Please help to get pregnant..

Hi ,

My first day of last period is 22-March.

To get a baby we have been trying for the past 7 Months.

Whenever we have the sex the sperm (Liquid-sperms) leaks out (Though I keep my legs in air free for more than 30- 45 minutes).

Please help me we are trying for a baby. My period is regular and we have sex based upon the ovulation calendar.

When can we have the sex this month.

Please help......

[agini]

i hope u r tracking ur ovulation with ovulation kit if u do thats good.then u know exactly when u r ovulating so good time to try is 2 to 3 days before u ovulate,& offcourse on the day of ovulation & next day.goodluck.eat lots of berry's during ur ovulation time also eat yam its good for fertility.u said u r trying from 7 months,so did u check ur ovulation in this 7 months or not??if yes try 2 ,3 months more & if not dont wait dee dr.i hope u dont have to see dr.goodluck & lots of baby dust.

[AnnieBrooke]

Try every other day for a week or a week and a half, starting around the 30th of March.  Sperm lives in your system for several days, and it is not desirable to have sex every day since it reduces the sperm count.  So do it every second day or even every third day and that is enough to keep the sperm count higher while still having sperm in your system when you ovulate.  An every-other-day schedule would be March 30, April 1, April 3, April 5 and April 7.   If your husband can't manage that much, you could do every third day, March 30, April 2, and April 5.   (This starts on the 30th instead of later because some women ovulate earlier than the 14th day of their cycle.)

Though it is fine to put your legs in the air, you don't have to do it for 30-45 minutes.  The semen does eventually leak out, but the sperm in the semen are uphill swimmers, and once they hit the cervical mucus they swim up into the cervix in much less time than that.

[sangik]

Thanks for your suggestions, we will plan accordingly.

[sangik]

After sex what all the things that I should not do and what all the things that I should ?

For example the food,work,travel etc..,

Please help..

[AnnieBrooke]

Do your normal routine.  If food, work and travel (as long as they do not expose you to poisons or carginogens) would endanger pregnancies, nobody would have babies.  

There is an excellent book called "Your Pregnancy Week by Week" that you might wish to order once you get pregnant.  I read it every week when I was pregnant and learned a lot.

Good luck!  Keep us posted on your results!