Losing weight at 4 months

[pisceonbeauty]

Hey Folks, is there anyone out there who lost weight even at 4 months.  I lost my appetite a few months ago prob 2, because of a situation which is so disgusting with me and my baby daddy.  There was this girl whom he claimed to be friends with but within the past few months i got to realize that they became more than friends.  He now sleeps at her house picks her up from work, she goes by him and not to mention they kept a big Birthday Party for his 30th.  He has developed a grudge for me and hates me and tells me embarrassing things like u working mind your own baby,  both him and the new woman call and curse me.  Up to last night she was on the phone calling me a Psychobitch because i called to speak about what the doctor said at my last appointment.  Could this stress be a result of my weight loss.  Every night i'm there trying to look happy when in fact i'm hurting so bad inside.  Now i have to face bringing up baby on my own.

[amberd5191]

Just now starting to regain my weight at 28 weeks about 4 weeks ago.

[AndiJ78]

I lost 20lbs during my 4th month with my oldest son. He still ended up being a good sized baby.

As for the other, leave it be. You don't need any of them in the baby's life. Too much stress all the way around.

[daprincess21]

First off, change your number. you do not have to deal with any of this especially beings you are pg! A far as the weight loss, if its due to stress caused by "daddy", you need to pick yourself up and do what you need to do for baby...its not about him anymore, or you for that matter.  I can relate to weight loss during pg, bc with my first child i was very overweight and becasue of eating healthy i lost weight form all parts of my body that in the end went to baby.Try and find some foods that are healthy and you can handle eating. God made you a woman for a reason, you are strong and will be a good mommy, with or without "daddy"  If he cares, down the road he will be there....

[ExpectingaRedhead]

Your loss of appetite could be the reason for all the weight loss. I know that most of the weight is packed on in the third trimester, so weight loss does happen earlier in pregnancy, especially to those women who have morning sickness. If your doctor doesn't seem too concerned, I wouldn't worry about it.

As for the father, you don't want someone in your life that treats you like that. You don't need the drama, the disrespect, the immaturity. I know it's easier said than done to raise a child on your own, but you need to look out for you and your baby's best interests.  

[Crritter]

I lost weight too and didn't start to gain till the 5th month and the 6th month with hte next one.  Both babies were big so it was fine.  Sorry to hear about your situation though, I hope it gets better.  You are a very strong woman, good luck with your little angel.

[pisceonbeauty]

Thanks so much for your words of encouragement and at least i don't feel so bad about the weight loss.  About the situation i'm forced to be strong for me and the baby's sake.  My main concern is my little angel who i believe god sent here to comfort me.  Thanks once again

[alwayscurious15]

first of all change your phone number because u do not need some mofo`s chick calling u and harrassing u and secondly dont call him focus on ur pregnancy men can be very mean at times when we are having theyre baby dont deal with them at all.....