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not pregnancy related but you girls are great -
kala my 12years daddy is $820 behind - i just filled out a show cause and am going to mail it - take him to court.  he is telling me that he will bring dr excuses saying he can't work and shouldn't but yet he some how is working.  he will lie to get out of paying any thing.  some how he hurt his back a few years ago and has paid childsupport, pays his ******* rent, pays his cell bill, pays for food but yet leaves kala in the dark - he can't prove his income so i am afraid it will hurt me rather then help but heard this judge through dead beat dads in jail quick - should i mail it? should i give him till the end of the week - i need this money like yesterday but if i am not going to get it he can rot in jail
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they will give him work release so it's not like he can't work just no life :)
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not to metion i am so stressed about money we moved out of mom's and i depend on the childsupport to make it i had to dip into my IRA i am so so so sad anyone ever had to deal with this ****
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A friend of mine went through this, I'm sorry.  When all is said and done, he will have to pay as did the Dad in her case, but for her it tooks months.  And all those months of arguing, and court dates, He had to pay all that back support as well, so it doesn't really help the Dad at all to fight it.

Good luck.
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Kris, about a year and a half ago my ex quit his job, and I haven't gotten child support since. He is still not in jail and still working. I hope you have better luck than I have. He is getting away with not having to support four girls. It makes me so angry. It happened right after we bought our house. Talk about a shock. I was getting $1000 a month and then it was gone. We've managed but it hasn't been easy. A judge can't just throw someone in jail for not paying. There are laws they have to abide by and time that they have to give them to get a job. Unless it's different in different states. Good luck. I hope he starts working soon or you have better luck than I have had.
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I meant still NOT working (:
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he has been in jail twice - the judge said pay or else - we have been in court about 14 times and kala is 12 he has pulled this **** before.  the judge has no problem putting him in jail - it is a new judge though so i wouldn't know what to expect.  maybe i shouldn't and wait.
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just think what would you have done if you were on your own - would it have been hard.  i am just sick of both the dads just sick one don't pay the other don't pay enough- we are going to court on that.  he makes $5200 a month take home compared to my 2400 and he says he should only pay half WTF sorry i am just so stressed about money right now and can't think of anything else i am just so sad no one will help
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It's not like being in jail gets anyone anything though. That's one thing I've never understood. They can't work while they're in jail. It's a no-win situation, but something has to happen.
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in my county they give them work release - he has been in jail twice but maybe i should just wait what do you think?  he was 2500 behind came up with it in two weeks then 2000 came up with it in one week.  they allowed him to work
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