Very faint blue line!

It's been 6 weeks post Mirena IUD removal, after having it in for nearly 5 years. I have not had a period since March 13th.... I got my IUD taken out April 5th, followed by about 4 days of bleeding/spotting.
I have NO clue about any regular period... Before I had my last period I didn't have one for 6 weeks.. My body has been out of whack for quite some time.
HOWEVER, I took a blood and urine pregnancy test on March 27th, both were negative.
So I've been having some breast pain, I've been SO tired (also had a very very mild cold, but the exhausion is unreal for such a mild cold) I'm always hot... I've been getting cramps... so my boyfriend and I decide to take another pregnancy test...
We had sex earlier, and I took the test in the afternoon... Immediately this very faint blue line appears in one window and a definite blue line appears in another.
As far as I've read, any line is a BFP...
No bright light, no magnifying glass, just an obvious very light blue line that can be easily seen by a person with normal vision.
... he said he blames himself... like.. what the heck does that mean?! Duh u idiot u took health class in high school! Im so happy that this might be a pregnancy, but I'm SO sad on his reaction. Like... I'm inches away from never speaking to him again...
What do I do girls?

[TurquoiseGenie]

Oh, and also, I posted a couple pictures on my page from my camera phone. Its a little blurry but if you can see the faint blue line through the blurr please let me know!

[Clysta]

It's really hard to see. If I recall these are those Walmart tests. I would encourage you to get a pink dye test and take it with first morning urine. Blue dye tests are notorious for false positives and evap lines.

As for the boyfriend....hard to say. Have you both talked about children in the past? Has he ever said he wanted any? Give it some time, and see if he comes around. It might just be the shock for now setting in.

[TurquoiseGenie]

I just took the second one, the blue line is much more visable...Can you see it??

[TurquoiseGenie]

Im on my way to get some pink ones! Oh my gosh this is a rush.... I hope those arnt false positives... I am cramping on my left side... My first pregnancy was painless.. Im not understanding these cramps. omg, could it be a miscarraige (miscarriage)?
Im a little uneasy at the moment. so much going on and being psycho moody isn't helping...

[Clysta]

Cramping while pregnant is really normal. I had cramping and pain for 25 weeks. Mine used to get so bad I would carry around a hot water bottle wrapped in napkins to help with the pain. I can see the one on your profile better than the others. I would still advise you to use a pink dye test. Make sure you hold your urine for at least 4 hours and don't drink anything before or during that time frame. This should allow enough time for the hCG to build up enough to detect.

[TurquoiseGenie]

well its a BFP...
Im a single mother as it is... Im 25... he's 24... Im scared to death.
I don't want to be unwed... i dont want to have another child out of wedlock...
I don't know how to tell him? I don't want him to feel obligated...
He is not thrilled, he's indifferent to this whole situation. He said he wont abandon me but he doesn't want to stay in california either... and I have joint custody of my daughter.. I can't leave my child.
I havn't told anyone... Im sick to my stomach. Worried, scared... I don't want to be that woman with two "babies daddies" OMG I feel like I'm having a panick attack.
I want a family SO bad but I can't tell him that I think it's the best idea that we get married... But maybe he knows that? Maybe he needs more time to process this information, talk to his brothers about it?
I feel like I should just break up with him and never speak to him again. My daughter is so torn between her dad and I in the broken home we provided for her.. I can't bare to see another child raised in a broken family. It almost seems less painful to raise a child on my own.
My life just changed... The thoughts of being pregnant were wonderful... now that I am, the thoughts are frightening.

[Clysta]

It's a difficult situation to be in. He SHOULD however accept it. Sex is intended for reproduction. I would just tell him. He either accepts he has a child or he leaves. Regardless, he is obligated to care for that child and even if you don't want him to feel that way he is. I wouldn't rush at the idea of marriage yet though. It's not always the solution. How long have you been together? Maybe it's just that he needs time.

[TurquoiseGenie]

He's coming around... The shock needed to settle in for both he and I. I woke up this morning and raced to the bathroom in hopes that this mornings test would come up clear as day, but it didn't.. Still so light! I think I got pregnant a week or so ago... I had to of, he just got back from Eastern Eurpoe on May 5th.
With my daughter Cadence, I was just barely over 2 weeks pregnanct by time I found out.
It's going to be such a long pregnancy. Lastnight, I prayed and I prayed that everything will be okay.
but what if all these faint blue lines on all 5 tests doesnt mean I'm pregnant? The thought still circles my mind.
Oh 2pm is taking so long to get here! (for a bloodtest)

We got together 2 months ago, from the moment we met we were like... "that's the one!"
... we are pretty much inseperable, but due to our distance, we have to be. We have plans to make and a future to plan. We will most likely get married.
He said to me lastnight on the phone that he still wants a big church wedding. :-) And I'm completely okay with that.
It's funny how life doesn't exactly happen the way we want it to, or does it?
Thank you Clysta. Have a wonderful day.
I am feeling much better :-)