Pregnant or a worry wart?

[Brittney0101]

My boyfriend and I broke up about a month ago, he has been seeing other girls and I've been seeing other guys. My ex and I have been having sex, the last time we had sex was on Tuesday 24th of Aug. July 4th I started my period and Aug. 8th I started my period. Well, He went in me on the 24th. I decided I would look at ovulation calculator and see if I was fertile or not. He also mentioned something to me that day about be 'sooo wet' (Sorry!!) So I am sure I was ovulating, it has only been about a week too early to take a pregnancy test. My breast feel different, kind of like...they are real firm...sore, but yet soft?? I guess I am just stressing out, I don't want to tell him until I make sure I am!...Any idea of my chances?? Thanks!

[sm8]

if you have a regular 28 day cycle with a 14 day luteal phase you should have been just past your fertile period. here is a website that might help track so you can see the results for your self www.mymonthlycycles.com

[Brittney0101]

No my cycle isn't 28 days...its around 32? I believe

[nanakay]

well then....one week from today if you don't start take an early hpt.  the only other way you will know for sure is to have a blood test done and since you are a week from starting yet they might not do one.
good luck in what ever happens and you decide.
~nanci

[Kassimom]

Didn't you already post this exact question?

Not trying to be rude, but this forum gets only a limited number of threads per day. Perhaps, you might be better served if you looked at the responses made to your previous post. This way someone new gets a chance to ask questions as well.

[Brittney0101]

I posted this question  UNDER someone elses question PERSONALLY I think my question is more important than someone posting to see if someone else has taken a test?...

[Angel4JohnnyB]

No one said your question wasn't important, just that you had already posted it once. We do only get a limited # of posts and that is why 'that someone you mentioned' posted that it was an "open forum" (for everyone to ask questions on) and they wanted to know if someone had tested.......
The question was NOT just to see if a test had been taken.

[Mandy13]

I don't understand why you guys are being so rude.  Brittney has a concern and needs some advice.  She felt that she did not get enough response to her questions so she wanted to post again.  She is very concern about her situation and wanted some feedback from the people who might have seen her question.  

Brittney, there is a good chance that you could be pregnant...I suggest you wait til AF is due and then test.  If you have a 32 day cycle, you would have ovulated around that time.  The sperm can live up to 72 hours with a good environment.  I hope things work out for you.  Good luck!

[blondie72]

Noone is being rude to this girl.   All they are stating is she has already posted the question yesterday and she got answers then.  We understand her concern but if she did not want to get pregnant then I guess she shouldn't have had sex now don't you agree.  Now about the comment that Brittney made about how she thinks her ??? is more important than whether or not someone has tested I am sorry but this is a person who has been TTC for a while now and there was a possibility she could be pg and we like to know the good news on this board especially from someone trying so hard.   I am sorry if any of you thought anyone was being rude here but get over it.   Like it has been said OVER & OVER again on this board from the MILLIONS of could I be pregnant posts if you have unprotected sex there is always the possibility but NOONE here can tell you that.  I really wish people would stop wasting posts about this.  If you have unprotected sex wait for your period.  If you don't get it test.  If it comes out negative wait for your period if it still does not come go to your dr.  If it is positive then again go to the dr and get the care you are needing.    I just think we should stop wasting posts for this.    Take Care to all of you.

[Kassimom]

Okay first of all let me say Kudos to Blondie for putting it so perfectly.

Secondly, I even stated that my intent was NOT to be rude.

HOWEVER, to assume that your question is more important than anyone elses is SO TOTALLY self-absorbed!!!

Sorry but to be perfectly honest, yes I, as most of us do, care if that person tested and let me tell you why.

As already stated, this person has gone through heartache and hell JUST TRYING to get pregnant. To trivialize this fact by saying that your question is more important is just shallow.

[Brittney0101]

First off, let me say this I'm not 15 years old and being worried about getting pregnant.  I know I was having unprotected sex and I never said I didn't want a child. Anyways, for anyone who cares!!...I went to the doctor yesterday to get a blood test, it came out negative but they said it may not show up until I am suppose to start my period. So I guess better luck next time!!...

[nanakay]

well i know i shouldn't ask but i can't help it......i'm confused you were trying to get pg by your EX-boyfriend??
~nanci

[Brittney0101]

When we were together, we did try to get pregnant.  But I guess we never thought about it when we broke up, Anything can happen right?...yeah I noticed there are alot of rude women on this forum.  I guess they don't have a life and they are concerned with drama and fighting with people who are ACTUALLY trying to figure something out and asking questions. But, if anyone needs someone to talk to...or even asking questions...feel free to email me at ***@****, dont post on this forum...!

[hther]

Pdoll- you never did tell us about the birth of your child after 9 long months of negative tests and doctor confirmations of your not being pregnant.

I'm politely asking you to please not stir up drama or debate about how ppl are treated when you asked over and over, month after month, if you were pregnant knowing full well you weren't.

All i can say to this post is hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm?

My apologies to everyone else on the board, I couldn't hold that in as I thought it was hella funny that this member posted again.

[Kassimom]

Don't apologize to us girl! Speak your mind and feel free to do it!

I am in total agreement with you!!!

HHmmm......?????

[hther]

What did your husband who had the vasectomy think of your "miracle" pregnancy? Did you think you'll get a lot of money for the medical malpractice suits you'll pursue to all the doctors who told you that you weren't pregnant? I mean, heck, you couldn't obtain prenatal care properly, right?....sounds like a good case to me. Or did you lose it all in the divorce due to the affair? (oooooooo....LOW BLOW!)

By the way, you ALREADY told me through email on numerous occassions that you were not pregnant. Have a nice day. You're posts shall be ignored from this moment on. Tell Mel I sais Hi.

[hther]

Pardon the typos and improperly structured sentences. You get my point though.

[Chloe2003]

I would just like to say that you are such a liar.. and that you need to stop coming to this forum.. everyone has been wonderful without you coming on here everyday starting **** and ranting and raving about your bs.. You were never pregnant.. you have also wrote me in emails that you WERE NOT PREGNANT and trying to work things out with hubby etc..etc.. anyways.. get over yourself.. leave us alone.. btw.. the reason I call you PDOOKIE now is because thats all your doing is stirring up a bunch of stinky old dookie!!

~*chloe*~

[Brittney0101]

Well, alot of you women are rude, you'd think you would have better things to do then to harass other adults?...I guess that is baby momma drama!...I wish people could mind their own business, about cheating husbands etc. Its noone's business!! I really don't like this forum, the only reason I posted was to ask a simple question but obviously you can't get that from this forum.  Also there is a great forum at www.pregnacy-info.net and they aren't rude and get into peoples business! Good day!

[babyk]

HYA I WANT TO KNOW IF ANY1 CAN HELP ME, I AM A WEEK LATE ON MY PERIOD AND HAVE BEEN FEELING SICK, I HAVE HAD PAINS AND MY BREAST HURT AND HAVE GOT BIGGER, I WANT TO NOW COULD I BE PREGNANT? PLEASE HELP.

[single_mom]

Hello ladies. I am new to this forum and I just wanted to say that all of you have gotten way off track here. This is a forum for help and that is all. If someone re-asks a question they asked already, ignore it and don't respond unless you can offer advice to help the situation. I think a lot of what has been said was unnecessary and only made all of you that responded negatively look ignorant, and I am sure that none of you want to portray as being that way. We are all grown women, let us act that way. If you can not render informative advice, don't post.

[single_mom]

Sweetheart have you taken a test? It is always a good idea to take a test before asking someone for help. We could give you and answer but how would we really know. And there could be the chance that it is all in your mind. Take the test and let me know how it goes.