancy. I totally understand it's for the best. Nature's way of stopping something that isn't working out and wasn't meant to be but that was the first time I would have been able to hear the heartbeat so going from one extreme to the other all in one day really sucked. I started spotting the day I got back from the US. Why on earth did it take so long and just happened to start the day I found out? One of my first thoughts was, how am I going to tell everyone. I had jumped the gun and told mostly everyone I knew alot earlier than I should have. Silly to worry because everyone was very supportive and let us deal withit in our own way. I say now that I wont make that mistake again next time but I probably will.

So I left the hospital with the options of a D&C, medications or natural MS. I didn't want to commit to anything at that point and had started to spot when I got home that day anyway so I decided to go about it naturally. I bled very lightly for three days with no cramps and thought this should be a sad but easy experience. Wrong. Then on day three of spotting I started to get cramps, progressively worse as the evening went on. Got to the point that nothing was helping the very severe cramping. I was in too much pain to even cry and almost went to the hospital but after reading other womens similar experiences online we decided to wait it out. After afew hours of that I passed something and immediately felt 100X better. Tylenol and heating pad helped. I still feel silly talking about the pain because what could that be compared to the actual delivery of a full term baby. Either way it friggin hurt. I bled heavily for the next week or so with various sized clots but no more cramps then it started to taper off. Over all it was close to two weeks of bleeding. My husband was so supportive of me during this whole thing, I love him so very much.

Just wanted to share that incase someone has a similar circumstance than me and I wont lie that it felt good getting all that out. We didn't make plans on when to start trying again but just continued having unprotected sex. It's only been a weekish since I stopped bleeding and am very anxious to start my period so i can get back on top of things(ovulations days) but yesterday I spotted light pink then nothing today. Very similar to what happened when I got pregnant (implamentation bleeding). I have no extensive hopes of being pregnant right now as my cycle is probably so frigged up it could be anything but after reading some of these stories the thought has crossed my mind. Anyhoo at this point I'm surprised and a little proud at how calm and collected I am. What happens, happens. I'm hopefull and positive I'll get pregnant again and carry full term wheather that's now or sometime in the future.

Wishing all of you the best. Women are strong and I like to think we can handle anything that gets thrown at us.

lcrawford1308

Apr 29, 2011

Im sorry to hear about ur losses. It just seems so unfair. I finally had bloodwork today and sure enough, just my luck, NEGATIVE!! The dr doesnt know why im so late and sick and blah blah blah... So i bawled all day!!! Im so tired of the hurt and disappointment :-(

jbee580

May 01, 2011

Hi, I had a miscarriage 4 weeks ago today, I was 11 weeks, but it had stopped developing at 6 ...which I can kinda get my head round, although I was totally devestated, and have been through the emotions. I have just brought a house, and am getting married in 2 months (so yes the pregnancy want planned)Im so busy with lots of lovely things going on in my life.....but all I want is to faller preggers again!!!!!

Flyte8884

May 02, 2011

I had a natural miscarriage 3weeks ago we have been tryin again since the bleeding stopped. I have had spotting for the past 3days could this be my period starting or is it possible I could be pregnant again. We want a baby so bad took us 1yr 5months only to miscarry at 6wks. Could anybody help me at all.

Thanx

lexismommy07

May 05, 2011

To: lexis mommy

I just had an m/c on April 7th and it's now may 5th and I am pregnant again I am worried that I am going to m/c again because I've been having slight cramping and that's how it started out last time!! Do you think if I take prometrium that I would have a better chance at keeping this baby? Last time they said I was only a few weeks amf the levels weren't rising fast enough please help!!!

wolfie081

May 15, 2011

To: stargate123

Just to let you know that I found out last week at my 13 week scan that there was no heart beat and it looked like it was only 10 weeks old. Although I never had any morning sickness I still felt pregnant unlike last time when all my symptoms disappeared. I am now waiting for a d+c tomorrow so feel in limbo. The reason I am posting this blog is that we didn't tell anyone because we wanted to get through the first scan. Due to my age - 46 we were worried that there would by complications e.g. Downs and didn't want to tell people if we had difficult decisions to make. We also didn't want to upset our parents incase in didn't work out. Thought we were safe from m/c at 13 weeks but there you go. Worst bit however is that if no one knows you haven't got anyone to talk to and people obviously don't know that you've had devasting news so you have to try to carry on as if nothing has happened. Its like the 'elephant in the room' but its your elephant and no one else knows its there. Its better to share your news and then deal with the the bad if it happens - at least it gives you a chance to talk. I will be having my normal weekly phone chat with my mum later and she'll ask if anything interesting has happened during the week and what do I have planned for next and I have no idea what I will say. Is it worth upsetting her for no reason? Probably not.

shortstuff09m

May 15, 2011

To: mz.shelle

this is crazy i had a still birth on Nov. 18th i was 5 1/2 months I had a little boy but now im prego again at 4months i'm excited and scare all together. i run to he doctor for every pain. 'm praying this time my baby lives me and my husband is really ready for our own family now.

Chocomama

May 18, 2011

To: Ttys

I know how you feel I felt the same way but I got my af a month after the miscarriage I was 12 weeks but my hubby and I are ttc again everyday this month and suppose to get my af on the 25th im hopin we succeed, but all I can say is pray and hope for the best.. Some people wait til their first af and some people try before and succeed but its best to wait til ur af so u can figure out the due date, good luck

hp0212

May 24, 2011

To: everyone

i had m/c last month ,stared bleeding on 11 april 2010 ,i found out on sunday that im pregnent again 1 month and 10 days ,but im scared that it want happen again ,i had previous 3 m/c

ThaBory

May 25, 2011

To: Everyone

I m/c on May 6- i was 5 weeks pregnant and my hubby cant wait to find out if i'm pregnant again- he even told me last night he has all the symptoms...he said i must be pregnant again.
Clearly from everyone else's response i might be but i cant wait to find out...

splashgirl

May 26, 2011

I miscarried on April 30th (4 weeks ago) Last week I had my blood drawn and my doctor said my HCG was negative. I've had sex twice since the miscarriage. I've been barely spotting this week...only a little pink tinge now and then when I wipe and a tiny spot of brown mucus. I'm wondering if this is normal or if I could be pregnant again!! Maybe I'm just crazy b/c I really want to get pregnant! I hate waiting!! Anyone have a similar experience after a miscarriage?

charlieTX

Jun 03, 2011

To: everyone

hi everyone i found out today jun2/11 i miscarried im soooo hurt feel useless so empty. only someone that has the same thing that happen to them knows what im talking about.. im been crying all day since the second i found out, i was spotting and brown mucus came out. i was soo scared. i went to the ER they just told me to go home and then when i got home i went to the washroom i pee and more red came out. i called my husband and he freaked out he rush me back to a different hospital and they check they said its ok then told me to go to the assessment department and then there i told em the news. i cried and cried til now as i am writing this i still want to cry,but what can i do? i do want to get pregnant right away but my friend went through the same told me not too. She said because my cervics is open and is not strong enough in one month to recover so how can i help me carry another one? she sound right but if i dont have a baby right away i am afraid to wait and it takes me longer time to get prego again.... but then if i dont wait i might be miscarried again! you guys.... I AM SOOOOO scared and want to have a baby soooooo bad but i only have ONE miscarried but it hurt me so bad i dont think i can go through this again.. it hurtsss sooo bad. i hope i get another prego but plz god you love me u bless me with a child plz dont take it away again!!!! no mother should go through this, and i hope everyone will have a turn to have a baby... god bless you all

Kristyro

Jun 05, 2011

To: charlieTX

Hi, I read you post and I completely know your pain. I found out on June 2 that im 5 weeks preg and started to bleed the same day. Ive had my hcg level checked twice so far. the 1st test came back low and I get the results of the 2nd test 2morrow. Ive been bleeding since. The dr said shes not sure whats going on yet due to my uterus still being thick. Im scared to death. I have 4 children from a previous marriage but this is the 1st with my husband now. And it tears me apart because not only would this be our 1st child but his very 1st child of his own..ever. Hes a wonderful stepdad to my children and I want this baby so bad. But I fear that I am in fact having a miscarriage. I have never had this trouble before but I am older now,36. I know how much pain you've been in because for the 1st 2 days all I did was cry. Yesterday was the 1st day that I actually felt like I could deal with this. My husband has been so sweet and supportive. If I am having a miscarriage I plan to try again as soon I can. I'm sooo sorry for our loss and I pray that you have a healthy pregnancy again real soon!

charlieTX

Jun 05, 2011

To: Kristyro

Well at least you have four kids this is my first so it makes me even MORE scared to have another one due to a m/c I don't think I can handle another one I'm so scared! I don't know what to do my hubby is supporting but yet don't know the actual feelin of how us woman feels. But I know hes so super hurt inside, but he have to suck it up n go to work. That's what I feel really bad for him. So what did the doc say about ur baby?? And ppl say right after ur miscarriage u can always have another one faster but I think u should wait it's hard on ur body. My family told me to wait at least three month

fahima22

Jun 05, 2011

To: n.

hi this is my first time on this forum all your stories has helped so far i had a miscarriage on 14.05.11 and bled for 6 days me and my hubby started trying straight after the bleeding. Since 03.06 i have been having period like pains comes and goes had a bath and pain killers its working took a HPT negative think its too early will wait next week for my period to start if no show will do a HPT ON 14.06 hope it comes positive.

teteboo22

Jun 07, 2011

wow, reading all your stories have really gave me hope...i believe i am going through a miscarriage as we speak if i havent passed the baby already, doctors are still doing blood work but i just dont feel deep down that i am nolonger prego, im just praying that i will concieve (conceive) asap although that i still dont know if i had a miscarriage yet i have passed blood clots and a greyish matter so really ive lost all hope at this point, me and my husband have been trying for 3 yrs and i had just found out that i was prego 10 days ago and this happens so i feel the only thing i have to look foward to is another positive test, please give me any pointers as to when we should start trying agine....thank you

babyfever22

Jun 14, 2011

I had mc on june 23..took test today says light pink line veryyyy light...i lost baby on feb 2 also...hope n pray this works out...havent had a period since mc is it leftover hcg levels that made test positive???

SingingDalton

Jun 15, 2011

I had a misscarriage March 8th 2011 @ 9 1/2 weeks. Then June 3rd I found out I was Preggers again. I had My BHCG Drawn and at first it was 36 then in 2 days it jumped to 109!!!! The only thing is that I have a lot of cramps now.... rather sharp pains to each of my overies.... I'm just so worried!!! I had my BHCG drawn today at lunch, only because I expressed my consern to my Doc. But I'm Wayyyyyy Nervous to hear the results... If my numbers are High then that means everything should be okay!!!!!!!!!! But still....

Good luck everyone!!!! I will Pray for each one of you!

babyplease321

Jun 16, 2011

Going through a m/c after wanting baby for 5 years and my husband has just agreed. I do have a 8year old and really wanting a second. I knew it was to good to be true when I fell pregnant first month and after 1 week spend ridiculous amouts on preg tests and wondering is there a line or not then buying digital and read on sunday pregnant 1-2 weeks and woke up yesterday and bleeding with bad cramps...feels low but knows something was not right. 5 weeks m/c

kiki634

Jun 17, 2011

i had a miscarriage on may 25 2011 i was really torn apart by the lost of my baby i was 8 weeks and i planned everything around my baby now im tryin again i hope that this time i can keep my baby i really want to be a mommy hopefully in a couple of weeks i find out that im pregnant again after reading all of you alls story i know that im not alone i really appreciate all of you all sharing your stories i still cry about my baby and i pray that it will be ok this time

lauren3783

Jun 22, 2011

I had my last period the end of march beginning of april twards the end of april i was spotting for a few days, i went to the doctors and he siad i was about 8weeks. On monday night i had a slight bleeding (not enough to say i had lost my baby) at this time I would be around 10weeks, I had my scan today and the nurse said i had miscarried but i stil have fluid and i have done two pregnancy tests is there any chance i could have miscarried and become pregnant straight after ?

babynumber1please

Jun 30, 2011

To: everyone

Hello Ladies,

Sorry to hear about all your loses. A MC is so difficult to go through.
I too had a MC on May 26. I was 9 weeks pregnant.
It started off with some very light pink disharge which then started turning brown. I knew something was wrong and had my huband rush me to the hospital. The dr. who saw me tought I was loosing my mind and said it was normal to bleed as long as it was not bright red. I was so frusterated and explained that I no longer felt pregnant. She insisted that I relax and stop over analyzing. I didn't give up and demanded that I get blood tests for my HCG.
The next day I went back to the hospital and my HCG levels were at 5696. The dr. was very appy and told me everything was fine. Being stuburn I still didnt believe her, I asked for an Ultrasound......Sure enough I was right. My baby was no longer there it was just a sack. The ultra sound tech explained that the baby must have disintergrated however Ihad to see my dr. asap because I still had the sac. When I finally saw my dr. explained that it was nothing that I did or had not done and that it is very normal. I decided to take medication to speed up the process. I was in so much pain for eight days. I thought I was dying ***as if the emotional part was not enough*** My dr explained that I should wait to have 2 menstrul cylces before trying again.
This is where it gets complicated...My hubby and I started having intercourse shortly after I stopped bleeding. the past week I feel exactly the same way I felt before finding out I was pregnant the last time. Nausea, headaches and extremly tired. Yesterday I had some spotting and figured it was my period. Today, the spotting is gone but I feel really weak and exhausted. I went for some blood test today and should be finding out my HCG level shortly. Hopefully that will tell me something.
This is so emotionally draining.

searphia

Jul 02, 2011

I had a m/c on the 27th of May and bled for 3 days. We were crushed. But God, in its many forms stepped in, and I am now 5 weeks pregnant. I think I got pregnant 1-2 weeks after the m/c so whoever says you are not more fertile after a m/c is wrong. This one just feels different. There was bleeding by this time with the first one and everything felt more tenuous. Now everything feels like its "stuck" and not going anywhere. We are really happy, just feeling a very wide range of emotions. Happy, Nervous, Cautious, Excited. My fiance has had two boys and this is my first child. I am 27 years old and he is 37. What are the chances of us having a girl? Just because he had 2 boys w 2 other ladies doesnt mean we'll have a boy, right? Either way we'll be ecstatic, but Im just wondering what people think. Thanks and "baby dust" to those who are trying after a m/c. I know how painful they are, but obviously you can get pregnant and odds are you will again. Good luck!

Shyladybaby27

Jul 04, 2011

To: just need help

I recently had a miscarriage after 91/2 weeks of pregnancy but I was told that the fetus stopped growing @6 weeks... in a short story I am devasted and cried for days.... Recently I noticed my breast are tender and I am extremely tired... I have not had since with my husband as I am still bleeding but we did however have unprotected sex 1 day before it started what could this mean emotionally not ready for anything as yet

sanaa89

Jul 05, 2011

Hi everyone
I want to share my story and hopefully get some feedback or personal story as well. I miscarried on May 28th I was 8 week pregnant, stopped bleeding on June 5. Last week I started feeling nausea, back pain, sore breasts, tiredness etc.. all the pregnancy symptoms but I'm too scared to take a pregnancy test. Is it possible to get pregnant that early after miscarriage and what do you think the percentage of miscarriage again? If anyone had the same story happened to them please write back.

Thank you

Yingwee

Jul 08, 2011

I had a missed miscarriage in April. Didn't find out untill the ultra sound which was really devastaing. That would have been our first. I bled for almost two weeks. Then didn't get my period until 38days after I first started spotting. After that I had a normalish 24 day cycle. We had started TTC right away regardless of the doctors suggestions to wait three months. She explained that there is only soft evidence to suggest waitng a few cycles is better. My opinion is that If no one really knows for sure what causes a miscarriage, I don't believe them for one second that they know waiting three months will give you better chances. It's a toss up. I had never heard about your cervix not being strong enough (someone mentioned that in an earlier post) but that kinda makes sense. On the other hand they say your more fertile right after a miscarriage. Either way we didn't want to wait so we didn't. It was our choice
This month it was around the time I was supposed to start my period but I had a feeling something might be different this time. I had some cramps which I had the last time I was pregnant. I had a HPT at home so I tried it and came back negative. Then I spotted a few hours later. Thought what a waste of a test. The blood I saw was faint light pink (same as last time) but there was a bit more of it so I didn't put two and two together. Even when it went away the next day I still didn't get it. A little more pink blood the day after. Nothing ever ended up in my panties it was always in my cervix so no way did that count as any kind of a period. But the negitive test through me for a loop. I waited 4days from the last test to test again. This time I bought those really cheap ones and it came back POSITIVE. Due to ovulatuion I would be 4 weeks and a few days. that's includeing those two weeks that don't really count. Everything is so similar to last time so I know it's right. But I'm obviously scared because it's the same as last time!! I honestly wish I'd have morning sicknes everyday just so I'd know I was still pregnant. I feel like my body tricked me last time because I was 11 weeks when I was told it only developed to 6weeks and I'm so afraid it will happen again. It's all so confusing because I have cramps but alot of people say it's just your muscles of ligiments stretching and I've heard others say cramps and backpain are a sign of miscarriage. Nature ***** if it's going to confuse us by having the miscarriage and pregnancy symptoms so similar. I go see my Doctor next week for blood test to confirm. I hear everyone talking about the HCG levels but I don't recall anyone ever telling me mine. I know I can't do anything either way but I don't want to be blind sided again. Will most doctors do that test for you if you ask them? And do they do it multiple times so you can see that it's increasing?

Good luck to everyone. I'll try to update this with any news

enya636

Jul 11, 2011

To: all of you mummys

In my own personal experience after 2 previous miscarriages, i got pregnant immediately after 2 or 3 weeks. I have just had my third miscarriage and had to have a d and c at 10 weeks. Yes u can get pregnant very quickly and before your first period. I did twice and i did talk today with my GP about trying again straight after a d and c and he said there is no evidence to suggest its not ok. I think they like u to wait so they can date your pregnancy. If you ladies have irregular cycles after a miscarriage chart your temp every morning and watch for other fertility signs and that will enable you to know wen u can get pregnant. U can see on your chart wen your temp goes up wait for 10 days then do a test. I have been charting for 14 years now since the birth of baby no 2 and it has enabled me to know whats going on. Most women do not ovulate on day 14 as i have found to be the case in my own life so charting is the best way to know. This is all out of my own experience of course and each one of us is unique and different. My heart goes out to you all who have lost a little one. I hope this will help some of you who are going thru what i am. ******************* has help with charting and related issues for those of you who are interested. We are all in this together and i wish each and every one of you special mums and mums to be all the best in your endeavours to get pregnant and have a successful pregnancy. Enya

enya636

Jul 11, 2011

To: everyone

so sorry i accidently posted this comment twice. This is my first time to do this and i have a lot to learn still :)

tnkennychesney

Jul 11, 2011

To: Everyone

I just had a MC on June 20 after trying from 2004 that resulted in a MC. We were so happy I was having a baby. After so long and I had lost 70 pounds and was healthy as I think I ever was. I had a scan at week 7 to 8 but baby only measured 5. My Dr said he thought my dates may be off and gave me the benefit of the doubt. The 20 I started bleeding. I just said to my husband last night that I wondered if I could get pregnant before I get my period. After finding this I am so hopeful and will take the right steps that I need.. My Dr is the best and he thinks it won't take long. I hope hes right....

rebecca25872

Jul 11, 2011

I 'technically' miscarried a week today. I started bleeding at 10weeks for no reason- I had finished work and had the smallest spot of brown blood ever. By Thursday night it was slightly more. Friday I went to the drs who told me she would book me in for an U/S but they couldn't get me in until the Monday! Friday afternoon it went red and started clotting so we went to A&E who took a urine sample and told me to rest until the scan. Over the weekend it got much worse and I resigned myself to the fact this was a miscarriage and the baby would not be there. My partner was much more positive and so took the news much worse. The U/S showed no baby but a collapsed sac at the bottom of my womb waiting to come out. No sign of baby. The lady said the sac looked around 7 weeks, I should have been 10weeks+5. I am now passing it naturally and all I can say is it is devastating that you have to go through the pain of losing something that was a part of you as well as having (quite frankly) the worst period of your life. The only blessing (and shame) is we never saw the baby, never heard a heartbeat etc and in that respect it almost feels like a dream. I had no symptoms other than mood swings and a couple of cravings the entire time and to be honest I'm scared of getting pregnant again. I dont know how anyone can go through this more than once and hats off to any ladies who have managed this and go on to have a healthy baby. It is just so annoying when you see the sixteen-seventeen year olds who dont want the child, who drink and smoke throughout pregnancy and have a healthy baby. Whereas people who can be responsible, can give the child a loving home and a good start on life cannot see it through. God works in mysterious ways!

maricela203

Jul 13, 2011

i had a misscarage on the 26 of june. i was so happy when i first finded out that i was pregnant. but when i finded out that i lost it it was heart broken. i really wanted it. i had my hopes up. i really want to get pregant again. is it possible for me to get pregant after having a misscarage??how soon can a woman get pregant after misscaring

shayleekae

Jul 20, 2011

Hi, I miscarried 6-19-11 and had a D&C on 6-22-11, I was 11w2d. I've never posted on a forum before but I thought I needed to. The last few days I have been feeling as if I may be pregnant. I have been extremely nauseas the last 3 days for no apparent reason, I've had really bad headaches (I get headaches a lot anyways but these have been a lot worse), also my mouth has been extremely watery (salivating like a freaking dog), and sex has been feeling kind of weird like it did when I was pregnant, like it's more painful than pleasurable at times (sorry tmi, but it's true!), and the last few days I have had a whitish/clearish discharge which is a little unusual. I thought I possibly could have been ovulating and that is why I was nauseas, I have heard of others being nauseas when o'd but I never have been but that would not explain any of these other symptoms. I'm pretty sure it would still be too early to show up on a pregnancy test since even if I conceived the day afterwards I would only be 4 weeks. I took an hpt yesterday and it came back negative but I chalk this up to the fact that it could be too early still. If I don't get AF in the next week or so I think I will test again but is it possible that I could be pregnant so soon? As soon as I stopped bleeding my husband and I have been having unprotected sex almost every single day. What do you guys think? It's nice to see all of these stories! It gives me hope that I could be pregnant already so soon!

Annabella21

Jul 20, 2011

I miscarried on july 9th, it was very painful, I stopped bleeding about 2 days later. I was about 6 wks pregnant and after the mc my stomach went totally like jello. I seen the dr and they said I was fine and my body would naturally take care of it. Well me and my husband tried again right after the mc and my stomach started firming up again like before when I was pregnant and I'm starting to feel like I'm pregnant. My mom had a mc before she had me, got pregnant with me very soon after. The other thing that scares me is that I'm the nxt one up to have twins, is it possible that I could of only miscarried one and not the other? I don't have insurance anymore becuz I moved states and they denied me here. I was going to wait another week or so to take a pg test if positive I'm sucking it up and going to the drs. Anyone else know anything about getting pregnant again that soon? Its been a week and a half since my mc.

Esmalyke

Jul 22, 2011

Hi all, I had a miscarriage on the 22nd Juny and the D&C on the 25th. I want to know when i can start testing for a positive pregnancy again, I am trying to fall pregnant again as soon as possible. I did a test on the 9th July just to make sure its negative and hormones has dropped, it was negative. It is 4 weeks after my D&C tomorow and I want to know when I can test for pregnancy again as I have no idea ehen ovulation was. had lots of unprotected sex.

Yingwee

Aug 04, 2011

I posted July 08 about my miscarriage and that I thought I was pregnant again. Well I was but not for very long. At about 5 weeks (so only a week or so after my missed period) I started bleeding again. This time it was fresh red blood so there wasn't a doubt that I was no longer pregnant. I called and cancelled my doctors appoint and told her why. Thought he might want to do an exam so I'd reschedule when I wasn't bleeding which I did. My husband and I thought at the very least he should be aware I miscarried again and I wanted to know when they would start looking into what could be wrong and what it is they'd look into. He was so evasive and started telling us which ovulations days are best and other useless info like that. Did he really think someone who's been actively trying to concieve (conceive) for over a year wouldn't know that common information!!! He even took a brief phone call while in the room with us. You could have seen the steam rising off me. I didn't expect him to know what causes a miscarriage but I did expect him to run through the possibilities or tell us what the options wre in the future. He just kept saying don't worry. I guess if you tell them you've been trying for 6 months they tell you to wait a year. If you say you've been trying a year they just say wait two. Very discouraging. He went on to tell me about a women who spent $30,000 trying to concieve (conceive), didn't work, but then she got pregnant on her own a few years later. I guess it was supposed to be inspirational but totally wasn't.
He also wrote on my file that I had a possible misscarriage. POSSIBLE!!!!!! Basically he didn't believe I was actualy pregnant because I didn't have a blood test to confirm. I know I was pregnant. They only time I've EVER been late is the last time I was pregnant and the wonky period after that. I didn't think I would still need any blood test as I wasn't pregnant anymore. Never thought anyone would think I made it up. So lesson learned is always get the blood work done immediatly because if it's not on paper it might as well didn't happen.

So now it's the next cycle and I'm on day 25 (period comes between 23-28, NEVER past 28 days) and I have almost puked twice this week in the mornings. I've also been trying to lose weight so I'm not eating the hords of food I normally do and could just be hungry in the mornings. Just a littel freaky.

I'm still not void of hope and will do and go through anything to have a child but holy mother if I get pregnant and have a third MC in less then a year, I'm going to lose it.

Njmom2007

Aug 04, 2011

To: All

Hi ladies, I am new to this forum and hope you can welcome me with open arms. I have been on the fertility forum for a little less than a year. I took a break from fertility treatments in Jan. I fell pregnant in July and miscarried at 5 weeks. Trying to read all of your posts.... How many of you conceived right after a miscarriage. I am on the fence trying to figure out whether I should wait a month like my OB says or jump into it right away.

Yingwee

Aug 08, 2011

well I got a positive pregnancy test yesterday but still need to be confirmed by the doctor!! That's twice in two months now and three times since January. I'm very hopefull that this will be the one. I've got no underlining conditions or anything that should cause complications but it has happned twice already.

Jpnrm06

Aug 08, 2011

Hi ladies, I'm new to this and very hopeful after hearing these stories. I started to think I was crazy, because nobody understood how it felt. I miscarried the beginning of June. I was 8 wks pregnant, but the baby stopped growing at 6 and there wasn't a viable heartbeat. I was very bummed because that was my first pregnancy. I had a natural m/c, bled for a week. Finally got AF on July 16th. Dh and I tried again pre-ovulation and day of. I'm now 8 dpo and the only thing I've noticed is I'm very nauseous, tired and bloated. Hoping this isn't just AF symptoms, I have another week to go. I hope its a BFP!

babygal422

Aug 11, 2011

can you concieve (conceive) immedaitely after the first period after a d and c

Sabby33

Aug 12, 2011

Hi Ladies,

It's really inspiring to read these stories. I miscarried on July 31st and had a d and c on August 3rd. Doctor told me to wait until I have had 1 period before I start to try again. I am still having light spotting but I have read so many conflicting views wrt to the waiting period. I just can't wait to try again but also have the fear of miscarrying again.

Is there anyon who had a full term prg after a m/c without waiting for a first period?

bght8

Aug 12, 2011

i had a miscarriage on july 16th--dpo 8 weeks, but i don't think it grew past 5. our doc said to wait 1 week for the bleeding to stop (i took cytotec) and then to give it our all! i had read all these posts and articles about waiting, and i grilled her thoroughly about whether or not there's a need to wait, dangers in not waiting, she said it's all nonsense. miscarriage is a totally natural and extremely common part of trying to conceive (society really needs to put this message out there more for women). that being said, i did not have a d&c, so i don't know if that changes the equation. we have been just enjoying each other's company--not trying per se, but not using protection either. whatever happens, it's up to the powers that be.

bremomma

Aug 17, 2011

To: All

I had a miscarriage on July 9th. It went on for two weeks, after I stopped bleeding my husband and I started having sex again. Today is Aug 17th. took a pregnancy test and it came up POSITIVE! I'm happy but at the same time worried. That was my first miscarriage and I'm nervous. Because my period did not come I have no clue when my DD will be. I just pray I have a healthy baby!

flor30

Aug 23, 2011

To: everyone

I had a miscarriage on Aug 2 and bled for 2 weeks. Starting Sunday a week after the bleeding from my miscarriage i am spotting. i only notice the spotting when i go pee and are passing small clots. (sorry tmi). the dr said i should get my period the middle of september (6 weeks) was wondering if this happened to anyone? is this my period? i've had unprotected sex once and don't think i'm pregnant.

baby1123

Aug 24, 2011

On July 6, 2011, I started spotting(a week before my period was due) took a pregnancy test (four to be exact) on the day I should have had my period. Spotting & bleeding got worse, went to the emergency room July 15 & 16. was told I was having a miscarriage(spontaneous abortion) hcg count was a 6 and they found nothing on the ultrasound. On July 21 stopped bleeding. Ive been intimiate with my husband without protection. I havent got my period yet. so yesterday August 23 I took a pregnancy test & it came back positive...Am I pregnant again or left over from miscarriage 4-5 weeks ago?

2confused31

Aug 28, 2011

To: baby1123

sorry for your lost i too had a mc june and had dnc june20.. i started having pregnancy symptoms again in late july for the past 2 or 3 wks ive had blood drawn to test hormone levels which did show pregnant but my doc insists it may never have gone back to normal..i dnt think he's right (a woman knows her body ) i do belive its a new pregnancy which he never did anything else to confirm yes or no...its now been a couple of weeks i made an appt with a new doc and hopefully they take me serious and check me throughly by the way i never had a period since my mc. 2 wks ago i had brown spotting and a little bleeding the nxt day nothing since except for cramps and extra sore boobs..i would love to know what your outcome is...hopefully a healthy baby

Shyladybaby27

Aug 30, 2011

I just figured I should update my post so \i am pregnant after my miscarriage with no period in between. I am about 6 weeks along

karlsgirl0210

Sep 06, 2011

To: All

Hey guys! I have never posted on a forum so, bare with me as I am new to this. I am 28 years old and have just had my fourth loss. I handled all of my other miscarriages pretty well, but this time I was the furthest along I had ever made it. I made it to 12 weeks. Ok, here is the crazy thing, and it could just be me who has never heard of this...my OB doctor had been doing an US every week on me, as I was a very brittle diabetic before pregnancy and my sugars were a complete mess the whole 3 months. On 08/24/2011 I saw both my regular OB doctor as well as high-risk specialist, neither said anything looked wrong on the US or anything. On August 30, 2011 when I went back to my regular OB for just a routine visit, she did the US and there was no heartbeat. Crazy thing is, she did no D&C. She actually made me deliver the baby, giving me meds to enduce me and all. Just wondering if anyone has ever heard of this before at such an early stage in pregnancy. Also, I would like to know how soon after something like this should my husband and I try again, as we were very excited and overjoyed to be expecting. Thanks you guys!!!

emmy010

Sep 14, 2011

i have a question? i had a m/c on aug 19th how do i know when im going to start my period again i herd it should take 4 weeks or more but my face is breaking out my breast at tender and not to b nasty but im noticing more bumps around my nipple area my lower stomach has small cramps and im moody..it has been 2 months since i had a period am i pregnant again or is something really wrong in my mind! plz help

Shyladybaby27

Sep 14, 2011

To: emmy010

I think you may be pregnany again

Ahlamw3x

Sep 19, 2011

To: emmy010

its definately possiblto be pregnant! i has a miscarriage in dec and got pregnant in june! which i then miscarriaged again on 1st of august! on 29th of august i did a PT just for the sake of it,and it was positive! very hard to believe.went to my gynae, he dint believe that i could have ovualted that soon and have a positive PT before the next month, but he wrote me a blood test anyway! that was on 1st, my hcg level was 195ml,which meant i was 3 weeks!! very hard to believe! but m pregnant again..so not complaining, next appointment next week! so best advice would be take a pregnancy test! its been about one month since your miscarriage,it should atleast show by now! or have a blood test. post us the results

Ahlamw3x

Sep 19, 2011

To: karlsgirl0210

hey karls, yes it is possible, my 2nd miscarriage, i went to the gynae for a routine visit,was 7 weeks,heard a heart beat,but the same day in the evening i started bleeding,that was on a friday 29th of julyt! went bak to the doc the next day,there was still a heartbeat, he gave me complete bedrest. by saturday night i was bleeding and cramping heavily, went to the public hospital and there was some in experienced doctor who dint no how to use a scan! unbelievable right??? so i dint no wetehr i was miscarying or nt, iwent bak home and called mhy gynae, he told me to stay in bed and c him on monday 1st august. at 2am on monday i hade a severe cramping and bleeding and passed some clots,when i went to c the doctor later during the day, he told me i had already miscarriaged,so he jsut gave me antibiotics. and he told me i can try again as soon as the bleeding stopped, if my body is ready i will get prgnant, and i did, in less than a month.
again my previous miscarriage which happened in dec 2010, the doc couldnt find a heart beat at 8 weeks, she just gave me some pills to induce abortion, and told me i cn try again as soon as i stop bleeding. apparently d&c is more for 9 weeks going upwards,and when you have a d n c you are not supposed to try getting pregnant for 6 months otherwise you get an infection. so be happy they dint do one!
i wish you good luck in trying to concieve (conceive) again,.........and pray!

karlsgirl0210

Sep 20, 2011

It was all just too strange, I actually work at a hospital and have never heard of anyone actually having to deliver at only 12 weeks. Unfortunately, I am now having all kinds of complications. Apparently part of the placenta was left and so a week after delivering, I started experiencing some horrible cramping and bleeding, ended up passing huge clot, turned out to be placenta. Dr. still has not done a D&C on me. Right now she is just watching my numbers as they drop....I am just ready for this to be over so we can try again. Never to replace our angel but just to be able to hold a precious baby, my baby, in our arms.

dee554

Oct 03, 2011

Hi all

Thanks for your posts it makes me feel better. I'm 99% sure I had a very early miscarriage last month, but had not yet tested. We had sex on the day of ovulation and about a week later I started to get persistent symptoms, cramps, hunger, tiredness, mood swings, queasiness, needing to pee. A week ago I got my period but it began with spotting and cramps which is not usual and had a very small amount of clotting. My husband was briefly excited about the possibility of being a Dad, but seems to think I'm a bit mad in being a bit depressed about a m/c that wasn't even confirmed. I am 36 and we had begun to 'not be so careful' but now that this has happened I really want to be pregnant where I still wasn't so sure mostly because my husband doesn't have f/t work. I think it's good now that I really want a baby. I hope I get pregnant and am able to have a healthy pregnancy soon!

MrsOsman

Oct 04, 2011

I had a miscarriage last year December and i was 8-9weeks pregnant. Now I'm 7months pregnant I got pregnant 2months after my miscarriage, Me and my husband are so excited were having a baby girl in dec I have 8weeks to go can't wait. I wanted to share this great news with you all.. I wish you all the best dont ever give up

karlsgirl0210

Oct 04, 2011

CONGRATS!!!! HOW EXCITING!!!!

tashia624

Oct 05, 2011

To: karlsgirl0210

I know what you are going through I to just went though my fourth lost because I wasnt given meds for my blood pressure and I deveploed HELLP Syndrome. But it is normal that she made you deliver the baby because you did not go into labor or pass the baby yourself. But, I seen that you said that you are a diabetic I read about this blood disease that cause losses of pregnancy called Thrombophilias its like a blood clotting disorder. You should tell them to test you for things in that nature go to this site and read it.

http://www.marchofdimes.com/complications_thrombophilias.html

Beautifulmixx

Oct 09, 2011

Hey everyone I recently miscarriaged about a month ago I was 4 weeks and it was my first pregnancy. How soon after that can I try again?

littlejrr

Oct 11, 2011

To: Beautifulmixx

It just depends how far along you were, if you had anything done (i.e. D&C). I'm sorry for your loss. I m/c 3 weeks ago today :( I was a little over 5 weeks. My doctor told me to wait 1 cycle to help rebuild the uterine lining but I've read a lot of post about people trying right away. If that's the case I would think an earlier m/c would be better for trying that.

Good luck!!!

MrsLee2Be

Oct 12, 2011

hi i m/c on oct 9th 2011.. i was only about 3 weeks and me and my soon to be husband we crushed. i think it was jus because of stress because were moving and we are getting married nov 11th 2011 but how long is long enough to wait befor we try again

AmberTorres

Oct 14, 2011

I had a miscarriage on august 13th 2011, I was in the hospital in pain for some time. It was my first pregnancy my love and i had unprotected sex Right After.
Then I took a test on sep. 6th 2011 for some odd reason I had a positive pregnancy test. I know i had the miscarriage, but My test was so early and I took the test in the evening not morning. My test on the blood showed I to went down to zero. Also My doctor said I was pregnant again, and told me I'm about 4 weeks along. This body of mine sure is odd but I just wanted to share my story with you. But if I was to have a positive On the 6th of sep. then I would have conceived on Aug. 23rd 2011.

almccoy

Oct 26, 2011

To: mrsmaldy

Thank you for posting this. I know it was over a year ago, but that last line "I felt like that was god's way of say "get ready for this" and I believe it put us on the same page." was just what i needed. My husband and I got married in July, October 14th we found out (SURPRISE) we were pregnant... on October 21 i rushed to the ER to find out that we were miscarrying. But we've decided that we want to try again... I'm a little nervous, but I know all things are in God's hands.

purplemazzy668

Oct 31, 2011

To: trinitynjtr

I am so despondant, I have 0 kids and found out I was pregnant early Oct. 2011. I miscarried Oct. 29, 2011 I was 1 and a half mos, pregnant. I quit all my bad habits and I am of average wieght but I do smoke on occasion. I will quit completely and I want to try to coneive again ASPA. I was told it was most likely not my fault but I still carry a lot of guit... any advice?

Praying4ALittle1

Nov 06, 2011

To: purplemazzy668

I also had a miscarriage with my conceiving in October. I have 0 kids. I also felt guilt like it was my fault I did not stay pregnant. I didn't know I was pregnant because I thought I had my cycle so I got on the treadmill, climbed stairs, and cried because I thought my month was a failure. Then I found out I was pregnant but will miscarry. I was devastated. I'm still pretty bummed. But my best advice to you is try not to overanalyze your miscarriage. Just know that God has a plan and everything happens for a reason. And this time it just wasn't meant to be. I know this is easier said than done but it will at least give you some closure. I don't think it's a bad idea to stop your smoking habits. Good move.

Praying4ALittle1

Nov 06, 2011

To: All

Is it recommended that I jump right back into trying to conceive after this month of miscarrying at 5 weeks? Any advice? Thanks.

Akeila

Nov 08, 2011

To: by sheda

In oct I had a M\C I was like 4\5 weeks..every time sense that my bf always wanna have sex and I don't..the M\C have me scared to get pregnant again.. My sis say I should wait 3 months before I have sex and my bf birth day is coming up so idk what to do...my M\C was on oct 28th and today is nov 8th how much more longer do I have to wait before sex..which my mind is turn from..

J3w3lz33

Nov 10, 2011

Hello everyone sorry for your losses I had a MMC with a D&C on 10/5/2011 and decided to TTC even before my first period i'm hoping to get a positive HPT soon i've been have mild cramping but no AF i'm not sure what to think about that... Anyways baby dust to everyone ;-)

Mbnikki29

Nov 24, 2011

To: everyone

I actually had a miscarriage november 23, 2011 i was about 13wks pregnant. I already have a beautiful 4 yr old daughter, so i am very thankful for her, but at the same time i was so heartbroken, that this has happened, bc i thought it was something that i had done. The doctor said that i had a tilted cervix, has anyone ever heard of that?

hopelesslywaiting_21

Dec 15, 2011

To: Hopelessly waiting

Hi, All of your stories have given me so much hope...i too found out i was prego on Nov 16th and the m/c on the 17th....This will be my second m/c. Last years i found out on Oct 23rd and the m/c on the 24th.....Now i am feeling tired and sleeping alot my stomach is always hurting but i dont know if i am prego or if i have another issue....My fiance keeps tell me i am but i just think its because he really wants a baby......Thanks for sharing your stories because i am so excited that hope is still alive!

J3w3lz33

Dec 19, 2011

Well things didn't work out the way i hoped it would 6wks after my MMC and D&C i still had no menstrual cycle so i called my doctor who then gave me a prescription of provera 10mg for 5 days on the 4th day after my last pill i started my cycle i'm now TTC hoping i ovulate this week so we are bd'ing every other night fx'd and lot's of baby dust to you all ;-)

Super1Mom

Jan 02, 2012

My husband and I try very hard to get pregnant... and I had a miscarriage started on Dec 24, 2011 went to ER on Dec 26 bleed out, cramps... got blood work, ultrasound and a swap test, the Doctor came to me and said that clearly i had a complete miscarriage, baby was 6 weeks, But the Doctor said just don't get confuse you are pregnant with a new pregnancy like 2 weeks long... i was sad for the lost but confused at the same time, i asked the Doctor how that can be possible?? she said my h&G level was 7 after the miscarriage and it looks i got pregnant 10 days before i miscarriage. i just though can't be. The Doc. suggest getting another blood work in a week just to make sure pregnancy is on board with the HG levels double. i stop bleeding yesterday and i been felling so pregnant again ,I did a home pregnancy test today and is positive. I'm scare..... I don't know how this can be possible?? and is happening to me! But We will be very happy if I'm pregnant.

lotahope4me

Jan 05, 2012

To: Im-pregnant-one-month-after-a-miscarriage

HI,
I found out I was pregnant the day after christmas. I started to spot new years eve. I am now bleeding out from my MC. I have been ttc for 3yrs now. I have one child who is 6 now and I have been longing for another for the last 3 years. When I found out I was pregnant I went out and bought all the stuff I could find. I am still having baby stuff that I ordered before this happend on my doorstep every morning. Im so devestated im in a total state of shock. My husband is trying to get home( he is on a job in washington state im in ohio) and all I want is my baby back!! I really want to know if anyone is like me who has been ttc for a very long time and had a miscarriage and ended up getting pregnant again right away. all i know is my life will never be whole again untill am able to hold my baby in my arms and my family is complete.

Jayneroberts

Jan 13, 2012

To: Ladies

Oh my god you ladies are a life saver!!!! I'm currently pregnant at 42. I've had 3 miscarriages and the last time I hemorraged and needed a blood transfusion along with a dnc. I'm so frightened beyond belief but reading some of these posts have reassured me no end. I had all the test with my gynacologist and everything is normal. It's just a case of hit and miss. Thank you for listening!!!

ladydee0101

Jan 15, 2012

To: Court730

that is great news and i am happy for you. how did the pregnancy turn out? during your miscarriage was it a natural one?.. My husband and I have been trying since aug 2011 on my birthday jan 1, 2012 we foud out i was pregnant i went to the dr that friday and found out we was 5.2 wks. the tuesday i started to bleed first lightly then quickly got heavy with clots.
took a s/g and seen the pregnancy was still there and in the correct place. so the took blood to test my hcg level on saturday i got my results that it dropped instead of doubling. dr's say since iam still bleeding heavy it should pass on its on within a week. i want to start trying immediately after the bleeding stops.

sarahthenutter01699

Jan 15, 2012

To: pregnancy

hi all i have been reading your post and may i say this is all very confusing for myself, last january 2011 i had a natural miscarriage, i was around six weeks and i was told that i was going to have the miscarriage, 2 days later it happened and it was the most horrendous pain i could ever imagine, it took two weeks for the whole thing to pass through my body and i lost alot of blood, i was on my own at the time and passed out more times than i could remember, i actually remember waking up on the bathroom floor but i dont know how long i was there for. Anyway, recently i met a partner and we had been trying for a very long time, eventually i caught and we were both so happy but i was also scared at the same time of having another miscarriage, i had a few pains and rang the doctor up and went to see him, and he did the sound thingy and said everything sounded fine so i was more relaxed. a week later me and my partner went for a early scan as my doctor had requested it and we went for the scan and within five minutes i knew something was wrong and we had the terrible news that i had miscarried again. they asked if i wanted to wait and for it to happen naturally but i couldnt after the last time so i had a d&c done, since i had that done i felt fine and me and my partner have been trying again for another baby, but this week i feel differant as with the miscarriages my boobs stopped hurting and this week i have noticed they are leaking the first stages of milk you get, i dont want to get my hopes up or anythnig and i certianly dont want to do a test jsut yet but is it possible to get pregnant straight away after a d&c

anne1002

Jan 15, 2012

To: Mom_2be

Hello I was just reading your post. I just had mc dec. 11 then find out am preg. Jan 9th but doctors could not tell how far long I am because it was too early they say.. I was just wondering how did your pregnancy went I know its been a year.. I wanted to hear your story =)

sarbear89

Jan 18, 2012

To: Everyone

I had a micarriage 12/12/11 i was 5weeks on the nose a week and a half before miscarriage i was having slight light bleeding went to the emergency room and they did hcg blood work levels were rising and a u/s they could see the sac and no fetus and the doc told me some women bleed in their pregnacy as long as no pain was involved i was fine and ordered blood work every 2 days to check my levels until my first appointment at my obgyn i went to get blood work that friday after and my levels were at 5400 that monday 12/12 the blood turned from a brown to a bright red with alot of cramping and bleeding even though i knew in my heart i was going to miscarry a woman knows her body I was in alot of pain so I had my OH take me to the er and they did repeat blood work and a exam and told me my cerix had opened then then the doc came back with the results of my hcg levels they were 1200 i felt like I was had the life ripped out of me I was losing a baby i wanted more then anything in this world I couldnt comprehend it i was a healthy 22 year old have a stable home and me and my OH were ready to be parents i went home and passed the sac 2 days later and bleed for 3 mored days after that cryed slept when i could get through the pain and prayed and prayed Now its been a month and 1w and I am pregnant again i concived right away im just scared nervous and happy and have faith that i will have a healthy baby dont give up hope its hard you feel hopeless lost but stay positive I am staying positive and I will keep reminding my self that I will have a healthy baby boy or girl in September keep faith and pray i wish everyone the best and lots and lots of baby dust

abby0703

Jan 21, 2012

To: Super1Mom

hi, i want to know, was it possible that you're pregnant again?. i had miscarriage dec 31th and went to er on that night (NYE)… went to my OB on 1/2/12, she did an US (vaginally) and said that i completely pass through the placenta and she put me on antibiotics to avoid infection and medicine to completely pass out the remaining blood, i bleed for few days and then stopped just 3 days ago, she said my HCG was down and wanted me to get another HCG this first week of feb 2012 to make sure, i stopped bleeding already 3 days ago, now, since yesterday im having brown spots again and i tested and its still positive… we never have sex since i miscarriage becoz my OB wants me to wait for 6 weeks… soooo, confused could it be possible that im preggy and not completely down to zero the HCG level…

abby0703

Jan 21, 2012

hi, i want to know, was it possible that you're pregnant again?. i had miscarriage dec 31th and went to er on that night (NYE)… went to my OB on 1/2/12, she did an US (vaginally) and said that i completely pass through the placenta and she put me on antibiotics to avoid infection and medicine to completely pass out the remaining blood, i bleed for few days and then stopped just 3 days ago, she said my HCG was down and wanted me to get another HCG this first week of feb 2012 to make sure, i stopped bleeding already 3 days ago, now, since yesterday im having brown spots again and i tested and its still positive… we never have sex since i miscarriage becoz my OB wants me to wait for 6 weeks… soooo, confused could it be possible that im preggy and not completely down to zero the HCG level…

Laroosh24

Jan 21, 2012

I found out I was pregnant Dec.26th miscarried Dec.31st.... it was such a devastating shock, I was only about 4 weeks along.... I know I might be imagining it but I think I might be pregnant again, I've been super warm all the time even though it's the middle of winter ! I've been eating a lot, have some nipple sensitivity and am tiered all the time..... me and my partner haven't really been trying but were not 'not' trying if that makes sense.... he has pulled out everytime we've had sex, but I know that's not a 100% method anyways. It's still a bit to early to test, I'd probably have to wait a few days to test as I'm on cycle day 22. Any thoughts ? Am I just imagining it or could I be pregnant ?

Laroosh24

Jan 22, 2012

To: sarbear89

good luck to you sweetie !

rachael_louise407

Jan 23, 2012

I m/c in November then had a period 20th December I have just done a test which said positive but I'm also having belly ache. Almost like period pains which is worrying a bit cos this what happened before my last m/c. Is it common to have these pains..??

sarahunruh

Jan 24, 2012

To: Laroosh24

you could ez be pregnant. i was 4 weeks along when i mis. on dec. 26. now i took a test today on jan. 24 and am 4 weeks again. im very excited and hope it works out. good luck to you.

deelove0187

Feb 01, 2012

To: m/c ttc asap

Lovely ladies,

I miscarried on Jan 9 just 3 days after finding out I was pregnant.it started out as a natural miscarriage however I ended up getting a d&c after 10days of bleeding heavy because very Lol tissue remained. I had the d&c on Jan. 21 And spotted a dew days til completely gone Jan 31st. My two weeks after the d&c will be in 3more days and I plan on ttc again. Haa anyone had a healthy baby after conceiving so soon after a d&c? ?? Is it possible to conceive. I heard that it all depends on your body if ta ready to hold a fetus then it will happen if not then AF will come. Thanksssss dee

soniya4u

Feb 04, 2012

To: everyone's

Hi, i had miscarriage 5 weeks back on jan 1st and i did prgenant test today on feb 4th and its says i m prgenant. i dont understand its right or wrong after miscarriage when should good time to do prgenant test plz let me know anyones and i m in difftent state now so i dont have insrus so i cant go to doc office. what should i do to find out plz tell me??

Jboo817

Feb 08, 2012

To: everyone

I had a m/c on Jan 22 and a d and c. I was told not to have intercourse for two weeks but I didnt bleed at all after the d and c so we had intercourse on Jan. 29. We didn't try again til after the two weeks and are still trying. Today I took a pt and the results were positive, I am shocked and was worrying of this is real or my hcg levels just not down yet.

pinkkays

Feb 17, 2012

To: vixen224

so how is your baby today?

pinkkays

Feb 17, 2012

To: sian_lou

did you have the mirana before?

Lily1030

Mar 08, 2012

Hello All!

I need help. I am 26 years old. My husband and I have been trying to get prego since jan. finally i found out i was prego before my missed period. I must have been 3 weeks TOPS! now im going through a miscarriage. I am so sad.. i dont know what to think ...

AdamanLaci

Mar 24, 2012

To: Anyone

I had a miscarraige (miscarriage) at 10-11 weeks pregnant. It was on a wendsday. Today is saturday. I have not had a decrease in symptoms (other than the morning sickness). I was sitting on the couch about an hour ago and felt my belly jump. At first I thought it was gas. But now I feel flutters. I have not told my husband this because I don't want to get my hopes up. But is it possible that I am still pregnant? I have had cravings, and smells still bother me. And I feel tired a lot. Mood swings dramaticlly, etc. Can anyone help me out here? My follow up appt. is on monday. I am still bleeding (like a period) from the miscarraige (miscarriage). And still have really light cramps.

nicolebabywishestogod

Apr 19, 2012

To: neverlosehope

i had a D&C 3weeks ago and i took a pregnancy test that had two light lines im going to wait 2 more weeks or i weeks to test again im praying we get good news in so scared wish us luck

JA_hopeful

May 07, 2012

To: bree80

hi! thank you so much for sharing your advice. You have no clue how much of heartache you have saved so may women. I am sorry for your losses. I miscarried mid apr 2012 and it was identical tiwn girls at 18 weeks. The pain of empty arms and an empty womb just draws me time and again to try without waiting - exactly why I visited this page. Success stories are great to hear - I wish every mom to be a healthy delivery and baby, but your advice is so precious - God bless you for your selfless help. Thanks.