Is This implantation bleeding? Or VERY early period?

Hello ! I am 16. New Years Eve I my ex tried to rape me, he didn't succeed BUT he did ejaculate on to my “vagina hole” and I think some of his sperm might have gotten in.  My parents already know, and we've actually grown closer. Just to get that out there so No one "scolds" me. But to my main point... I am so very confused , yesterday morning I had some light pinkish bleeding that eventually turned brown. It got heavier this morning. I had on a light pad ( I usually have to wear those maxie pads whenever I have a period) and just went to change it this afternoon. I read about implantation bleeding, but they say it's suppose to be "A few drops" , but in the comments of this article  some women said that they had a heavy flow of implantation bleeding. So heavy that some had to change 5 pads during that 2 days of bleeding, but they were indeed pregnant. My period ended 1 week before Christmas and my periods are very regular. That's why I'm so concerned about this. People say it's too early for a test , and that 9 days after bleeding is when you should take one ( I def will then). I told my mom about this and since she's never had children (I'm adopted) , she has NO idea about this stuff. Can some of you tell me your story about implantation bleeding?  :/ please! I WILL keep this baby , because I know how adoption can screw up emotions. Once I turned 8 I always thought about my mom and "Why did she..." and "What was wrong with me to make her give me away". I just don't ever want my child to feel unloved like I felt. But ANYWAY thankyou so much for reading this. I would love for you to respond with stories, and advice, ANYTHING is helpful. :)

[AnnieBrooke]

It's possible to have some bleeding when pregnant.  But period-like (or quasi-period-like) bleeding is not a pregnancy sign.  What you're describing simply is too heavy to indicate implantation.  The women who write that they had two days of bleeding and had to change five pads may have had bleeding that had another explanation, and decided it must be "implantation" bleeding because in retrospect it was the right time.  But someone can bleed from lots of things -- an irritated cervix, a small fibroid, or because their hormone levels fluctuate and the progesterone drops -- and all of this might happen in early pregnancy.  As a labor and delivery nurse I know once told me, an embryo is smaller than the dot on the letter i in this sentence, and if it were to cause some bleeding when it implants (which does not often happen), it really would be, at most, a few drops.  Mostly you hear from people who are hoping bleeding indicates pregnancy when they are trying to conceive, that is what gives the idea of implantation bleeding such a lot of air time.  

I'm very sorry you're going through this, and hope you didn't get pregnant from the incident.  Are you going to report it to the police?

[AnnieBrooke]

ps -- Of COURSE she loved you and nothing was wrong with you.  Never let that worry cross your mind.  It is just that some women are willing to sacrifice their entire heart, so their baby can have a better life.  Did you see that recent article about the 100-year-old who prayed every year for 77 years that she could learn how her daughter she gave up for adoption was, and finally they were reunited?  That story doesn't surprise me AT ALL.  I even pray every day I'll be united in heaven with the babies I lost through miscarriage, and I know I am so totally not alone in doing that.  Mothers love their babies, that is that.  It takes a lot of caring to sacrifice that love because you know the baby would be better off.

[Ebonybeautii]

Thankyou so much for your long reply. It really ment alot to me. You are probably right. My bleeding just stopped today. Which makes it exactly 3 days. Only time can really tell. I'm going to take a test around the time I'm expecting my period to totally be sure. 

No, we will not be contacting the police. I dont even live in America lol. The police here are retards. Plus my parents have decided not to tell his parents. It would really be no use. 

Sadly another ex tried to rape me the 18th of Dec. Its very parrallel to what happened New Years Eve except my parents do NOT know. I was too embarrassed because I should have known not to go into his room :/


Plus Yes thankyou :) I know my real mother loves me, but at a younger age it really ruined me emotionally. I understand what you ment though. I did read that article on MSN. It was sweet and very touching but i want to ensure that my baby will have a good life. So i still do not think I will give my baby up for adoption.im so sorry for your loss. :/ I do pray that God will grant you that joy of meeting your babies in heaven.

[AnnieBrooke]

I hope it all turns out that you are not pregnant, it really doesn't seem like you would be.  

Please think about what kind of vibe you are sending to these guys.  Two times in a month is a lot of attempted rapes, especially with different guys.  I'm not saying you invited it, but you might be very sexy to them and/or rather naive or available.  Please think about your actions, like going to his room, but also look over any messages your dress or style of speaking might be giving out.  Some guys think any heightened or lively language from a girl means she's interested in having sex.  To your female friends, it wouldn't give that message, but men are different in the way they interpret friendliness, bright chatter, and other things.  Try to figure out if you can tone it down.  

Good luck in a couple of weeks.  I think you'll be fine.

[Ebonybeautii]

Yes I understand you completly. I dont wear tight clothes nor shirts that show cleavage. Im more of a tomboy and the guys who have known me for 7yrs are starting to act different around me. They say its because my body is changing. Its mostly because I trust these guys too much since Ive known them so long. I hope everything is fine also. :) God's got me though.