Low22 & Kris123

Hi to you both!  I saw that you both responded to me yesterday, and then I never came on again.  Things are good here.  I'm keeping myself busy at home (Low, I sent you an email today).  Kris, I am so so sorry you are feeling so badly about the bfing and about your BF.  Do not be so hard on yourself.  Truthfully, I am such an anxious person that I decided against bfing altogether, because I know myself, and I'll slip into the doldrums if I try, and it does not work out.  For me, the choice became easy to preserve my sanity.  As for the BF, I completely agree with Low.  Do not make any decisions now.  You are in a new life and are very vulnerable to all outside influences right now.  Do certainly allow your BF to see the little one on your schedule and on your terms, but do not make any decisions about the future with him.  Give it lots of time and when you are ready to make any decisions you will know.  It could be months, but that's ok.  You are allowed to take all the time in the world.  Try and enjoy this time (I can imagine that it's totally easy for me to say right now - I don't have little Nathan yet in my arms).  But, from what I hear, this time goes by so quickly and you can't get it back.  They're only so small for such a short time.  Love all the time you can with him.  I hope your daughter is having fun with him, too.  Take care and keep us posted.  We are thinking of you!!!

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Hello! I know Low is doing just fine (left a message a couple of pages ago....) and she's ready to pop little Bella out!!! =))

I know Kris is having a hard time with the little one latching to her breast.......=(

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