My girlfriend is freaking out please help !

Ok, Me and my girlfriend have sex reguaruly, without condoms she is on birth control and I always pull out before we're finished. Anyways about two months ago she changed her birth controls from some kind to the YAZ i think, and then about a week later she wasa couple days late on her period and started freaking out, so when it was suppose to be her second day into her period we went to the super market and grabbed First Response pregancy test, we took both of them and they came out negative so we got some relief, that weekend she went to Mexico with her family on vacation and was calling me telling me she was peeing alot, and dry heaving in the morning. She then said she got her period but it wasnt really like a real one, she said it was a little bit of blood and it only lasted one or two days,

Since both pregnancy test came out postive we figured there wasnt anything wrong, so then about a week later she went to college, when time came for her next period she said she was spotting for about 10 days and started worrying again, but we figured nothing was wrong and ignored it,

it is now suppose to be her third period, and now she is freaking out because today is suppose to be her second day with it and she hasnt gotten anything yet, I cant get her a pregnancy test because shes at college and she is to scared to say anything to her parents who are down there for the weekend she doesnt want them to know, and she is doing nothing but worrying bad right now.

I told her it might be stress because she just had mid terms, and she told me she doesnt worry about things like that and she is freaking out non stop, and i feel so bad because im not there and dont know what to do she misses her pills a couple times a month when she forgets them but i dont know if this is a problem to

Do you think she could be pregnant? Is there anything else that could cause these problems? Should first response of worked when we took the test during the time she was suppose to get her period 2 months ago? Please help tell me anything so if shes ok then i can relieve some stress on her i just feel so bad right now,

Thanks Alot!

[alaysha]

If she switched birth control types than that can cause her cycle to be weird for a couple months. If she took a pregnancy test and it came up negative than most likely she isn't pregnant or at least she wasn't at that time. The best thing to do is have her take another test with first morning urine or go to the doctor and get a blood test done.

If you two dont want her to be pregnant the best thing to do is to use a condom as well since missing even a couple of her pills makes birth control less effective.

[mamaluke]

So you think she could just be late right now, because of the change of birth control even though that was like two months ago? Also if her breast got large from pregancy they wouldn't get smaller then get big again which is what happend right? That im guessing is from her period?

The thing that is scaring her most is that she thinks we took the test to early, because we took it while she was suppose to have her period two months ago, we didnt do it after her period, but isn't that how First Response works? and also shes scared to death because of the ten day spotting she had and now she isnt getting her period.

I just dontk know what to do, I know not to not use condoms anymore, that was dumb of me, but now I need to figure something out because every time I call her she sounds like she is about to cry and is'nt herself,

[daprincess21]

he types pretty good for a man!

[Kim1989]

you first say both tests came out negative, then you say they both came out positive. so which is it?

when i was on birth control. and switched it for whatever reason. it messed up my period for awhile. i guess cuz my body was use to one for awhile then i was trying this new one. tell her to take a new test

[ImmortalOne]

"Since both pregnancy test came out postive we figured there wasnt anything wrong, so then about a week later she went to college, when time came for her next period she said she was spotting for about 10 days and started worrying again, but we figured nothing was wrong and ignored it,"

He says they were positive.. if they were positive, then yeah she's probably pregnant... use condoms next time, no form of birth control is 100%....

[daprincess21]

nice catch immortal! Shows how well we pay attention huh?

[Kim1989]

"so when it was suppose to be her second day into her period we went to the super market and grabbed First Response pregancy test, we took both of them and they came out negative so we got some relief"

thats why i thought they came out negative too.

if she still hasnt gotten a real period. i would bet shes pregnant. however sounds like shes stressing a lot about this. and when some women stress. that messes up their peirod as well. but if she hasnt gotten anything like shes use to yet...i would say she is. take another test. or go to the doctors with her. and test her blood. that way you will get a real accurate ansewer

[nanis]

Positive? I was about to say???? Either it was a typo or this is not real :/.
But I'll still give my expert advice..lol.If she CHANGED birth control in between cycles the instructions clearly state that she has to use protection for a whole wk(7 days) If she is on bc then why are you pulling out?And why is your post name MAMALUKE? whatever...he/she probably wont come back.

[daprincess21]

btw- if you are on bc and you miss a few pills, yes you can still get pg! ive seen it happen (well i havent seen it so to say, but heard of it...lol) and another thing, there is no way that we can tell you if she is or is not pg. good luck!

[ksanden]

yaz didnt give me a period until i took the 3rd pill and sometimes not untill the 4th..
ksanden

[AnnieBrooke]

I think that when he used the word positive, he meant it as "certain," not as a + on a test.  In other words, he meant it was certain they were definitely negative.

[Kim1989]

this is a weird one

[AnnieBrooke]

In fact, he said because the test results were positive (as in so certain, or such good news), they weren't worried.  That probably was not him saying that there was a plus in the window on the test.  

[jesse-sophia's mommy]

i dont know about this one i am just as lost as the rest of yalls.

[mamaluke]

Sorry guys

I guess everyone was confused about my post, I meant to say they were negative just like the first post,

Anyways two days after she was suppose to have her period she told me she did get it, but only for a couple hours?

So i told her everything you guys said, how it could be the change of birth controls and it calmed her down a little bit.

Thanks for all the responses!

ps.

And why is your post name MAMALUKE? whatever...he/she probably wont come back.


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