advice needed please ladies,.....

ok ladies im 20 weeks and 4 days due march 1st... and up to this point i have only gained one pound in this pregnancy.. dr say i need to eat but i dont have the appetite to want to eat. i mean i dont go without eating but im not a big eater. now do take in mind that i was over weight coming in to this as this is my 7th baby,,,,, ok so here it is , there is no shame in my weight so this is baby #7 and im 5'5 and as of right now i weigh in at 205..... i started at 204 than went up to 213 than went back down to 209 than when i went last week i was in at 205. but i dont have no votiming no nothing.. im eating but just not alot.. will tha baby be ok??? all my others one i gained 30 to 50 lbs. more weight with the boys.. and less with the girls . but thsi one is goin no where.. and i do feel the baby moving and i do have a fetal heart droppler that i use because of the previous m/c. my mind stays worried.. but now that i feel tha baby moving i feel alot better but what can i do to gain something.. they say thay want me to gain at least 15-20 lbs.. well that would be alot to gain in just a lil of 4 months... i go back to dr on the 29th and that when i hope to find out the sex of the lil bean ... =)    is anyone else expericenin what i am.. thanks to anyone who can help here. .i jsut want this lil baby to be ok ...


136 days to go ...yay

[kjbutcher]

my mom did this with both of her pregnancies.  She was a bit overweight when they both started and she gained nothing.  With in a few weeks of giving birth she had lost 30 lbs.  Both my brother and I were fine.  You may be eating healthier and just losing weight elsewhere while baby is gaining just fine.