Ok, whose trying to get me booted from this site?

[BabyNumberEleven]

Twice now I've checked after having posted completely friendly posts and my posts have been removed. At first I thought maybe it was a computer glitch, but now I smell a rat. It sure seems that somebody is obviously making false reports to the forum resulting in a removal of what I post out of some vendetta.

[Harley-girl]

Have you rcvd an e-mail from Med-help warning you? If not someone just had their panties in a bundle and wanted your posts removed due to content.  Don't let it get you too upset some people love to stir the pot and cause trouble.

[bambino]

hi, that has happennned to me before but it came back a while later. Im sure no one is trying to get you kicked out. x

[bambino]

hi, that has happennned to me before but it came back a while later. Im sure no one is trying to get you kicked out. x

[JJety]

Yes, have you received any emails from MH?  There's not really any such thing as "false reports".  The owners can read your posts and decide if they should be deleted or not.

I too have noticed that all of your posts have been deleted.  Weird.

[Adevotee]

your post is not removed, it was just moved to the archives. Click on archives at the top, then click on pregnancy-normal and your latest post is there.

Take Care

[Want1more]

I'm so sorry you are having such a hard time here, I said yesterday to you that your the only one who can make good choices for your babies, and I'm sure you will. Don't listen to what everyone else is saying, it doesn't help I know. I told you yesterday, I know where you are. I had slept with a cute young bartender, got pregnant by him, mine was a OOPS though. I am now raising a happy and healthy 22 month old by him, he's not in the picture though. But, anyways, I had everyone telling me what I should and shouldn't do. Finally I took a deep breath and did what my heart tells me. I think your trying hard to do what's right, I think it will be all good in the end. Take Care and lots of HUGS!!!

[brentlie]

I just posted also and I saw it show up and then came back a minute or so later and it was gone.  I was asking a question about my sore breasts, I dont know why it was kicked off but I am going to try to post it again.

[Want1more]

The posts were there this morning, I read the newest one, maybe they got removed because the threads were full with comments.

[bambino]

sorry that my post came up a million times, my PC went a bit mad!

[Jenny77]

I don't know either. Sometimes I think that Medhelp monitors this site on their own and it seems that sometimes they choose to delete certain threads if it has anything controversial or something that has started an online fight between posters, reguardless of who started the thread. You should probably e-mail medhelp, to ask them about the situation, they can give you much better insite than anyone on here. I know some ladies have e-mailed them about certain things (rules in particular) and they have e-mailed back in a timely manner.

[BabyNumberEleven]

Yep, all of my posts prior to today have been removed because a certain someone and I am pretty sure I know who.

[BabyNumberEleven]

I actually got an email from Medhelp telling me there had been a complaint and that's why they arbitrarily removed everything I ever posted. That's fine. Medhelp can do that, that's their prerogative, but what was said will remain in the memories of many people here and that is satisfaction enough for me. People who followed my posts know who was truly being mean and who wasn't.

[JJety]

Your thread from yesterday is just in the archives.  It's not deleted.

[BabyNumberEleven]

Yeah I did what you said and saw it there. It was still removed in a sense though since you can't scroll down and see it like you can everyone else's from yesterday. Anyone who wants to read it in the archives is welcome to see that I wasn't the one bent on being hurtful to others.

[jackiemoo]

What was the title of your post yeserday? I want to read it?

[newlywed05]

I don't think it was because of you. That La_ person posted on a few other forums on medhelp and her responses are gone there also. Just a guess though.

[mslkpage]

That's happened to me before, and I emailed medhelp to see why a thread was deleted. They said if they move/delete threads because of the other poster's comments or other peoples' requests, then the whole thing is gone, and sometimes, other threads that person posted on as well.

I wouldn't take it personally.

[jackiemoo]

OH WOW! I found it! That was amazingly rude. I cannot believe those women man. Well, maybe they are going through a tough time too. 4 kids is tough. I am about to have my second and I am scared! Finances are always tough unless you are very rich. That is just a fact of life I believe. I think that you should do what is best for your family. Why do you want to move out of state? Is it just to get away from that man or some other reason???

Good luck to you. I wish you and your kids well..

[JJety]

They archive things almost every day.  Even posts done just the day before.  It's pretty common actually, and especially even more so because the thread did get heated.  

But it's a new day, and I'm sure things will be better today.

[have 2 kids]

I definately think someone is making random complaints as I was notified also that my posts were rude and abusive.

[jaritzadane]

This is a website/forum-not JR High school. Aren't we all adults? This web site has helped me so much with my loss and I hope I have returned helpful advice too. Please lets stick with helping each other rather than picking at everyone. Probley some people post with emotion and are not trying to hurt people. This world has enough anger. Can't we all be peacefull!

[GSDmomma]

i didn't even know they could do that i kept thinking things kept disapearing. huh.

[Tanyatmdmc3]

I too noticed that your comments were removed from the question I posted about ultrasound problems. Well I just wanted to tell you that I had my ultrasound today and everything is normal. They want to keep an eye out and monitor my baby but they said I was in the normal range. If you would like more info on what they said just let me know I'll tell you everything. If you reply to this post. Thanks again for your help

[BabyNumberEleven]

That's wonderful news! Yay! Thank you so much for sharing that. I'm so relieved for you and your baby!

[Want1more]

She didn't say it was you, someone else did, she's not pointing fingers. But, why do you keep harassing her? Enough is enough, right?

[ima1]

Congratulations on your twins, sweetheart.  I hope you will be truly happy with them and everything else in your life.  As for your post being removed, you were NOT the one being rude yesterday.  There were plently of women who said their piece without getting abusive, and those that did were wrong.  However, I think you have stepped on some toes recently and this is the result.  That does not make it right by any means, Im just trying to explain whats going on.  (In my opinion, whatever thats worth.) I think it is truly sad that at this point in our world we still have not learned to respect all people, all opinions, and that we still feel we have a right to comment on someone elses choices.  Unless they are directly affecting us, we need to keep our mouths shut.  Like the Beatles said 0- All we need is love.....  Lets all just try to love each other and everyone around us.  None of us are better or worse than the other, just different.  Those of us who concider ourselves righeous and religious (myself included) need to thik what G-d really wants from us, how he wants us to treat His children.  That said, maybe we all need to get on a different site to chat about things not med - related.  Ive been looking for one and never got the hang of the other ones.  Maybe you guys can suggest something.  I want a site where the chat is in a format like this, not email.  Again #11, congrats and dont let the snarky hormone ridden of us gt you downXoXOXOXO

[Jah02e]

Dang...I am sorry that all that was said yesterday.  I didn't even get to read the post until now.  Some people are just rude, but anyways Congrats on the twins.  I wanted twins so badly!  My best friend had twins and she had a boy and a girl...how perfect!  Well, good luck with everything!

[2songbirds]

I don't know if you saw my reply from yesterday. I don't know where it went, nor am I wasting time trying to find it.

I just wanted to say very big congrats on twins. You are truly being blessed twice. Nevermind about what anybody's remarks against your beliefs. Sometimes people don't understand what we'll do just to have another baby until they're in our shoes. I know that you've stood up for me in the past about debates on my lifestyle. Why there was ever a debate in the first place, well that's just all the dang hormones on this board. I haven't posted much in the last couple weeks, maybe months, but I've been reading from time to time. You seem like a very strong and independent woman. You'll decide what's best for your family. You definitely don't need any negative criticism right now. Opinions are just that, but some remarks on here have been dang right rude towards you. Believe me, I know how they can make you feel. Keep in mind though, it's not those of us who have been here longer that are being rude to you. So I hope you still come here and offer advice and insights.

[BabyNumberEleven]

Thank you for your kind words. Honestly I am so excited about my babies that it (what was said yesterday) doesn't matter to me anymore anyway I'm just ready to embrace the joy of preparing for my babies and revelling in the awesomeness of the idea that I will have two babies to love. I'm so on cloud 9 about it being twins-I never thought I'd get to experience multiples again, and hopefully this time it will be a happy outcome-so I'm just over here rubbing my bellybump and smiling like a goofball.

Snagalachera-I forgive you hun. I know you didn't ask for that but I'm ready to just say let's everyone be kind to you and start fresh. Everybody has a bad day once in a while and maybe yours was yesterday. I know that sometimes I strike a nerve with people because I am a little outspoken and I know that it can be easy to sometimes get the wrong impression about people.

[BabyNumberEleven]

I put two names on that "comment to" section but only one showed up. Anyhow, again, (((Hugs))) to you 2Songbirds and everybody I'm ok -really-thank you all who've been so supportive lately! You all have helped me feel more welcome here and that means a lot. I think I'm going to take a few days off from the board though to focus in on my sculpting which I'm a little behind in, but I'll definitely still be thinking about you all and looking forward to hearing your updates!

[first time mama]

I live in the West......you will like it!

[Berko]

I'm glad everyone made up. I hate fights - disagreements are fine, but I hate full-blown fighting and the tensions it causes so I'm glad that everyone's at peace again. I think like many have written already that we have to remember that we're here to support eachother - that doesn't mean agreeing with everything and everyone, but at least treating everyone with respect. So many of us have lost so much already or are having such a hard time turning our dreams into reality that the last thing we need is more pain.

[Facere23]

I've been coming to this site for about 2 months now.  At first, i thought it was wonderful.  But, recently, i've seen quite a few posts where someone will needlessly jump down another's throat.  I'm not sure if it's healthy.  I'm not sure if i will continue coming back here.  I'm not saying that everyone is like that.  There are several wonderful women on this site.  But the nasty ones seem to overpower that.  It wasn't jsut baby#11 that they do it to. I saw it on another post where i guess someone posted the same question more than once.  And so many people were horribly mean.  I thought this was a site for support.  

I want say congrats to Baby#11.  I wish you only the best.  And congrats to everyone else....sticky baby dust.  Maybe i'll eventually calm down...my hormones are on the rise, but right now it's gotten me very worked up to read what some people have to say to others.  Thank you...to the wonderful ladies who graciously gave helpful and kind advice.

[first time mama]

I agree, I've been here since March and it seems to get progressively worse.  I know that it is an internet site so you should expect it but still.  
This site helped me through one of the toughest times of my life thus far, I don't know what i would have done had I not found it when I was having my m/c.  I hope that it continues to be a site for support and help and that negative comments will begin to fade.

[2songbirds]

I agree as well. I've been coming here since march also. I don't stop by quiet as often because of the fact that so many people can be mean and judgemental. I know my views on wanting to have a third in my situation were judged, and since then I have a different perspective on some of the women here. But then again, there's so many hormones going around. Needless to say, I still come around b/c it is still a great site and I've developed friendships along the way.

[babylove2006]

Well I personally think you are a VERY SWEET PERSON!

You are also a STRAIGHT TO THE POINT PERSON too!

I am glad you are a part of this web family. And that's what we are ... A FAMILY. We all get on this website to share our concerns and fears and our happy moments.

Please don't stop coming to this site! I enjoy reading your posts.

((((HUGS))))