cramps after IVF

[Lori123342]

Congratulations to you!  That is wonderful news and I am truly joyful for you.  I wish you the best of luck with this pregnancy.  Please keep us posted.

Thank you for your kind words of support.  The waiting is the hardest part.  I will take your advice and try to find things to occupy my mind.

Be well!

[mysty2001]

my beta was 900 on my first official beta (I snuck in one early because i knew I was pregnant and it was 129)

[Danielle501]

Lori and Rose - Congrats on the positive results!!   That is so great!!

SMA827 - Thanks so much for the kind words.   Just another day and a half of waiting and I hope all of the positive tests this week carry through til my test day.  Good luck with your sonogram next week.   I wish you the best and I will let you know what I find out tomorrow.

[rose73005]

Mysty, are you pregnant with multiples with that high of a beta?

Danielle, Good luck tomorrow, I know the next 24 hours are going to feel like forever!  You will be in my thoughts.

[Emily04]

Hello Everyone!
I found this board while seeking answers for the symptoms I've been experiencing since my transfer on 5/09.  After a year of unsuccessful trying on our own, my husband was diagnosed with low sperm count and motility.  This is our first attempt at IVF with ICSI and assisted hatching.  Only 6 eggs were collected during my retrieval and two embryos were transfered on day 3.  None to freeze, unfortunately.  My blood test is scheduled for tomorrow morning, but I get an awful feeling that my period is about to start.  I've had preiod-style cramps for the past three days, lower backache, headaches, and horrible night sweats for the past two nights.  It seems like many of you have experienced cramping....has anyone else had night sweats?  I would appreciate any input you have to offer....like the rest of you, this waiting is driving my crazy!  Thanks!

[SMA827]

I too would have sworn that I was going to start.  I did not have the sweating though! But everyone has some of the same and some different symptoms. I commend you for not taking the HPT.  I did not wait the stress was too much, so I took the test and it was positive. Then I wondered if it was correct or not, luckily for me it was.  I wish you the best of luck. Please let us know tomorrow when you find out.  I will say some prayers for a positive result. You are not alone, there are alot us going through this.  Shannon

[Danielle501]

I haven't had the night sweats but I've experienced all of the rest of your symptoms.   My test is tomorrow too so I obviously don't know what the outcome will be but I hope it provides you some comfort to know that lots of other people experienced the same symptoms and are now happily pregnant!   I too have been convinced for the last week that I'm going to start any minute.   I just found this site a few days ago myself and it's made me feel so much better.   I definitely wish I'd found it prior to my 3rd IVF but the girls on this site are just the best...so totally supportive.    I will be thinking about you and wish you all the best for a positive test result tomorrow.

[SMA827]

Wow that is a high Beta, could be twins. How many days after your transfer was your blood test?  I was told my was high too and we are praying for twins, it would be so awesome. Mine was 758 day 12.  We won't find out though until the 28th!!!  Shannon

[mysty2001]

SMA and Rose - yes I have twins - but I didn;t guess based on hcg (because I had super high betas nurse said I bet twins and it was one - next pregnancy normal beta - 99 day 10 and 205 day 12 - and it was twins - so I knew not to rely)  But I thought twins cause I was nauseated so early - like last set of twins

mine was 900 day 13 (really late day 12)

[SMA827]

How many children do you have and were they all from IVF?  That is weird about the HCG's level's being so different, lower=twins higher= single.   I guess I should stop assumming that I have twins based on numbers.  Shannon

[rose73005]

SMA827-  What was your first beta?  Mine was 745 so I am wondering if twins too.  This is going to be a long couple of weeks! When is your Ultrasound?

Emily- I know how you feel about all the PMS type symptoms.  I haven't had any night sweats but have had cramps pretty much everyday since my transfer.  Some of my cramps get pretty intense at times too. I even had some spotting last week. My doctor suggested I just take some Tylenol so at least I won't feel them and then they won't cause as much worry.
Good luck tomorrow, let us know how it goes!

[SMA827]

Hello Rose,  My first beta was 758 then 2 days later it was 1,957. Sounds like yours and mine are very close.  My sonogram is on the 28th of May. What about you?  Also my 1st beta was done on day 12 after the transfer.  Shannon

[rose73005]

That is so funny, we have almost identical numbers!  I go in for my 2nd beta tomorrow and am eager to see what it is.  That will have been 72 hours in between tests.  I'm not sure exactly when my ultrasound will be.  I think they want me to wait till the 30th or 31st  but I might beg them to let me have one sooner just to see how many little guys are in there.  I almost feel like this wait is harder than just finding out if I was pregnant.  I finally have had a day without cramping so far which makes me feel better.  Best of luck to you, please keep me updated so we can compare notes!  

[mysty2001]

rose - I caution about u/s before 6 weeks - it is not considered a "viability" u/s till 6 week when you see the heartbeats - before that you are setting yourself up for dissappointment (JMO)


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[Danielle501]

Hi ladies - I just wanted to share that I had a positive test yesterday - 254.    Needless to say, we are super excited.   Thanks so much for all of the encouragement this week!!

[SMA827]

Congratulations,  I am so happy for you.  What wonderful news for you and your hubby.  Shannon

[rose73005]

Congratulations!  That is great to hear.  Keep us updated on your progress!

[SMA827]

Did you get your second set of numbers back yet? I am just curious as to how close they are to mine.  Shannon

[rose73005]

Hi Shannon,
Yes, I got my test yesterday.  My 2nd beta was 2999!  This was 72 hours after the 1st.  How many hours between your 1st and 2nd?  Do you go back for another test soon or do you just go for an ultrasound next?  I have a week until my next blood test and then they said an ultrasound can be done on June 1st.  I am excited to hear about your progress too.  Have a great day:)

Mollie

[SMA827]

I went for my second set of numbers 48 hours later.  Wow, yours are really high.  No more blood test for me just the sonogram on Wednesday the 28th.  Can't get here fast enough.  I am so excited to see the heart beat.  The nauseau has hit though and it is rough. Shannon

[debsy566]

hi, i was looking for some information, i have just had embryo transfer on my second ivf cycle but am really worried been getting period cramp since! i had cramp on my first ivf cycle and wasnt pregnant however this time its not as strong can anyone help?? debbie

[rose73005]

Hi there, I have had cramping ever since my embryo transfer and even had some spotting from time to time.  I am pregnant and so far everything is looking okay.  My doctor told me that cramping is nothing to worry about as long as there is no heavy bleeding, fever etc to accompany it.  Try not to stress about it although I know it can be difficult.  When is your test?

[debsy566]

hi thanks for your reply.my test is on tuesday the 03/06 and am not looking forward to it at the minute. as i had the same cramp on my first ivf cycle and it didnt work. i have been trying for a baby for 9 years now so this is a very stressful time for me. do you know how long it takes for the embryos to implant as i wasnt given this information? congratulation on your pregnancy hope every thing goes well for you,how far are you ? debbie

[rose73005]

It depends on what day they did the transfer on.  If they did a 5 day transfer then they should implant within the next 24 hours.  If the transfer was day 3 then a few days later.  It's hard because cramping is scary but it definitely can be totally benign.  I'm sorry that you are feeling badly.  How many embryos did they implant?  I know this wait is torture, especially when you are feeling cramping.  I have cramping just about everyday and just have to try and ignore it.  You should take some tylenol so you don't feel it as much and it might give your worries a rest for awhile.  Good luck.  

[debsy566]

my eggs were fertilised last tuesday 17/05 and put bk on the 19/05 2 days later, i had 2 embryos put bk. does your cramping feel any different debbie

[debsy566]

when do you think would be a good time to do a pg test? i just feel like i need to know either way and cant wait till my blood test next week debbie

[SMA827]

Hello everyone hope you are doing well.  I had my 1st sonogram today and it is TWINS!  We saw the 2 little heartbeats. It was so awesome.  Everyone still waiting just hang in there because it does happen.  Take Care, Shannon

[rose73005]

SMA827- Hi!  Wow, I am so happy for you!  You must be thrilled!  Now I am really convinced that I must have 2 as well since our numbers were so similar!  My ultrasound is on Monday and the wait feels like forever!  I am so happy for you, congratulations!

Debsy566- As far as taking a pregnancy test it depends if you had a trigger shot or not.  If you did, you may get a false positive and that would be upsetting!  Since you had 3-day embryos put back you could probably start testing today or tomorrow, just don't get upset if you get a negative because it may be too early.  Also, don't test now if you did have the trigger shot.

[SMA827]

I bet you too are going to have twins.  Now I am excited to hear your news! All I can say is that is so wonderful to see the little heart beats.  Our doctor showed us the first one and then said here is his womb-mate, and showed us the second one. I thought that was so sweet and then to  think that they are in there together.  I think I am still just floating.  What time on Monday is your appointment? Hopefully it is early in the AM.  Shannon

[debsy566]

my cramps are getting worse am so worried as this is my last chance at ivf, dont know what to do if this dont work! debs

[Karine5]

From:  Karine5
Hi everyone, I like all the posts and all the support on this website.  Emily, I had exact same procedure and exact same symptoms.  I had my 1st IVF done on 5/13th.  Only 6 were collected and 2 transferred, none to freeze. Tuesday I found-out that I'm not pregnant :-(  uuuggh.  See I'm already diagnosed w/pre-menopausal ovarian failure; therefore, I have hot flashes.  My FSH level is 156 :-( Didn’t expect to happen so early in my 30s.  But I’m taking estrogen patches and it helps a lot.  3-4 days prior to blood test, I started having cramps, night sweats, and just 1 day had light spotting.  Tried not to panic; thought it was part of process.  Did home test anyways w/neg result.  See the night sweats have been under control during this time w/the patches, but I had sweats on those 2 night and I woke up worried.    Now I stopped everything, I’m pretty much crying every day and waiting for my period to start.  
To everyone out there, how soon will I get my pms after an unsuccessful IVF?  And how long after can I try for 2nd IVF?

[Dizzy22]

This is my first IVF I had my transfer on 5/18 and I go in tomorrow to find out.....I have had light cramping on and off and really nothing else. Anyone that has gone through this what helped you get through it? What where you feeling at this time?

[debsy566]

After my first ivf cycle i had my period the day b4 my pregnancy test. you can start your second cycle fairly close after your first one, i had my second cycle about 2 months apart. good luck with it xx

[rose73005]

My appointment on Monday is for 9:15.  I can't wait.  I have started to feel bad nausea and that isn't much fun.  All worth it in the end though..right!  I'll let you know Monday how things turn out.  How are you feeling?  I hope you are doing well:)

[debsy566]

I have been getting really bad cramping and am still getting it my test is on tuesday and not looking forward to it as i did a home preg test thurs and was negative!! dont know what i will do if this dont work!! good luck with your appointment hope all is well xxx

[rose73005]

You may have tested too early so don't put so much weight into the home test.  I know how hard the waiting game is but really try to relax a little more and just take it day by day.  Take care of yourself.

[SMA827]

Rose,  My doctor told me that nausea is good. It is the sign of a good pregnancy.  So hopefully that is the case with you.  I am still nauseated and I am on Zofran(prescription), an extra vitamin of B6 and now the wrist bands you can buy for motion sickness and I still get nausea. And then I started bleeding again yesterday, so now I am really going to take it easy today. All I did yesterday was go to target to get a few things and when I got home I was bleeding again. So now its back to rest for me. Take care  and let us know how you are doing!  Shannon

Deb,  I agree with Rose in that it may be to early for your HCG levels to register. I am praying that is the case. Tuesday is right around the corner now and will be here soon. I know it feels like the days are dragging but after they get here and then you look back and think wow that really did go by fast.  It is a crazy thing. Well I promise that I saying prayers for you and everyone that is going through all of this. It is a long road. For me it has been over 25 years of trying. 4 ectopic pregnancies and multiple additional surgeries just to get to this point and still just have to go on faith and prayers to get through. Best of luck, Stay in touch.  Shannon

[debsy566]

thanks all for ya kind words, i just hope they work as i been trying 10 years and had only 1 preg which was ectopic so it is very difficult, wish you all the luck and will let you know what happens on tuesday xx

[debsy566]

well i am not pregnant came on my period this morning! am gutted!! dont know what is going to happen now, i feel so lonely and unsure about the future, suppose i just have to wait and see xx

[rose73005]

I am so sorry and know you must feel so sad today.  I wish there was something to say to make it better.  You should schedule a consultation with your doctor and develop some sort of plan for the future.  That has always helped me to feel better and move on.  I hope you are doing okay and will be thinking about you.

[rose73005]

Hi there,
I had my ultrasound yesterday and we too are having twins!  Two little heartbeats! What Joy!  Good luck to you:)

[SMA827]

WOW!  I knew it had to be. Your numbers were so close to mine!  Isn't it awesome!!  How is the nausea?  Mine is still horrible.  I am on everything they recommended for me and I am still nausea.  I am so happy for ya'll.  That is such a wonderful blessing. Congrats, Prayers are with you. Tell Hubby congrats as well.  Shannon

[DEVISTATED]

I HAD A 3 DAY IVF TRANSFER, 3 GOOD CELL EMBRYOS 6CELL,7CELL, AND 8CELL. I STARTED FEELING CRAMPS ON DAY 8 AFTER TRANSFER. ON THE DAY B4 MY PREG. TEST I SAW BLOOD ON THE VAGINAL INSERT STICK, I AM REALLY SCARED RIGHT NOW, I HAVE HAD TWO EPTOPIC PREGS SINCE DEC 06. I FEEL LIKE I BREAK MY OWN HEART EVERY MONTH. I HAVE ALSO BEEN THROUGH 9 IUI'S.

[rose73005]

I see blood on the insert stick almost everytime I use it. The progesterone itself causes you to bleed some.  Try not to worry about it too much.  It also makes you cramp a lot too.  Did you have a blood test yet?

[DEVISTATED]

I GO FOR MY BLOOD TEST IN ABOUT 1/2 HR. THANK YOU FOR RESPONDING, I READ ALL OF THESE COMMENTS AND YOU ONLY SEE PEOPLE WHO HAD CRAMPS AND IT WAS NORMAL, NO ONE SAID ANYTHING ABOUT BLOOD. THANKS FOR SHARING, I'LL KEEP YOU POSTED.

[DEVISTATED]

I JUST RECIEVED MY TEST RESULTS, IT WAS NEGATIVE. I WANTED YOU TO KNOW THAT IT WAS NICE OF YOU TO COMMENT ON MY SITUATION. IT HELPS TO KNOW THAT SOMEONE GOES THRU WHAT YOU ARE GOING THRU. GOOD LUCK WITH YOUR TWINS. TAKE CARE.........

[debsy566]

congrats on your twins hope all is well!! thanks for your kind messages as i feel quite rubbish right now. I am stuck on what to do next as this was my last cycle on the nhs. thinking of saving up to go again but not sure whether it will work think i have a problem implanting anyone know why this could be ??? just dont know what to do about it ! x

[debsy566]

I am sorry you had a negative pregnancy test i also just had one on tuesday, i know it is a very difficult time cause i feel the same. good luck for the future !!

[mommywanabe]

Hi ladies just want to say sorry for the BFN.  I like both of you also had a NEG on monday.  I was so sure that this was going to work but I guess god has other plans for me.  Anyway I was wondering whether or not to try IUI?  Has anyone ever done IVF first had it failed then went on to IUI?  It's kind of wierd because it is usually the other way around.  Please help because I have an appointment with another DR that a good friend of mine recommended.

[debsy566]

Am not sure , i had a negative test on tuesday and was thinking about the same thing (iui) but me too am unsure what to do. hope someone can help us?

[pj11]

Why not try?! I say.  I've had 2 failed IVFs.  And, I'm going to do what I can that's less expensive to increase the odds before gathering the funds for our next big IVF. No reason not to try IUI, even after IVF.

Good luck; don't despair... You may want to look into acupuncture too --it helps with fertility in conjunction with all of this.  I did it, and it helped reactivate one ovary and to relax me through the process.    Anyway, just wanted to chime in.  I was on this thread a couple month's ago doing my 2 ww and know how hard it is.

Baby dust to all!

[DEVISTATED]

Hi, I think it's o.k. to go from IVF to IUI. My doctor told me that when my insurance runs out (4 IVF per lifetime) then I go back to IUI. I have had 9 IUI's and got pregnant once (eptopic) I also got pregnant on my own (eptopic also) so I FEEL YOUR PAIN. I just think that I would try anything at this point. I did my first IVF last month and WOW was that crazy. I convinced myself that it worked, I was so sure because I had such a good cycle, How THREE embryo's were placed inside perfectly and none stuck. I broke my heart all over again. I hope everything works out for you and for all who are going thru this. Keep me posted......Good Luck  

[Karine5]

To anyone who's using an egg donor and IVF.  On May 29 I posted comments a/b my situation.  Just quickly, I'm using an egg donor due to 156 FSH level, age 31, and my 1st IVF failed few weeks ago.
Today, my hubby & I went to see my IVF Dr to see what our options are.  Remind you that this Dr is tops in this field in San Fernando Valley/Los Angeles area.  He basically told us that the whole IVF is a gamble, there is no guarantee if you're doing it the 1st time, 2nd time or 4th time (especially when it comes to using an egg donor).  In my case we used an egg donor who was doing it for the 1st time (she also looked a lot like me and she was young, 23 yrs old).   So we took a chance...it didn't work, and now I lost $30K.
So my Dr recommended NOT to use the same donor, but rather find someone who has a track record of successful egg donation that resulted in pregnancy.   This is going to be super hard b/c we barely found someone who looked like me, and now we have to go through the whole procedure again spending another $30K.  We have no choice but to try and not give up, right?
Anywho, Dr told me to wait for 2-3 mo until all meds/hormones come out of my system and try it again.  He repeated again that there will be 50/50 chance b/c even if I find an egg donor w/track record and if she responded fantastic during 1st try, she may not respond the same the 2nd time.  You see......it's just a gamble.....uuugghh

[waitingforbaby]

I have been reading on this website for a few months, ever since my husband and i started getting serious about wanting another baby. I am a 36 year old female who has been longing for another baby for about 2-3 years, but finacially could not do it until about three months. I had my first IUI done on 4-09-08 they transferred three embryos and i waited the agoning 11 days till hcg test. It came back positive and a few weeks later told me I lost the babys.(as in two of them). That just crushed me and my husband but it was harder on me. I cried all that week. But I picked myself up and said that I was not going to quit just because of this tragedy. I just had my second IUI done and I went for my hcg blood test and my lewel was 45 but they want to see it tripple in 72 hrs. Well that day is tomorrow 6-13-08 and I am nervous because my hcg level was not as high as they would like she raised my progesterone to 1 1/2 cc instead of 1/2 cc. well i started having some menstrual like cramps earlier today and I am worried that something is wrong with me or the baby. Has anyone had anything similar happen?? (crossing fingers)!!!

[DEVISTATED]

I can't say that I"ve been through what you are going through right now, but I know what it's like to want a baby so bad, and what it's like to lose a baby. (twice) I hope that your numbers are where the doctor wants them. They say that cramping can be normal in the beginning of pregnancy, but you know your body and you probably know the answer. It is 13-June now I wonder what your test results are. I am also 36 and I feel that 36 is pushing it. Do you believe age has something to do with "unexplained" pregnancy? I was told by my doctor that the age jumped up to 38 (from 35) my insurance company gave my doctor a hard time for IVF treatment because I am only 36. I am getting ready to start my second IVF cycle in July. Very scary Somethimes I think if there is nothing wrong with me or my husband hence "unexplained" than why wouldn't the IVF transfer work. They plant a living embryo in you and all you have to do is make it stick. Easy, Right? I wish. I hope that you recieved good news today...Smile

[littlemonkey75]

This is my first time on this board, but I'm not new to infertility. My DH and I just completed our 5th cycle of IVF. I've gotten pg 3 times this way so there is hope in this process, but we've lost all 3 babies. The first two were lost very early on, but the last one we made the painful decision to end because an amnio and ultrasound revealed that our little boy had Down's Syndrome and related complications. We didn't want to see him suffer or die shortly after being born. Some of you reading this may not agree with our decision, but we thought it more selfish to have the baby just because we wanted one so badly than to prevent the suffering of an innocent baby. Anyway, TTC has been very difficult for me since then (Dec. 5, 2007). As I said, we just did our 1st IVF since losing him and I am in the 2ww. I have some cramping (on and off) and I've always felt this way whether I've been pregnant or not after IVF. Drinking lots of water seems to help, but I don't think I'm pg. I took a HPT this morning and it was negative. My beta is on Wednesday and I've really lost all hope for this cycle. Could really use some words of encouragement right now. Feeling pretty sad.

Lauren

[GracieMakana]

I'm a first time forum user and have come to you all for some support  :)
I am 36 years old I had first IVF in 2002 when found my hubby had a low sperm count.  That cycle failed and have not attempted IVF until just recently.  I had 11 eggs 10 fertilized 6 made it and 3 were 8cell on day 3 and that is when the 3 were transferred on June 4th.  My pregnancy test will be tomorrow 6/16 and I was not nervous about it until Thursday 6/12 when in the evening I got a faded pinkish spotting on my underwear I freaked out, but yet have been looking for bleeding everytime I go to the restroom hoping it is implantation bleeding.  Now that I have it I am worried.  So, Friday 6/13 I had faded brown blood very mild and all day yesterday same thing.  This morning I barely have any bleeding.  However, I had sharp cramping this mornig.  I am not sure what is going on.  I did have some mild cramping after my transfer too.  Before the bleeding started I had AF symptoms and thought for sure that I was going to get AF.  However, I am taking progesterone intramuscular injections and thought that you could not get AF until you stop the progesterone.  Well, please say a prayer for me since my preg test is tomorrow.  I'm nervous as heck and cannot get enough nerve to do a pregnancy test.  I also have noticed that my breasts are not as tender as a couple of days ago, not sure what that means either.  Any advice would be appreciated!  :)  Thanks for listening ladies

[GracieMakana]

I forgot to mention and sorry for TMI, but I have recently noticed that I have to go to the bathroom a lot #2, not #1 is this a symptom anyone has experienced Good or Bad?

[morgan970]

We had our transfer on 06/17/08.  They retrieved 29 eggs fertilized 15.  On day 3 the dr said the numbers were good but wanted to wait until day 5 and transfer 2.  Well on the day of the transfer we went to the office and got called to his office very unexpectedly.  He told us that all the embryos had cleaved.  There was one that past all the tests but wasn't growing like he would like to see.  Told  us that it was because I responded to well to the meds.  Has anyone else heard of  this?   They did say we may have a chance with the little embryo that could but I don't know I am really worried.  

[Kristen1717]

I have spent so much time reading all of your stories from way back.  I originally Googled "cramps afetr IVF" and it brught me to this site-what a godsend.  When you are going through IVF you can feel very alone and scared (all fertility can be scary really) especially for me since I am 41 (soon to be 42 in August) and this is probably my last chance.  I have done it all starting with Clomid all the way through to now, my first IVF.  I seemed to be pretty lucky so far but all of you mught know better-11 folicles retrieved, 9 fertilized, five embyos put in on day three, three A's two B's (the remaning 4 did not make it).  My Doc chose five b/c of my age and I was glad he was aggressive.  I already took one pregnancy test yesterday, day sven after transfer, negative:(  I feel like my period is coming I have lower belly cramping on and off all day, different then I have ever had, slightly more intense at times.  This is freaking me out.  My blood test is Monday and I don't know if I can wait.  I know many of you have experenced cramping but was it intense??  Thanks so much, you are all amazing:)
  

[Kristen1717]

I have the exact symptoms, #2 four times today.  Are you feeling better.  How was your Doc appt? Hoping all was positive.

[morgan970]

Yes waiting for my beta test tomorrow.  But yes I have terrible cramping like I am so ready to start.  I even asked Dr. if I can't' start while on progesterone, he said you can't so now I just wait.  It is so hard to wait.

[bestofwishs2all]

iam new to this i had my transfer on the 22 of this month .how ever i only have very little cramps the come and and go is this normal? iam also on progesterone (olive oil) and last night the shot sting (never stings) then this morning i have a red bump . has this happen to anyone?

[bestofwishs2all]

what is beta?

[bestofwishs2all]

when is every ones pt ?

[juliejuly]

Hello all...
I had a transfer on June 22, 08.  I have slight rectal pressure and definite bloating.  Unfortunately I think this is how I feel during every cycle without IVF.  Has anyone had anything similar with success???  Help!

[bestofwishs2all]

i also had my transfer on the june 22 .but me on the other hand only get little cramps that come and go . but i too have bloating but very little.

[marieten]

Hi.  I am new to this.  I am 13 days post transfer of two 5 day blastocyts.  I had my first beta test 2 days ago (11 days post) and it was 421.  I had another beta done this morning and it was 887.  Could it be twins??? I've had a general crampy feeling, almost constantly since a couple of days after the transfer, but mild.  My doctor isn't really worried about it but just told me to continue to take it easy.

[juliejuly]

Well I am on 6 days past ET and I am pretty confident my wicked AF is going to be arriving.  I have a metallic feeling in my lower abdomen and pretty intense back discomfort.  I am so discouraged.  This is our third attempt at IVF and I don't know why our embryos won't stick??  I have to wait for another week before I go in to get the beta.  The progesterone is making my boobs very hard, so sore, and my nipples are the size of small hamburgers.  This would be all worth it if this IVF was actually successful.  Sorry for going on, but I am pretty frustrated!!

[bestofwishs2all]

on your failed cycles did you have alot of cramping or no cramping what so ever ?

[juliejuly]

On all my cycles, with IVF or not, I get some pelvic pressure and almost like rectal pressure right after ovulation until I get my period.  This is how I am feeling now, which leads me to suspect it is just another cycle that did not work.  I know the 2ww is the worst, but this feels the same as all others.  I hope more than anything, I could write on here....that I felt like my period was coming and got that positive pregnancy test, but....

[bestofwishs2all]

go to cafemoms and look up ivf theres alot of women on there can can give you some advice and suggetions

[RBP_2008]

Hi

I am new entant to this blog
Thanks a lot for posting all your experiences. Womderful

I and my wife had IVF transfer on 1st July 2008
First blood test was +ve 114
Second blood test remanined normal
Third blood test said 700
Our nex blood test is 23 July 2008.

She has light cramps, vomit and nausea

Hoep these are all good symptoms.

Anyone  , any advice

Thanks

RBP

[SMA827]

That sounds great. The numbers are increasing and that is what you want to have happen. I had cramping almost period like for the first month or two and nausea till the end of the first trimester. I am now happily 14 weeks pregnant with twins. 1st Ivf attempt. Best of luck and just be there as much as you can for your wife as it is alot of hormonal changes taking place. Keep us informed as to how she and yourself are doing.  Shannon

[mom2jon]

I've been reading just about everyones notes and encouraged to hear so many successes.  I'm new and have been reading posts for days on cramping after IVF.  I'm hoping there are still some out there that can join in and help during this 2ww I'm going thru.  I had egg retrieval on July 10, and transfer on the 15th with 2 good embryos and one that was ok.  This is my 3rd attempt - first IVF attempt in 2002 worked and I have a beautiful boy.  Second was a frozen and I had a chemical pregnancy.  The first pregnancy I felt nothing - infact I felt great.  But now it's 6 years later and I'm 6 years older and I"ve been cramping since transfer (not to mention that retrieval was more painful than I remembered).  Anyway, cramping has been on and off, and not too bad.  Today it's worse and I am even feeling slight lower back pain.  my boobs are heavy and full, but not really painful.  The craps are starting to freak me out, as it looks like they have for all of you.  I'm just looking for some support because I can't get my mind off it and need to get thru the next few days - test is scheduled for Monday the 28th.  Has anyone gone thru this several times and experienced different symptoms which resulted in pregnancy each time?  Thanks!

[Keys123]

Wow! I'm not the only one going through this.  We're waiting for Aug. 5.  Transfer was last tuesday.  I wish I had the valium now!  This was attempt #4.  1st-lost, 2nd-reduced to IUI, 3rd-1 transfered no pregnancy, 4th-2 day 5 blastocysts transfered.  I've got a little bit of cramping and it's worrying me a bit, but I had it with my 8-yr old son too.  I also have a twinge in my lower ab occasionally.  Anybody else have this?

[praying4baby1969]

I am new to this forum, I had a 5 day transfer on Thursday. They transferred 2, 1 was a blastocycst and 1 was  early blast. This is my 3 rd IVF attempt. First one was  Aug. 2005 in Mobile Alabama the day before Hurricane Katrina hit and had to fly 5 days after transfer because  father in law was dying. Failed. 2nd attempt March 2008 transferred 3 on day 5 early blastocyst but none made to blast. Again failed. I am 39 and don't know if I'll be able to do again. I have cramping and wonder if it's from the retrieval. Need to hear some success stories please I have been trying for 10 years. I am blessed because I have children from 1st marriage but my husband doesn't have any and I would love to share this with him. All of your stories are comforting and it's so nice to hear that there are others that are feeling what I feel. Praying 3rd times a charm.

[DEVISTATED]

Hi, This is my second IVF cycle, my retrieval was this morning and we have 12 eggs. My first IVF cycle we only had 6 eggs and by the time day 3 transfer came, we only had three good quality embryo's to transfer. This was in May.  No luck. I was wondering if there is anyone out there who is in this stage of their IVF treatment and if so do you want to do this together. I find it easier when there is somenone to talk with about what you are feeling.

Good luck to all who are going through this.

[willcometrue]

I've enjoyed reading all of the stories. There have been some happy endings and some post-poned happy endings. I am currently still waiting for my happy ending in my 2nd attempt with IVF. I am 25 years old and have been actively trying to conceive with DH for over a year. DH has great sperm count, I have a flawless uterus (so my DR tells me), but I have scarring of my fallopian tubes due to past surgeries from chronic ovarian cysts. I also have had a total colectomy. SO, I do not know why the 1st IVF cycle did not work ( wasn't meant to be?) and praying for the 2nd to work.

I changed my plan of action the 2nd ccle of IVF ( more follistim, added Menopur, and now taking estrace and vaginal progesterone) so I am hoping for a happy outcome. My transfer of two blastocyts on day 3 happened on the 2nd of Aug. My pregnancy test is on the 18th. (They are making me wait 16 days, don't know why) Today is day 8 from transfer. I am feeling pressure in my bottom ( which I never have due to a lack of colon and rectum) tight cramping in my pelvis and legs.

Any personal thoughts on whether this is a positive sign of pregnancy or not? I promised my husband I would not take a preg test but instead wait for the BETA test.

Thanks for listening...

[DEVISTATED]

This is also my second ivf treatment, we did a 3 day transfer yesterday with three 8 cell embryo's and this time they did assisted hatching. My preg. test is also sceduled for the 18th. With this ivf my bladder was not full and the dr. had difficulty guiding. He claims the embryo's went where they needed to be, but I thought that if the dr. can't get  it right the first try your chances are not so good. Kind of felling bad for myself right now, I think it's all my fault because I didn't drink enough water. We took the same medication except estrace. What is estrace? Are you feeling any menstral like cramps? you should google what your symptoms should feel like after ivf treatment or google implantation symptoms. Maybe that will help with what your feeling.

[willcometrue]

Took a pregnancy test...husband went with me to the store because it turns out he was interested to know as well...AND we got a positive pregnancy test! We are jumping around the house but we are trying to not put our eggs all in one basket (it is only day 9!) However, I am taking estrace (additional estrogen) which specifically says on the bottle not to take if you are pregnant. DEVISTATED you just had you transfer and you are getting your BETA test the same day as me? That means my DR is doing is way later than normal. I think I am going to call them tomorrow to tell them my concerns with the medication and the timing of the BETA test. I hope and pray this is for real and for the long run. This will be the time for the both of us Devistated then you will have to change your username...I did assisted hatching as well this time.  Look out for those back cramps! They are a good sign...

[DEVISTATED]

I am excited about your positive. I couldn't imagine why you are taking your beta 16 days past transfer. WOW, maybe all doctors are different. I do alot of reading and everything says 10-12 days is ok to test.?????  I'm glad we have each other to talk. I'll check in tommorow. Enjoy your night. oh yea what state are you in. I am in NJ.

[willcometrue]

We are in NH. I called my fetility clinic today. My nurse needed to rain on my parade and told me it could be a false positive since I had a trigger shot. She says to trust a preg test Fri/Sat since it would be two weeks since my transfer. However, I had the trigger shot about 13 days ago so I think it should be out of my system. However, I don't want to party around the house anymore until I am sure so we will have to wait some more until the end of the week to take another test and wait for the BETA test next Monday. Oh, well... My Docs are making me wait longer since my two week mark is on during the weekend so they are testing me later than sooner. I am so anxious! Waiting is the hardest part.. At least we will both have something to share on the 18th!

[DEVISTATED]

STAY POSITIVE....THAT IS THE BEST THING YOU CAN DO NOW. Sorry about the rain on your parade...I knew that the trigger shot had something to do with a positive hpt, but that is not always the case.......everyone is different, it also depends on the amount of your trigger shot. for example mine was 10,000 units and I believe they range lower than that and the lower the units the less days it is in your system. I read that today. Sorry if I didn't explain it right, that's what I got out of what I read. I've been on the couch since Friday and I'm starting to go crazy.....I feel sick to my stomach and I also feel a lot, I mean a lot of pressure when I go to the bathroom. I also cant' lay on either side, I have to remain on my back or I have major discomfort. I didn't feel this last time. I also get dizzy and nauseous when I stand up. Have a good week write if you need to talk I will be checking this site everyday. It keeps me sane.

[willcometrue]

Feeling horrible can be a good sign. My back pain has stopped so I am hoping that was implantation? Nothing is what is seems. It is such a mind game. But, you are right..staying postive is the key. I took another Preg test today and it was positive. I don't care anymore..I am going to keep taking them to feel good. Who knows, I may not see one later on so I will live in bliss for now. I did have 10,000 units of Hcg nad I read that an average of 1,0000 units leave your body per day. But again everyone is different. Did your DR tell you to sit for so long? I sat for one day after transfer. You can also have discomfort from the transfer and/or medications. Hopefully it is implantation... I don't feel bad at all anymore. I actually feel great. So good that I haven't even taken any of my Humira (for my Crohns) for a week or two and still feel good! Usually I have a swollen stomache, acid reflux, and sharp pains in my stomache if I go a week without the medication. I hope this is a good sign. I can't wait until the 18th. I bought more preg test for the latter of the week. I am going to take another on WED and then another on FRI. I am buying my sanity as far as I am concern! Keep thinking good thoughts and keep busy because Monday the 18th is close but yet sooooo far!

[DEVISTATED]

You have the right idea. I'm gonna go buy hpt myself, but I'm not gonna take one until Fri or Sat. It is too soon for me to do it today. Ya know I never bought hpt before I just always waited. My Dr. did not tell me to rest that long, I just did cause I read two days. (two days is the most popular answer) The best part about it is my husband believes two days and he also believes I shouldn't do anything until the test day. If you think about it thats kind of cool. He has been doing everything. Cooking, cleaning, washing ect. I guess he figures we go through enough so why not. Today I feel fine all of my discomfort is gone. I believe all my discomfort was due to the doctor having trouble this time, cause my bladder was not full enough. We took a vacation this week and we go back to work on the 18th. Just in time to keep my mind busy.   Talk to you soon. Oh yea one more question, how many days past transfer did your lower back hurt.

[willcometrue]

That is really nice of your husband. My husband likes to tease me about how much
I've accomplished in the day. I cut down some shrubs yesterday and he was not happy..he said I should be taking it easy. What I really did is butcher the bushes so bad that he would have no other choice but to complete the job ;-) I had backaches for about 2 days on my 6th and 7th day. It was really bad one night to the point when sleep was not an option.

Do not worry about your Dr. They do the procedures day in and day out. My uterus is all funny (it's tilted down) and they seemed to have more difficult time the 2nd time around then the 1st. The first time was a man the second time a women. I learned later that the woman was a Head in the Fertility Dept so she MUST know what she was doing. And even though they took longer on you and me this second trip around, it means that are being extra precautious. I think they truely take it into account that this was not our first time and some extra sensitivity needed to be brought to the table.
I think the whole bladder thing is taken way too seriously. I have ALOT of scans where they need me to have a full bladder and I would honestly say that i have 10% of the time and everything comes out fine in pictures and procedures. Plus, you don't want your bladder too full - it really hurts when they push down on your pelvis then you have to sit and wait another 15 minutes. There is truely, no happy median. It is what it is. Good thoughts, Hcg tests, and relaxation...that is all that needs to be thought about until this weekend for you ;-)

[DEVISTATED]

Hi, Good job with the bushes, for some reason when yard work is done by someone else it always looks better....I went shopping today. I bought useless stuff just to keep my mind busy. I brought my niece with me and we did a little school shopping. She is 12. It was OK.  I saw a pinkish discharge today, not a lot, but definately pinkish. (gross I know, but we can only say these things to each other.) Kind of excited about it. I go in the morning for a blood test. (the 5 day test) not really sure what it's for. As for you, you are gonna take another hpt aren't you? What kind do you buy? They should come free when you do ivf...ha ha. Ok I'll talk to you later......by the way my real name is Linda and I'm 36 years old and my husband and I are both in Law Enforcement.   See ya:)

[willcometrue]

I wish I could go shopping but I chose to be a teacher which is not a fruitful job in the least when in comes to $$$$ (but everything else about the job is wonderful). My name is Alex and I am a Sped teacher for K/1 grade. I am 25 and my husband is a 30 year old electrician. I actually went to work today. I teach summer school for a group of students with Autism. A couple of the kids are twins  (from IVF) and their twin siblings do not have any disorders or disabilities at all...So this is my last week of that and next week I will have off THEN back to school! I will also start night school for my Master's in Early Childhood/SpEd in two weeks. So if everything goes right, I will have a busy 9 months (I hope)!

I have never heard about a 5 day test. Wow! Your care plan is way different from mine...please inform me after your appt what they are looking for...I am curious. I buy EPT and first response tests, however, I have been so leery of the positive outcomes I have actually invested into some cheap tests (since they are less sensitive) to see if I could get a postive out of one of those...and I did! I really like EPT though with the digital window which say "Pregnant" or "Not Pregnant". It is way more dramatic than the + or - sign you get. I am looking at the calendar and it does seem early to get such a desired result, however, last time I received negatives every time. Again, I'll have to look forward to the 18th...

I think the discharge it a good sign...it being pink could be blood residue  which means a successful implantation?! Discharge itself (pink or not) is also suppose to be a good sign...I read way too many articles on the internet. Take it easy...

A

[DEVISTATED]

Hi, I took a blood test today at the doctors office for my progesterone and estrogen levels. The doctor monitors them in case he needs to adjust my meds. Anyway all is good with that. Did you ever do IUI's before the IVF's? I did nine of them before I started the IVF treatment. I did get pregnant once from the IUI last September and I had an early m/c (tubal) I also was pregnant in Dec 06 on my own, in fact we made an appointment and started the testing with the specialist and I was already pregnant. Also ended in an early m/c (tubal also) All this can be scary especially when you are "unexplained" Very frustrating. On a happy note we just have 5 days to go until we find out the news. Do you believe that deep down inside you know already? I kind of do, but sometimes I think you want it so bad, you syke yourself out. I'll tell ya, having a buddy to talk to about this makes it go faster. Thank god for this website. I did it last time I had the dreaded two week wait and it helped. Well I'll talk to you later, We are gonna go out and eat. Oh yea I feel like I gained 900 lbs, so bloated.

[willcometrue]

Sounds like your fertility clinic takes good care of you. Mine does as well but in a different fashion. Yeah, the week is sort of going by fast. I'm glad to hear that your blood levels are fine...I never did IUI's. We went straight to IVF. Here in NH, insurance does not assist with payment so we are doing our 2nd and last round of IVF for a very long time. We did not want to beat around the bush with IUI since my fallopian tubes are the problem. I have a lot of scare tissue from previous surgeries and my Dr and I discussed that the egg could be damaged during the trip down the canal...We have been pregnant, naturally, once before 4 years ago (it was a surprise on Valentines day!) but I lost it 6 weeks in (painful). I have had many surgeries since then so it has become harder. I do feel bloated as well, no pain, and hungry...I hope it is not all in my head. I don't want not to be pregnant and gain 10 lbs in the meanwhile! I wonder why all of your pregnancies are tubal...you think someone would have a reason for you. I  feel good about it this time around but then I start to get anxious about what if I am then worry about the 8 weeks to come. I'd hate to be disappointed this far in...We'll see...Bed time.

[DEVISTATED]

Hi, I feel really anxious today and I cried twice for no reason at all. I also had pink discharge again (more pink today) and I feel slightly crampy. (in a good way I think) I am going to Shop Rite to buy a double pack test. I'll take one in the morning.  I didn't realize insurance didn't cover fertility in your state. I just realized that NJ is fairly new at it. My husband told me that We are covered by a law (act) called "family builders" I believe insurance has to cover you if you are employed by a department with 50 or more employees. Wow I don't know what I would do if we didn't have coverage. (so sad)
How was your day, How do you feel. Ya know you have me beat by 6 days. You were Aug 2? I was Aug 8. Your hpt should be way accurate. You must be so excited. 4 more days until its confirmed. Yea!!!!!  I'll talk to you later, the husband is giving me the eye, he wants to go food shopping.  P.S. I woke up last night with some major lower back pain...ouch, but it went away.

[willcometrue]

NH insurance is good in so many ways and I have one of the best plans since I work for the Government like you do. But, IVF is not covered. I have heard of some teachers tkaing jobs in MA schools just to have coverage for IVF. I hope NH gets on the bandwagon some day. If I were to have conceived naturally, today would be the day where I should receive an accurate result. I took another one today since I skipped yesterday and it said "pregnant". It is exciting and comforting but I will wait until I receive an ultrasound and BETA test to make sure everything is what is seems. Back pain is exactly what I had. It has gone away but it takes me a long time to get to sleep and my body is SO tired during the day. I came home from work and took a 2-hr nap just becuase I could feel my fingers tingleing from how tired I was!

I was Aug 2...you are tight behind me...could you imagine if we both had successful transfers...that would be great! I think you are having a lot of positive signs. If you don't mind, let me know how your test comes out tomorrow in the AM. What test did you buy? I have never heard of a Shop Rite Store. We have Stop and Shop  or Rite Aid...your store sounds like they smushed the two together.

The most amazing this in your post was that your husband was pushing YOU out the door to go to the grocery store!

Have a good night...

[DEVISTATED]

You are probably done with this site for the night, but I just took a test, I bought a cheapy test, cause they did not have a good brand name that was digital and it was not pregnant, negative. I am feeling discouraged right about now, I just keep telling myself that I am just 6 days past transfer, but don't you think it would have said positive cause of the trigger shot? Do you think this is a bad sign, OH I WISH they never invented hpt, or I wish they were like thousands of dollars (so I wouldn't be tempted) I will test again over the weekend, probably Sunday morning. I will buy a name brand test. I really, really shouldn't have tested yet........WHY would I do something so stupid.

I'm glad your test came out positive again, I know it must be comforting for you. We have a Rite Aid drug store here to. I think I'll buy my new test there. (maybe it will be good luck) I'll talk to you later,,,,,Linda

[willcometrue]

Having a negative test is not a bad thing. There are lots of other postings where people test alomost every day after a transfer (Expensive) to see when the trigger shot if fully out of their system so that when they do test on day 10, 11, or 12, and receive their answer (pregnant or not) they know it is true and the trigger shot did not change the result. Six days is early. I think I did my first on day 8...and I am still wondering if it is the trigger shot or a chemical pregnancy is something else I have been thinking of...Yeah, buy a nice HCG test since they are more sensitive. If you read the articles online, they say it take 6-10 days for an embryo to implant and at least a few more for enough HCG to be produced to be picked up on a test. SO, you still have a lot of time to make a postive result. I am testing tomorrow morning since my Nurse (who is prude) told me to not trust a test until then. But the 18th is 3 DAYS away...Can you believe it? What day will that be for you? Day 9 or 10? Isn't that even early. I thought HCG tests were not until at least Day 12.

But, no, I am not comforted by the test, yet. I actually feel like I am being set-up for failure right now...  I am waiting for the 18th. I want a BETA test and an ultrasound then I will dance;-)

Alex

[DEVISTATED]

Hi, thanks for the reality check. I agree, it was too early. It will be day 10 for me on the 18th. I guess it is a little early, but that's what they said to do. I just checked and last time I tested on day 12, but I got my period B-4 I tested.   Do you have any friends or family that has been through this. I lied to my sister yesterday, she asked me if we did this again and I told her no, and she said when are we gonna try again, I told her I didn't know. I just don't feel like explaining it to her when it doesn't work. She wouldn't leave me alone if she knew. Oh yea I think I am getting a yeast infection (ouch) just what I want right now. I called the Dr. and he said I could only use external cream several hours after my insert. I didn't use it yet, I trying to wait. It's not that bad right now, but it feels like the start of one. What are you doing this weekend? I told the husband I need to get out of the house for the day so I stop obsessing on this damn computer. I have to stop thinking about it and he agreed. We go back to work on Monday (BOOOOO) so we only have two days left. Well you have a good weekend and I'll talk to you later.
P.S. the prude nurse is a prude or is she rude? either way screw her, feel what you want to. Don't set yourself up for failure right now, you have just 3 days left and personally I believe your hpt should be way accurate by now........Think about it.        Linda

[KellyJ22]

Hello - I am new and need some support!

I am on day 7 after implant and am experiencing PMS cramps and back pain.  I am totally devastated because I feel like I am going to start my period!  Aug 22 is my HCG test which seems so far away. I took a home pregnancy test and it came up negative.  This is my first attempt.  I am just having a hard time staying positive!  Any advice????  

[sista486]

Hi, this is also my first post.  I just went thru IVF and I am now 4 weeks, six days.  During my 2ww I also experienced alot of cramping and lower back pain.  Just like AF was coming to visit.  I starting taking hpt's day 6 got 2 negative and from there on out I was getting light posivitives.  I know how stressful this is, believe me.  I read a zillion postings and it seems like cramps are a good thing (implantation)

[KellyJ22]

Thank you so much for replying!!  I have no friends or family that I can talk to who know what I am going through.  I must admit that I cried yesterday because of the cramps.  I just keep expecting to start my period anytime now. Your post has brighten my spirits, but I am afraid the next week is going to be pure evil!!  I think I am going to stay away from the hpt.....if I am strong enough.  Another negative would just bring me down further. Let's just pray the cramps and back pain are a good thing!  Again, thank you for taking the time to reply.  I somehow need to start thinking positive!!  

[sista486]

I'm glad to reply, you sound very sweet.  I honestly went thru the same exact emotions you are going thru.  I've had two ectopic pregnancies and have been trying to conceive for 6 years.  I was SURE it wouldn't work!!  I'm thankful to God that it has and we still have a long road ahead of us.  I think the best way I cope with my emotions is to know it is completely out of my hands at this point, you do all you know to do and the rest is up to God.   Try to stay positive and when you think bad thoughts, make yourself stop and think of something good if you can.  I didn't think  I would HPT either but I couldn't resist, I figured I would brace myself for what the answer would be.  Everything you're feeling is very normal and this whole journey we go through is really tough!!! Hang in there and keep the faith!!  

[DEVISTATED]

Hi, I am not new to this site, It is wonderful for you if you are going through this 2 ww. I am 8 days past my 3 day transfer, I felt cramps around day 4-8. Today I feel nothing. I took a hpt on day 6 and it was negative. I think day 6 was too early. Did you have a trigger shot? Did you have 3 or 5 day transfer and how many? Do you have any spotting, or pinkish color discharge along with the cramps? Besides staying positive, cause everyone is different, I google all of my questions. It helps. This is my second attempt and the whole experience was different, this time last time (day8) I started to feel period like cramps and I just knew I wasn't pregnant. I also saw blood (bright red) on the insert stick on day 11. Sure enough on day 12 a negative result. This time is way different, so don't get discouraged and hang in there, I also am not gonna tell you not to hpt, it's to hard not to, if you want to, do it. Just remember if there was trigger shot, you could get a false positive and if negative it could be too early. Confusion ***** Don't it. Good Luck and post all the questions you need to, We will be here to try and answer.

[sista486]

Hi, I just thought I would mention too, I have become the queen of google.  I google everything and read on and on.   I agree with Devistated that everyone is different and everytime is different it seems.  I have been reading your postings here for the last few days Devistated and without even knowing you, just hoping for you for a fantastic outcome and believe me I can say I know how everyone feels, it is really nervewracking at times!!!  I have been really up and really down sometimes.  Hope you all have a good weekend.

[willcometrue]

You and I are the same when it comes to sharing this experience with family. I have not said anything to my siblings/friends as well. I have told my parents becuase they helped fund the project;-) My husband and I told everyone in my immediate family over dinner one evening during our first IVF attempt. (We even showed them the picture of the embryo). Well, we all know how that turned out (negative). I just rather wait until my 3   month marker before starting to tell my sister. I may tell my brother becuase we get along better. My sister is too nosey and competitive.

I am REALLY tired lately. When 1:00 comes around I am tired. I have had a hard time falling alseep too. I took another test this morning and it said POSITIVE. However, my prude nurse built my husband and I the first attempt saying we would definately get pregnant since I was so young and that they would probably onl transfer one egg. She was wrong on both cases. So, I don't even want to fully trust her prediction this time that the positive result means a baby on the way.

Anyway, are you done taking HPTs? Are you just going to wait for the BETA test? Let me know if you take another one...I read your last posting and you said you felt different this time from last...I agree. This is a totally different experience from the first round of IVF. Tiredness, swollen, sensitive breasts, hunger, back aches...none of this happened the first time. I think this is it for the both of us since we have been having the same symptons. Although, I did not have pink discharge which I do read is common but I also use progesterone suppositories ( I did the needles in the back last time OUCH!).

Can't your doctor give you a pill rather than a suppository for your infection? Does it matter? I think the pill is a little cleaner (personal choice). An yeast infection is  the last thing you want when you are trying to look forward to a pregnancy.

TWO MORE DAYS UNTIL BETA TEST! Do you know what time you will get your results. They call between 1:00 and 2:00 PM for me... I'll check the site later tonight to see if you had responded...or anyone who wants to chat.

[DEVISTATED]

I am not going to take another hpt. I'm feeling lazy enough NOT to go out and get one. We did nothing today but watch Lifetime and take naps on the couch. Today I feel O.K., I'm not sure about the yeast infection, it's not that bad. I think maybe it's from the suppositories. I'll talk to the doctor on Monday about the pill. I did the shots in the back last time to. OH MY GOD was that something else. I think the inserts are more affective, cause maybe that's why I feel like **** and last time I didn't. I told my family last time like you guys did, we had a BBQ and when it didn't happen I felt funny telling them. Me and my sister are really close there are 5 of us and we are all close except my little sis, she stays away. My mother died in 1999 and she would be the only one I would tell, in fact I do talk to her. (that's another website blog.....Ha Ha) No really it helps to talk on this site could you imagine not being able to do this. Imagine just being able to talk to your husband. Ha Ha. I swear sometimes he wishes he could just run away and change his identity. Na he's been great, We've been ttc every month since Jan 06. He's not going anywhere or he would have bolted by now. Ha Ha.
We are gonna feel so anxious tomorrow night. You think you can't sleep now. My appointment is at  7:30 am. and I should know around 1-2 just like you. I can't wait I'm so excited and scared at the same time. I'll talk to you later. Have a good night, I'll check back later also, I probably will be up late tonight anyway.....

[Nurseypie]

Hi Ladies! It has been so exciting reading along as you go through your journey toward motherhood. DEVISTATED, I am really hoping for great news with your 2nd try. I went through IVF 2 years ago when my 1st attempt failed and my 2nd attempt was successful (I now have a 2 year old son). I hope the same for you.

This year I am trying for my 2nd child. The first attempt (July) led to a biochemical pregnancy and I am scheduled for my 2nd transfer on Sept 12.

My IVF journey began when my sister harvested 35 eggs, 21 of which properly fertilized in 2005. My son took 2 IVF tries before he was born in October 2006.  

I will soon begin my 4th and final IVF cycle with the 4 remaining frozen embryos in an attempt to have my 2nd child (My 3rd attempt ended as a biochemical pregnancy 2 weeks ago).

I have experienced everything imaginable from IVF(1 failure, 1 miscarriage/biochemical pregnancy and also a successful pregnancy. Heck, I even went to the Dollar store and purchased lots of HPT kits in bulk just so I could test myself everyday until my blood tests). I have learned there is no exact science. As I will continue to do, please keep busy, pray to your Higher power and look for the silver lining in every cloud. It is the only way to survive such a complex disease of infertility. Good luck to you all and I will be reading anxiously awaiting good news for all of us.

[KellyJ22]

Thanks again for responding and making me feel more at ease.  My husband and I have been TTC for over 4 years.  (6 months of clomid, 4 months of drug simulation with sexual relations, 3 months of drug simulation with IUI and now 1st attempt IVF)

I did have the trigger shot which is why I was expecting a false positive, but when I didn't even get that I was upset to say the least.  I don't know why I thought the false positive would have been more reassuring than a negative......  My transfer was on day 3, so I thought testing on day 7 would be a good idea! I have decided to stay away from the HPT!  

I am using the progesterone suppositories because I am on Lovenox (blood thinner) for a clotting issue I have. I have not noticed any pink discharge....believe me I am looking for every sign my body might give me.  Plus with my cramps and back pain, everytime I go to the bathroom I expect to have started my period.

My blood test isn't till Friday.  I am a school teacher and we start back tomorrow.  Hopefully that will keep me busy and since I teach high school I pray for no pg students in my classes.  That is always hard for me!

Thanks again, girls!

[willcometrue]

I am in the same boat as you...I am a teacher as well but I work with the other end of the spectrum. I work with Kindergarteners so all I see are 5 year old all day and pg mothers and fellow teachers. It is hard when some people make it look so easy to conceive. Your blood test is not far away at all. My Drs made me wait 16 days until I could get my Beta test. I should have an answer already. Remember: some people don't get any signs when they are pregnant...I didn't have any signs when I ended up not being pg the firstround of IVF but the second time I had backaches and cramps like you.

Devistated! 1 MORE DAY. Thank the lord for small favors! Share all, tell all!

Alex

[DEVISTATED]

I am beside myself I can't sleep and when I do I dream about not being pregnant. I also started to feel period like cramps last night. And still have them today. This is the same thing I felt last time, cramps on day 8 after transfer. I will confess that the beginning was way different than the last time.
My pink discharge has turned brown now and I think it is definitely from the suppositories.

1 more day (seems so far away) I need to keep busy cause if I don't I'll freak out. Kind of just hanging by a thread right now.  talk to you later.


KellyJ22, I know what you mean about rather having a false positive rather than a negative. Hang in there.

[willcometrue]

I honestly don't know what to say with the brown discharge but it is a good thing you have your test tomorrow which then you'll finally receive some definate answers.

In case I do not havea valid pregnancy (and have no more $$ for IVF) I bought the clearblue easy monitor so we can try that afterwards. It makes me feel better that I have a backup (just a little).

I have been having some light cramps myself. They are not consistent. They are on and off. Don't worry...its not good for you! So, relax, enjoy the day and we'll see what tomorrow brings.

Alex

[DEVISTATED]

I'm out, I got my period. Not feeling good right now. I just wanted to say good luck tomorrow and I'll be thinking about you. Make sure you post your results.   Linda

[willcometrue]

I'm sorry. You are still going to have your test tomorrow, right? There is still a small chance...? Do what you need to do to feel better. If you need to discuss it I am still here. I will tell you my results tomorrow...Again, I feel your pain.

alex

[godbewithme]

hi all
hope u r doing great.I had my 5 day transfer of two grade AA blasts on 8 aug. today i went for the beta and guess what guys......I m pregnant. I still cant believe it. My beta was 121. Dont know weather this beta means 1 or 2 implanted....my doc wants me to repeat the blood work after a week.,.,and than ultrasound after 2 weeks..i m crossing my fingers and pray to God that all goes well...my 2nd beta is on 25 aug and ultrasound on 5 sep...keep in touch all of u and keep posting ur results...

[willcometrue]

I went for my blood test this morning (they said they wanted by beta to be around 170) and did I have a surprising phone call in the late morning. They said I was "definately" pregnant but failed to leave my Beta # which I requested when I was in the office earlier that AM. So, I called them back and my nurse asked if I was sure I wanted the number which I say "yes", of course! I am 16 days past transfer and my Beta was 3,065. Oh, my! I am sort of freaking out because I don't know what this number means...1,2,3,4? So, this is a joyful time but also a time when I have a lot more questions which I need to wait to have answered. I have another beta test on WED 8/20 and my ultrasound will be sometime at the end of next week! But what I do know in the end is that I am pregnant!

Congrats godbewithme.

Devistated...I hope you are taking care of yourself...write if you want...setting up another game plan I hope?

[DEVISTATED]

HI, I couldn't be more happier for you. I feel like I know you, I am jumping up and down right now. Those numbers are out of control. Holly ****, Oh my god. Great news. I'm sure your numbers are normal. Google it, someone will be able to explain it to you. I know that I never reached past 1500 when I was pregnant, so I'm sure your number is excellent. CONGRATULATIONS, YEA, WOOPIE, I JUST CRIED FOR YOU, I'M SO HAPPY. Do you want to stay in touch, maybe we can exchange e-mail addresses. WOW, see I told you, you were pregnant.  

I am definitely not pregnant, my test was negative. I am scheduled to do a frozen transfer in September. Fingers crossed, I need to catch up with you. I want you to know that you made my 2ww bearable and I thank you for that. SMILES......Linda

[willcometrue]

I am so glad that you got right back on the horse...and you have some in the freezer...I did not...the numbers are really crazy. I am googling the best I can but have not received a sufficient answer, yet. Keep an eye out for me. I feel bad that this time was not your time as well...Sept, huh? That is great...and quick. Bad news is yesterday's news and Sept will be bigger and brighter. Still time to have a spring/summer baby!

I have loved talking to you. The trip was more bearable with someone to talk to...I'd love to exchange email...I get some pretty funny ones that would brighten your day from time to time. I am not one to write a letter...unless you are my grandmother;-)

Here it it...***@****

Thanks for the happy tears, it means the world to me...

Alex

[godbewithme]

hi dear
congrats on ur positive and skytouching betas...And i wish u all the best for coming months...

[DEVISTATED]

As you see this will not let you put your e-mail address in. Try mine Krush54 and we use ****.net See if this takes. I'm looking forward to your next Beta results. Again, I am very happy for you. Talk to you later...........Yea!!!!!

[DEVISTATED]

It' a matter of timing, When I submitted this 44 min ago, it said my full address. I guess well have to set up a time and copy down the address.

[willcometrue]

My email address is s a f f i n 1 2 AT a o l . c o m

AT = @

Get it?

Alex

[DEVISTATED]

I got it and sent you mine, see if it worked.

[KellyJ22]

Just to let everyone know, my results yesterday were negative.  I am totally devastated to say the least.  I have some frozen embryos, but that has given me no comfort.  I am unable to text, e-mail, or talk about it without crying.  My husband gets mad at me when I cry so I have to check my emotions around him and cry on my own time.

Read this forum and its posts really helped me in the tww.
Thanks!
Kelly

  

[DEVISTATED]

I am sorry for the negative results, don't get discouraged, frozen embryos is good, I am getting ready to start a FET in September. How about you? When did your doctor say you can do your next treatment? If you have to cry, then cry. Stay positive and don't stress over this. I know If one more person tells you not to stress.........!!!!!!! Your gonna????????????? I feel the same way when people say that to me. But I am different cause I go through the same thing you do month after month. So I can say that to you and mean it. Hang in there and write if you need to, it helps. Good Luck.

[willcometrue]

We've all been there...that is what makes this forum so great - you get to receive some empathetic words versus sympathetic words.

I understand with the husband thing...when they get made that you are crying all over the house. My husband did that too. He also got mad when I refused to hang out with couples who wives recently became pregnant. I am still hesitant to hang out with them- weird, huh?

Cry, cry, and cry. That is all you can do right now to make yourself feel better. When you're done, whenever that may be, make a plan to join the land of IVF yet again ;-)

[willcometrue]

I recieved my second Beta result on Wed but forgot to tell you..I think? So we all know the first was 3,065 last Monday and the following Wednesday it jumped to 8,997! My nurse said we were only looking for about 500. I am in a panic..I know you can't look too much into numbers but holy cow!

I'll be 6 weeks on Wed 8/27. That is when they have me scheduled for my first ultrasound to count sacs and hear heartbeats. My husband is coming. My nurse is making it to this appt she said. She said she wouldn't miss it for the world!

I am really nervous...in a good and not so good way...I'll let you know.

I go back to work Monday! YEAH!

Alex

[sista486]

Congratulations!! I've been reading your posts.  I just wanted to tell you I had my second ultrasound today and found out I am having identical twins!!  I've been looking at your betas and they have been even higher than mine??  My very first was 93 (10 days past transfer) 12 days 194- 19 days 5200 - 26 day 34,000+.  We saw two heartbeats one amniotic sac, one at the top of my uterus, one on the bottom!!! I am 6 weeks, 1 day today.  It would be great to have someone to go thru this with, you will be six weeks tomorrow, right?   I will be thinking of you.. keep me posted!!!!!  Thanks  Best wishes and God Bless!!!

[willcometrue]

I had my first ultrasound today AND I am having fraternal twins! They said everything looks great. Both sacs measure out to be 5 weeks and 5 days today. I am so glad that there wasn't anymore than two! We were so worried about numbers that we completely forgot to ask to hear heartbeats. I guess that is for the next ultrasound two weeks from now. So Sista486 you are 4 days ahead! Congratulations on the identical twins!

Devistated...do you have your date yet for your next transfer? I hope you are feeling better. I enjoy your funny emails.

To anyone who cares...I feel sick all day, it all begins right when I get out of bed in the AM. I have been going to bed around 7:30 the past couple of days. I am exhausted. I never really grasped how tired all my pregnant friends really were until now.

It is rough but a great feeling in the same swoop.

[sista486]

Congrats to you too!!! We actually weren't able to hear the heartbeat until week 6 and it is so neat!!   I am so tired I feel like the walking dead and I'm beginning to feel a little bit of nasea now.  At night I'm awake at least 3 times and in the morning I feel so tired I actually feel sick to my stomach, is that what you feel?  Do you have any other symptoms?  Did they give you a due date yet?  Is your husband really excited?  I heard symtoms of tiredness start to diminish after first trimester....boy I really hope so because I am falling behind on my household chores!! I'm excited for you, it is all worth what we go thru to get here!  

[willcometrue]

I am the same as you in the sleep category. I wake up all throughout the night. I sleep much better when my husband offers to sleep in the guest bed. I feel so bad but I just really need the sleep! The nasea is better now since I stopped the prenatal vitamins. I guess the iron can really do an overhaul on your stomach! My Dr said Flinstones vitamins provide enough  folic acid.  At night I am so tired that I start to feel sick. I sort of feel like that right now. I don't make it far past 8:00 now. I did not get a due date, did you? I would be a few days after you. My husband is really ecstatic that there aren't more than two and that he could be a Dad is 8 months or so. Congrats with the identical twins! Oh, I had some light cramping today which I read was okay since the uterus is growing amongst many other things. How does you gut look? Mine is puffy. When I try to suck in my stomach in the PM it doesn't go in very far, however, my stomache is pretty flat in the AM. Isn't this funny. I read this is normal as well.

Gook luck on the big gut!

[sista486]

It sounds like you are me when it comes to symtoms.  I do have a little gut which I didn't have before.  I am sometimes flatter than others and it is kind of weird.  I never realized it could be the vitamins making me feel sick.  Are you still taking progesterone? I still take a 1cc shot everyday, next week they'll cut it in half and then stop the following.  The Dr. told me if I stop drastically I will have the worst headache of my life.  We don't have a due date yet and I'm supposed to see regular ob/gyn the week of the 15th when I'm released from the specialist.  What kind of care are you still doing post ivf?  I am 40 years old, how old are you (sorry to be so forward)  I too have some cramping off and on and they also said my ovaries are still very swollen and both sides filled with corpus lueteum cysts, which they said was totally normal also.  Are you very sore on your chest?  Mine seems to come and go (alot of weird things).  Hope you get a good nights sleep and I'll be glad to have someone to talk to about twin pregnancy as we go.  Thanks for responding to me. (my name is Andrea)  

[godbewithme]

hi
congratulations to both of you for having twins.My first beta was 121 on aug 18 and second was 816 on aug 25. My ultrasound is on 2 sep. Are these numbers good?? Do they indicate single or twin?? I am very nervous and hope everything goes out well on tuesday. I will post my results as i get it.

[sista486]

Hi!! Congratulations to you too!!  Your numbers look good!  Everything I have read said they double every 48-72 hours so you are right on track.  My first beta was 93- 10 days after a 3 day transfer, how many days was your transfer?  My nurse told me after my first ultrasound they don't go as much on betas anymore as they do on what they see on the ultrasound.  I'll tell you what they told me....relax and enjoy this week of pregnancy!!  (not so easy sometimes!)  I can't wait to hear your news on Tuesday.  It is such an exciting time right now!! God be with you!  Andrea

[godbewithme]

Hi i had a 5 day transfer of 2 blasts highest grade on aug 8 and my first beta was 121 on aug 18. My nurse say that she think its single but you never know and all will be clear on tuesday ie ultrasound day.well I am quiet excited these days but a bit nervous at the same time.I will definitely post my results on tuesday.

[sista486]

Hey just a quick note, my nurse said they thought it was just one too!!  Keep me posted!!

[DEVISTATED]

Hi, I am so happy you are having twins. I thought so, I start September 1st with the frozen cycle. I have to take shots of Lupron and then I get a blood test on September 12th. After that I don't know yet. I assume I will have the transfer shortly after that. This is a first for me.(frozen transfer) I'm not really sure what the details are and if it's similar to the fresh transfer. I'll keep you posted. I'm gonna need to talk to you during my new two week wait. I'm glad you are feeling good and pregnant. HA HA.....When you don't feel good just think about the two little miracles you have and I'm sure it will pass. I'll talk to you later.


To: godbewithme and sista486 I've been reading your posts and I am so happy for the both of you. Congratulations and keep us all posted.

[sista486]

Hi, I remebered reading you are from NJ?  I live in PA but had my transfer in  NJ at RMA of NJ.  Could that be where you are going by any chance?  How many frozen embies do you have and how long will you be on lupron?  I'm curious how it works.  Do you ever watch the Discovery Health Network?  Last night they had on a program where this couple tried iui like 6 times, ivf 3 times and they used frozen embies for their last shot, they put 4 in and had two sets of identical twins and two singletons.  Four survived to almost term and they talked about how they were ready to give up and took one last chance, I cried when I watched it.  I'll keep watching for your updates and pray for you and your little embies.  God Bless.  Andrea

[willcometrue]

Well the forum looks postive. Everyone is either going to begin a cycle soon, is waiting to know how many embryos took, ors currently pregnant. This is a happy time! I am REALLY tired between my Crohns and the side affects of being pregnant. Forgive me for not writing too much but I will another day. I just wanted to check in and tell you all how great everythin sounds.

Devistated...How many embryos are they going to transfer and are you having AH as well? Postive spirits produce positive results. Write everything that you are feeling. We have all been there!

A

[DEVISTATED]

Hi guys,
A---I am putting 2 embies back this time, I only had three to freeze.My doctor only puts two back it they have gone to blast. And we froze 3 on day six. I'm O.K. with that. I don't know if they do AH with frozen transfers, I'll have to wait and ask the Dr. when I see him on Sept. 12.  I'm glad you are having a Happy Time. You deserve it. I'll talk to you later.

Sista486---Hi, My doctor is a one man practice. He is Dr. Louis Manara in Voorhees NJ. I have been with him since 06. I had 9 IUI's and two fresh IVF's. One IUI took but ended in an early tubal pregnancy. Our situation is Unexplained and it really *****. I have never done a frozen transfer before, but I read it is similar to a fresh IVF. I will be on lupron for 11 days and on day 12 I go for an ultrasound and blood work. After that I'm not sure what happens. I will look for that Discovery health network.
How are you feeling? When is your next ultrasound? Keep us posted. I'll tell you reading these posts have kept me sane. Thanks for your interest. I'll talk to you later.

[sista486]

I'm feeling a little sick and my next ultra sound is tomorrow.  I still get really nervous every little twinge of pain or even when I feel nothing.  I have also had two ectopics, second one ruptured which left us unable to try to conceive naturally.  Every once in awhile I feel that same kind of pain and I get really nervous, even after seeing the ultra sound knowing they are in my uterus.  It seems like when I am busy I feel better and my mind isn't so consumed with being pregnant.  We have never made it this far and it is hard for me to get soo excited to think all is okay.  I hope I can relax and feel totally normal and enjoy being pregnant.  This board has also helped my alot.  

Will your transfer be done on 9/12?  Did you do any acupuncture after your transfers?  We were offered acupunture right before my transfer and immediatley after, they said it helps calm the uterus and can increase your chances by up to 25 percent.  Hope you are feeling well and I'm excited for you!  Keep me posted.  Andrea

[godbewithme]

hi
I has my ultrasound today and i have a singleton. I measured 6 weeks 2 days and heart beat was 127 . My RE said everything looks good as a heartbeat  more than 100 is considered good.Next ultrasound is after 2 weeks after which they will release my to my gyne.

[sista486]

Congratulations!! Thats great news!!  Are you taking progesterone shots still?  My appointment is tomorrow.  Last exam our heartbeats were 114 baby A 117 baby B.  Did they do your beta levels?  How are you feeling?  Keep me posted! Andrea

[godbewithme]

Hi
ya I am still taking progestrone shots and will have to do so for 2 more weeks after that my RE will refer me to my gyne.They did'nt do my beta today. I am not feeling any nausea but i am too exhausted and feel like sleeping the whole day. Also i have breast tenderness. My mom said even she didnt use to have nausea in her pregnancy. But i have indigestion and gas problems. So lets see whats in store. U tell about your symptoms and how ahead are you from me in pregnancy.
bye n tc

[sista486]

I am 7 weeks, 2 days today.  I have on and off nausea, I've thrown up two or three times.  Really bad nausea one minute and fine the next.  Very tired and little breast tenderness but not much. I have alot of vaginal discharge (tmi) my Dr said it is from rapid increase of estrogen.  Alot of indigestion and burping.  My husband will want to fall in love with me all over again!! Haha.  This morning I woke him up accidentally when I was throwing up so loudly he got scared.  I am still on 1 cc progesterone/day until next week 1/2 cc/day and then stop.  I am released to ob/gyn by Sept 9th.  So I guess i'm not even a week ahead of you!! Hope you feel good.  Andrea

[sista486]

Just got back from RE appointment.  Found out twins are both in their own sacks, still identical but don't share one sack which they said is much better. RE told me if they share sack there is only 50% chance of survival.  (glad no one told me that before!).  Everything looks great babies are 7 weeks 6 days they said heartrates are 157 and 149.  They told me I could be released today but since I don't have appointment with gyn until the 24th of Sept they will follow me another week.  Hope everyone else is doing really well, waiting to hear from everyone.  Thanks for being here for me to talk to.  Take care.  Andrea

[DEVISTATED]

Hi, I'm glad you had good news today. How sweet is it when you see your babies on an ultrasound? I dream of that day. I'm really happy for you that all is well. I don't know when the frozen transfer is gonna be, to answer your question it is not set for Sep. 12th. I just get blood work and an ultrasound on the 12th. I assume the transfer will be the following week if all is well. I called the doctor yesterday cause I got my period again, 2nd time within two weeks, and the nurse told me before I started to take lupron that I would not get a period before this cycle starts and I did. What gives, anyway she said to me "well your not supposed to bleed, but I'm not worried about it." I could scream right about now. What the h e (double hockey sticks) does that mean. I feel completely stressed out. I even took a home pregnancy test this morning, cause I don't know why I am bleeding. Since I started this I have always had on time periods, I could bet money on the day I was getting it and now just when I can do a frozen transfer and I'm not supposed to get it, it shows up. I'm sorry to go off about it.  I can't help it. Any advice? Thanks for listening.

Willcometrue--Hi stranger, any new news with you I hope all is well. Your probably busy with school right about now, it should be your first week with students. Drop us a line.

[willcometrue]

Sorry about not writing. I have been desperately tired. I went to bed at 7:30 last night. I also chose to start my Master's this year so I had class tonight (I am a glutton for punishment). I have been reading the forum! I can not believe all the twins! Are there three sets between all of us now, or am I reading this wrong. I am sad that I forgot to ask to hear a heartbeat. I will have to wait for my 8 week check-up next week.

I have a stomachache from sunrise to sundown. I am not really all that interested in food but I have been getting down what I can. No vomiting, just gagging.

Kids at school are giving me a run for my money and so are the adults. I have 8 women I have to schedule between all my students throughout the day. This is the most I have ever conducted . It is crazy!

Devistated..my period was all out of whack too from all the IVF cycles. Mine was last 5 days past from its original due date. You should find out what this means for you or go to another Dr. Is your present Dr. making you a little fusterated or do you like him?
Do you have alternative choices in your area for fertility treatments?

Next week is my last week at my fertility clinic and my first appt for OBGYN is Sept 16th. Good times!

Keep writing. Love to read good news! Makes me feel better that I am not the only worry wart!

Alex

[sista486]

Hi, thanks for the good wishes.  I know I would get really upset when people weren't clear on what was going on!  I just wanna know!! Could you possibley call and ask to speak directly to your RE?  I think sometimes stress can bring on your period.  I think lupron supresses the ovaries and progesterone will stop your period from coming, is this right?  Are you on progesterone right now?  I honestly can not say enough good things about RMA of NJ.  My RE in PA merged with them in mid- cycle of my ivf and I didn't have a choice but to go with them.  It was the best thing that could have happened-  they really seem to know what they are doing and I felt so comfortable with them.  They are in Morristown, NJ on Madison Avenue.   They do over 2000 IVF's per year.  Hope you hang in there and someone explains to you whats going on.  You sound like a really strong woman so ...stay strong!!! It will all be worth it when you have a beautiful baby.  Take care.  Andrea

[DEVISTATED]

Hi guys,
A-----I'm glad you are keeping yourself busy. Before you know it you will hear heartbeats. Next week right?? Ya know what else, you should get all the sleep you can now cause you'll never get it again. As for me of course my current doctor is making me frustrated, but I do like him and honestly if I went to another doctor I would have to start all over again, cause they are gonna want to do their own tests on me and I don't want to do it over again. I just get a little mad at my doctor now cause I'm not getting what I want from him. My brother says its me and I believe him. We are close and he tells me like it is, In fact several people I work with have gone to my doctor and they loved him. So maybe it is me.>>Little brother knows best. HA HA. (thank god he doesn't read these things) I think for me I am just going to calm down and relax through this next treatment. I will try to remain positive and I will keep telling myself it will work.

Andrea------Hi, Morristown is close to me, but I don't think I would change doctors this late in the game. I could call and ask to talk to the doc himself and as a matter of fact I'm gonna stop in there tomorrow, cause I have to drop paperwork off, so I'll get him then. I will also google it tonight to see whats up. I don't know much about lupron except it makes me tired and a little woozy at times. I remember asking my IVF nurse before I started the shots if I was gonna get a period before the transfer and she said NO. Anyway I am not on progesterone right now, but I will be, they ordered me tons of it. OK I have some googling to do, so I'll catch up with you guys later.    Linda

[sista486]

Hi Devistated, how are you doing?  I've been thinking of you alot and wondering how it is giong.  Did you get to talk to your RE?  Is everything progressing with your FET?  Hope to hear back from you.  

Willcomtrue-  how are you feeling, better than me I hope.  Lots of all day sickness, dry heaves and some headaches now.  Are you still taking progesterone?  I'm supposed to stop today.  Babies are doing great-  heartrates 174 & 173, we could actually see babies head and bodies on ultra sound, I measured 9 weeks today.  When they decreased my progesterone shots to 1/2 dose a week ago, I got really bad headaches for about 2 days.  Just curious how you are.  Take care.

[DEVISTATED]

Hi, I'm sorry to hear that you have all day sickness. Now I know why I had really bad headaches. When I stopped taking progesterone "cold turkey" after I got a negative result my headaches were killer. See you learn something new everyday. I did talk to the RE and he assured me that bleeding was OK it just means my lining is very thin. He said some people bleed when taking lupron and I'm one of them. I go Friday for an ultrasound and blood work and they said I should be ready the week of the 21st. (Sept) I'm excited to do this again. We are gonna put two back (FET) then that leaves me with one frozen embryo left. Keep good thoughts for me, I need them.

willcomtrue---I hope you are doing OK, you must be busy with night school. Did you have your ultrasound yet? My lil sister called me the other day and she is pregnant. It's official, I am the only one out of 5 that has trouble having children.......What the F!!!!!! I'm happy for her, really happy, but honestly I was a little sad inside. It seems like every time I turn around someone is pregnant. I'll be OK, it is just gonna take me a little longer, this next transfer has to work.......I'll talk to you later,                          Linda

[sista486]

Everything sounds like it is going great for you right now, how do you feel physically?  Will you have any additional treatment or meds with FET?  I think it is really good when your lining is thin, right?  Good for implantation?  My nurse told me I could expect a headache when lowering dose of progesterone but it wasn't common.  Well I got one heck of a headache!!! She said they never stop cold turkey because it can give severe headaches.  I googled it to death and you are about the only other person that I've heard got a headache besides me.  (that reassures me I'm not going mad)!!  Do you have to be on bedrest after your transfer?  Will you go back to work right away?  I'll be keeping you in my thoughts and prayers Linda,
God bless.  Andrea

[DEVISTATED]

Hi, I'm not sure if I'll do another round of shots for FET. I think Lupron is the only shot and after tonight if everything goes ok tomorrow, I'll start taking a pill called estrace (not sure on the spelling) I also received a patch and some progesterone inserts. So I don't think I'll do another round of shots this time. Physically I feel OK, a little anxious but OK. After the transfer I will have two days bed rest and If I can I'll take more time off of work. My job is pretty good with time off. I work in Law Enforcement and as long as there is another Lieutenant there to cover the shift, I can take off. There is three Lieutenants on a shift and there always has to be one there. My co-workers work it out with me and we always cover each other. Ya know what I do when my headaches are really bad???? I take a frozen ice pack and put it on my head sometimes on the front of my forehead or sometimes on the back of my head above my neck, it works for me so maybe it will work for you. The frozen ice pack is soft and it molds into the shape of my head. Try it.  Other than that has your other symptoms gotten any better??  When is your next ultrasound?  I'm about to go through another 2 week wait.....EWWWWW Not looking forward to that. I'm glad I have you guys to talk to.... Thanks for all your thoughts and prayers...Talk to you later. Linda

[sista486]

Thanks for the advice on the ice packs, I'm definetley gonna try it!!! The 2ww has to be one of the worst things ever!!!!! It feels more like the two year wait!!  I'm glad for you that you'll have no more shots, only suppositories and patches, better deal!  Are you an actual police officer or more of an office officer?  (not sure the proper language for that)  It is nice when your employer will work with you.    My symptoms are still pretty bad, mostly nausea.  My mom bought me some wristbands today, the kind you wear when you're seasick.  I'll try anything, they said on the packaging they're for morning sickness also.  I actually missed my first day of work ever.  I am a phlebotomist in a large hospital in the Lehigh Valley Area.  My boss was pretty good but I am trying to save all my PTO for maternity leave.  I only work part time and my husband is self employed.  I carry our health benefits, (which are excellent)  so we are trying to figure out what we will do after the babies come.  We had paid our own in the past, but they are really expensive and not that great.  We discussed me leaving and becoming a full time mom, we'll have to figure out the health benefit thing later.  Will you continue to work after you conceive?  If you don't mind me asking how old are you?  I am 40.  When I went thru ivf, they told me I only had three follicles on L and Right sides.  Poor prognosis.  After all the drugs, they harvested 9 eggs.   My husband did his job and they all fertilized.  Only 3 made it to tranfer stage.  My RE told me all were fair quality and for someone my age, it was the best they could do.   So just some reassurance, anything is possible.  I will continue to keep you in my prayers and wish for the best for you!!! Keep me posted.  Andrea

[DEVISTATED]

Just checking in before I go to bed. I am in Corrections, I am a Lieutenant in a County Jail. I work with both male and female inmates. Not as bad as you see on T.V. but close. My husband works with me he is a Sergeant. (I'm higher rank, HA HA for now!!!)
I am 36 yrs old and please do not take offence but I find comfort in you being 40. I have believed that age is a major factor in my problem. ("unexplained") I think that if nothing is wrong with me or my husband and the RE can't give us a reason why than it must be age. I don't know, my mind races all day long as to WHY.  What hospital do you work at? I don't think I could do what you do. I don't like blood or needles. Yes even know I deal with it every month. I hate them. (needles) I used to be terrified up until two years ago when I started this fertility stuff. Now I have no choice. Do you do your own shots? I can't do my own. I will continue to work if I conceive as long as I can. I will be restricted to "desk" duty for the entire time. Well I'm gonna go to bed now, Big day at the doctors tomorrow, I should  get more answers as to when the transfer is gonna be. I'll keep you posted. Hope you feel better. Linda

[sista486]

Wow, that is pretty neat you work in a prison, isn't that scary or stressful?  I could never do your job for sure!  I like my job but I also have to be really careful, all different types of people and different diseases of the blood, hiv, hep c.  I'm sure you have alot of the same.  I also live on a farm and have 18 goats, they are all my pets and that too is getting pretty dangerous, my husband wants me to sell them in fear that I might get hurt.  I love them and really don't want to but not sure what choice I have right now.  I think it is really neat your rank is higher than your husband!! That's great!! Is he really supportive?  Mine is but also was really scared at the beginning, we went thru 2 ectopics and as you know they are heart breaking.  We were so afraid of another loss it was hard to be excited about anyting.  I was wondering if you have a history of endometriosis?  Your "unexplained" infertility- they don't have any idea?   Do you know what your blood levels were for your fsh (follicle stimulating hormone) which tells what kind of reserve you have left of eggs.  Mine was considered borderline.  They told me if I was going to do ivf I better do it soon.  (and we did)  I gave myself all my lupron shots in the belly but my mom stepped in for the progesterone in the butt shots because my husband got queasy every time he saw the needle, when my mom wasn't available I gave them to myself.  Boy, I'm happy to be done with them!!  Do you have to work weekends and holidays at your job?  How did you make out at your Dr. appointment today?  Keep me posted.  Take care.  Andrea

[DEVISTATED]

My doctors appointment went well, we are looking for transfer around the 28th. I started to take estrace (pill) and he lowered my lupron to 5. My husband does my shots in my thigh, do you think if I did the shots in the belly I would get a better result? My doctor said it doesn't matter thigh,or belly. My husband is very supportive, besides you guys he is the only one I talk to about this. I do not have a history of endometriosis and No idea as to why "unexplained" I also don't know my fsh levels, they just tell me my blood work is fine and to go ahead with the "plan", I'm gonna ask next week, I go back Wednesday.Living on a farm is so cool. My brother has a farm, with lots of animals as well, he only has 5 goats. I fed the last one he bought by bottle, so cute, it was so personable, she was adorable and would fall asleep in your arms. We live on 4 acres and it is mostly wooded. My brother wants us to clear out and make room for some farm animals. I don't know right now. Our neighbors have a rooster that yells all day long. I do work every other weekend and Holidays as well, I don't work all Holidays, we split them up. If I do work a Holiday at least I am home by 4:30. I work the 8am to 4pm shift. (for now) we are subject to change shifts at any given time. My job is not scary but is very stressful at times. When you advance in Law Enforcement it supposed to get easier, I disagree. I was off work today and it is raining here. Nice day to nap. I'll talk to you later have a good weekend. write if you feel like talking. Linda

[sista486]

It is a good day to nap, I'm home today too, it's raining pretty good here.  I have four goats I raised from a bottle, they all know their names and they are the sweetest things ever.  We farm hay and straw about 350 acres and my husband also has a soil business.  He works alot.  Your job sounds really interested, I like to watch all those shows with cops and prisons, I think I would be scared though.  It means alot when you like your job.  I don't think it matters so much where you take your injections, if the lupron wasn't working the way it should, they wouldn't have decreased it to .5.  The only reason I probably know some of this is because of me working in a lab.  Everytime I had a new med or a new blood test, I studied it to death to find out what the normal ranges were, and what the drugs are supposed to do.  I know once your ovaries are in suppression it is safe to lower your dose.    So your body must being doing what they want it to or they wouldn't have lowered your dose. The 28th of September will be here before you know it.  I'll pray for you and your embies everyday, promise.  Do you have a far commute to work?  Mine is about 45 minutes which isn't bad till winter time.  Your home sounds lovely on 4 acres, but farm animals are alot of work and if you're anything like me, I get way too attached.  I used to spend a couple of hours everyday just brushing the goats and cleaning up after them.  Now, not as much but I still love to go to the barn and have "goat therapy"  they make  me laugh and are really personable like you said.  What does your brother do with the goats?  Are they pets or milkers or meat goats?  Just curious.  Hope you have a good weekend and talk to you soon I hope!  Thanks for being a listening ear.  Andrea

[DEVISTATED]

Just checking in. Thanks for the info on the lupron shots, you made me feel better. Why can't the doctor explain it like that. They just say everything is fine and "follow the plan". To answer your question about my brothers goats, they are pets. My commute to work is about 30 to 40 min. 30 on weekends. During the week I ride with my husband. (lucky) Are you gonna find out what sex your babies are? Did you start to think of names and what theme your nursery is gonna be? That kind of stuff is fun. Did I tell you my little sister is pregnant? There are 5 of us and all my brothers and sisters have children. Weird Huh, I'm the only one in the family that has trouble. My dad says my mother had several miscarriages. (My mom passed away in 1999 so I can't ask her any questions.)
Well I need to go clean something or do some wash, I've been lazy the last few days. Talk to you later. Linda

[Amy269831]

Hello!  Ok, transfer was a week ago, and really another week seems like a horribly long wait.  I really want to just think I am pregnant and live in that for a little while.  
Devistated, I responded to you on the other one, but did follow your directions and found you here.  Its been a long day, headed to bed.  We are going through and adoption right now and had class today, it really is a disturbing thing to go through.  We are doing a kinship adoption, we have had my niece since she was 6 weeks old, she is now almos two and a half, and the adoption should occur in the next few months.  Parental rights have already been terminated, now we just have to wait, and have a few classes to take in the mean time.  Unfortunately the classes today showed slides of how to identify child abuse, and it showed horrible pictures of children that had been mistreated.  It was enough to make me sick.  
So, off to bed, tomorrow will be another day under our belt, another day closer to the big test.

[willcometrue]

You guys have been busy! I am desperately tired between work and night school so don't mind me if you haven't heard a peep in week. Devistated, I am glad to hear you have a projected date for your transfer. You are in good company of twins so you may be next! Congrats to your sister..good things come to those who wait - even though it really, really, stinks to wait. It is one thing to get pregnant but the whole wait until the 12-14 week is double the anxiety. I wait for something "odd" to happen at any moment and then back to ground zero. My husband say "postive thoughts!"

Sista46..I measured 8 weeks on Sept 10 and there were two heartbeats 146 &154. Both were good. I could make out a head and arms on one but the other was cuddled against the sac so it was hard to define parts.

My mother is trying to figure out what she wants to be called as a grandmother...it makes me feel proud that I can give her those thoughts before anyone else;-)

You two take care of yourself. Devistated. I want to read about your transfer when it happens and sista46 keep me updated on your Dr. Appts b/c I want to know if I am making the same progress.


Alex

[sista486]

Sorry I didn't write sooner, I have been so sick I can hardly do anything.  Between throwing up and just feeling terrible, my house isn't the way I like it, the laundry is behind.  I feel like crying on a whim.  Thank God I know it should pass in another two to three weeks.  What a horrible feeling!! I'm not complaining though because I know it will be worth it in the end.  We have given a little thought to names but I guess we will think more when we find out what the sexes are, and yes we definetly want to know!!  I haven't really thought of any themes yet, I guess once we know my brain will go to work.  Wow, I'm suprised your brother keeps goats just for pets, I'll have to tell my husband because he thought I was the only one in the world that didn't have them for some kind of profit!  I was wondering what kind of precautions does your RE put you on after transfer besides bedrest?  Are you off caffeine?  I quit cold turkey on coffee and I LOVE coffee, it is so funny because now when I smell coffee, it makes me sick.  My RE didn't require any bedrest, I had to rest for 20 minutes after the procedure with a full bladder(or bedpan), no heavy lifting, no sex or orgasms, no caffeine, other than that I could resume regular activity right after the transfer.  I'm sorry for the loss of your Mom so early.  My mom had a hysterectomy at age 33 due to endometriosis.  Both aunts on my dad's side are infertile and never had any children and my mom's only sister also had a hysterectomy.  My sister has one child, my brother has one living child, one born still born.  I guess you never can figure out family history.  Are you having any side effects of lupron or other meds?  I think they made me feel tired.  Hope you have a great week and be careful at your job.  Take care.  Andrea    PS  Do you enjoy riding to work with your hubby?!? smiles.

Willcometrue-  Hi again, glad you are still doing good.   Are you sick alot?  I know I feel the same -  it is almost scary to think too far ahead but on Friday my nurse said at this point it is really really unlikely anything would happen.  Are you still on progesterone?  I go to the regular ob on the 17th.  Have you seen ob yet?  We could also see the babies on ultrasound, one on his belly one on his back.  From what I have read they now have all their organs, their limbs and are now starting to get their fingernails and toenails.  A little peach fuzz on their heads.  Its pretty amazing.  Keep me posted on your progress too.  Andrea

[DEVISTATED]

Hi guys, I invited a new friend her name is Amy269831 and I found her on this web site, but another category. She is in her two week wait and we all know how that goes.

Amy-----I read your response to the other blog and You didn't answer my questions, but I know your situation is different. What day is your blood test? Do you remember what you felt like when you were pregnant with your son (right after the ivf transfer)? Do you feel any of the same symptoms? I wish the best for you. It is wonderful that you are going through an adoption now. My sister in law adapted a child and I work with a few people who have adopted children. I remember all of the classes they had to go to and all of the stories they shared with us. Some scary but I'm sure the ending result is worth it. If you feel like talking just drop a few lines. It might make your last week go by faster.

willcometrue--I'm so glad you wrote. I've been worried about you, I know you are very busy with school and night school. I'm glad you got to see the babies on ultrasound, that must have been so cool. It's cute that your mom is thinking of what she wants to be called. Did you tell your sister yet? All is OK with me just anxious to start this next transfer, I'll write when it happens. I'll tell you guys everything. Talk to you later "positive thoughts" sounds good Linda.

Sista486--Sorry to hear your feeling bad. It will get better. My RE doesn't really give me any precautions. I do my own bed rest. I read a lot on it and the most popular answer is 2 days, so that's what I do. He just tells me to take it easy for a few days. The no sex, orgasm and heavy lifting I also read, so I don't do any of that either. I stopped caffeine a while ago. I never drank coffee and I hardly drank soda, so it was easy for me. If I drink soda its caffeine free. I could probably eat a little healthier, I'm working on that. I guess your right on the family history. I am very tired from lupron, I fall asleep by 8pm most nights. I hope I can stop taking it soon. I just realized that I have approximately 2 weeks to wait for my transfer, so I'm having a pre- two week wait before my real two week wait. This *****.  Ha Ha Ha. Talk to you later. Linda

[sista486]

Hope your pre- 2ww goes fast for you.  I know it stinks!!! BIG TIME!!!  Do all of your siblings live close by?  Are you youngest, oldest?  I am youngest of 3 children.  My sister lives in Missouri and my brother close by.  We didn't really tell any family when we went thru ivf except my parents.  I think it was added pressure for me the more people that knew.  I also told my boss because I had to re-arrange my schedule alot.  Does any of your family know?  Did you start with your estrace and progesterone yet?  Or do you start right before transfer?  Do you know what determines when they will do your transfer?  Well, gotta go, back to work tomorrow!  (YUK)  Hope your week is a great one and keep me posted!  Andrea

[DEVISTATED]

Hello Ladies, How is everyone feeling, just checking in. I went to the RE today and he said my lining isn't thick enough. Boo Hoo. I've been on Lupron Since Sep. 1st and Estrace since Sep. 7th. and Clamera patch since Sep. 17th. I feel like I'll never get off these meds and to go today and get a bad result is making me crazy. I am highly P i s s e d Off right now. The doctor said it's not a bad thing, it just means we have to work harder. Imagine that working harder.......Who would have thought. I'm up for the challenge and I will do whatever he says. He doubled my Estrace and I go back on Friday. We are looking at anywhere between next Monday and Wed. for the transfer. Hope you guys check in I need someone to chat with.

[sista486]

I was wondering how you've been doing, I'm glad you checked in.  Hopefully your lining will thicken up soon and you'll be on your way.  I was just thinking that at least your RE must be trying his very best to get the best result by increasing your meds and waiting, thats good news.  Did they do bloodwork today?  I'm glad you're up for the challenge because we all know this process is a challenge and it is rough!!!  Hope you hang in there and keep your chin up!! Write if you need to talk.  Andrea

[DEVISTATED]

Hi, How are you feeling? I'm glad you checked in. I did get blood work done and it was OK, that's how he doubled my meds. What have you been up to? I worked all weekend and I was off today. I decorated for Halloween. I decorate on all Holidays, Halloween and Christmas I go crazy. A couple of years ago People used to drive by my house to see my Halloween decorations and lights. I guess I got it from my mom, she used to decorate and when we were little it made all of our Holidays special. She also used to do ceramics lots and lots of decorations that we split up when she passed away. So I guess it gives me some peace of mind to decorate like she did cause I can use some of her things. I normally wait until Oct 1 to decorate, but I didn't know when my transfer is gonna be, so there you have it!!!!!! I also tore apart my bathroom this week I am tearing off the ugly a-- wall paper that was in there. Now I have to pick out a color paint and paint it. (I'll let the hubby paint, so I don't breathe the paint) Well it was nice hearing from you keep in touch. I'm watching Dancing with the Stars!!!

[sista486]

I watched dancing with the stars too!!!  Who do you think is going to get the boot?  I get addicted to that show when it comes on!!!  I wish I had your energy!!  I hardly ever decorate anymore.  Christmas I do our tree and that is it, but I do bake hundreds of cookies and give them away to our friends.  I used to decorate years ago but somehow got away from it.  My mom also used to do ceramics.  That is neat you keep that tradition going and decorating like she did!  I am still feeling pretty sick right now.  Sleeping is hard for me,  I wake up at least 10 times a night.  I work today 12-7pm so I'm off this morning taking care of some stuff in the house.  I wish I was home today, it seems like such a nice fall morning to be at home.  Are you feeling good?  Are your injections going okay?  Keep me posted on your progess!! Andrea

[DEVISTATED]

Hi, Sorry to hear you are feeling crappy and having trouble sleeping. I love to sleep, I hate it when I am interrupted when I'm sleeping. I wonder how our friend willcometrue is? I've been thinking about her. I have her e-mail address, I'll drop her a line. When is your next ultrasound? OH, I think Jeffrey Ross kind of stinks. I like Rocco the chef, I think he is funny and kind of cute. (not as cute as Alec the professional dancer) Did you know Lacy was on So you think you can dance? Did you watch that to? She was a finalist.
Anyway I'll keep it short. I feel like ****, I feel like I have a zillion pimples and I feel like one of those big fat puffy football players who takes steroids. I feel crazy, confused and dizzy not to mention sick to my stomach. I woke up like this this morning. I know it's from the medication increase. My injections are doing fine. I hope I can stop taking them on Friday. Keep fingers and toes crossed that my lining thickened up. I hope you had a good day at work. I'll talk to you soon.

[willcometrue]

Hello Ladies.

You two have been busy. I am exhausted between carrying little ones, work, school, and regular chores...

So, Devistated they don't have a day for you yet...I'm sorry. Waiting for the transfer day is just as hard as the 2WW. Those medications must be making your body's whole homeostasis off... You feel like how I fell...bloated, pimply, and crazy.

The other day a teacher was rude to me and I am so full of emtions lately that I later cried up in my office. I can't believe it bothered me that much!

Sista486..You must be REALLY close to that 12 week marker. I hit 10 weeks today and I am dying to tell EVERYONE but can't... I can't wait to tell my work so they back off me a little bit since they are all crazy the first month of school...

Do you look pregnant? I see a pudgie bulge but I am not pregnant looking. Do you notice you have a flatter stomache in the AM than in the PM. I feel as though I get fatter as the day carries on...

The funny thing is no one has noticed yet...One lady told me I looked "healthy" since I am usually a stick... my chest is definately bigger however. I am usually well-endowed but now I look like I could feed an army and all their brothers...but the belly not too big (still in all my usual clothes).

Hey you guys,,, I got to see the babies moves last Friday. I meant to tell you but tiredness wins...I wasn't expecting it so I was totally freaked out when all of a sudden heads were jerking back and arms and legs were fluttering. It was a breath-taken moment...

Devistated let me know when you go to transfer. Sending my prayers and love to you.

[sista486]

Devistated..  Sorry to hear you're not feeling well.  It is amazing what our bodies can take not to mention all the emotional stuff with trying ivf.  I'm hoping and praying with you for good news Friday, make sure you let me know what happens.  I missed dancing with the stars last night, who got voted off.  I was hoping Susan Lucci.  It is fun to watch and I caught myself smiling as I was watching it the 2nd night.  Are you still working now?  Will you take some time off next week?  How's your hubby holding up?  Keep me posted on your progress, I'll be thinking of you!! Andrea

Willcometrue....I sounds like all is going good for you, thats great.  How much weight have you gained?  I have already gained 8 pounds and can't wear any of my clothes anymore, in just one week, (last week) I just ballooned out and I actually have a nice size hump.  It concerned me so I asked my Dr and they said it is very normal and my BMI is only 22% even with the weight gain so not to worry.  I am in my 11th week now.  I was released to regular OB and my next appointment isn't until 10-15.  The Dr explained how our twins separated and the different types of identical twin pregnancies there are.  It was pretty interesting.  Our egg split a few days after conception which left us with two babies, two sacs and only one placenta.  It is the best case senario for identical twin pregnancy.  I too am so tired, I want to sleep my life away.  I'm starting to feel alittle bit better now.  Hopefully at 3 months all sickness will pass.  By the way my stomach is flatter in am the in pm... what is that about?  Keep me posted on your progress!!  Hope you feel better, take care.  Andrea

[DEVISTATED]

Hi guys, I have bad news. My lining is getting thinner. I can't seem to grasp reality right now. I feel like I'm in a bad movie. It doesn't make any sense to me. I've been taking shots for 25 days and taking pills and patches too. What the F went wrong? The doctor  asked me twice if I MISSED taking a PILL, like it's my fault. How does your lining get thinner, when the medication was doubled? I can't even find anything on the Internet to read about it. The doctor told me to take the estrace pill vaginally instead of orally for the weekend and to re-check for Monday. If nothing changes on Monday he will cancel this cycle. I just know that's what's gonna happen. I know already. To top all of this **** off I have a light period and he said that that should NOT be happening. There are also no answers as to why I have a light period (along with mild cramping). I feel like giving up this entire thing and then I think if I give up, then I'll never have a baby. If I don't give up I have nothing left in me. Does this make any sense? Probably not, I can't stop crying!!!! I'll talk to you guys later. Linda

[sista486]

Hi Linda, I'm so sorry for your news.  I googled thin lining and ivf and found an artical on infertility blog.com/endometrial lining.  It was written in August of 08 and that artical states they could not prove a thin lining was less success than a thicker lining.  It talked alot about the lining and the results.  Did your Dr reccomend if you cancel to wait a little to give yourself time to get back to normal?  Is that what you would want?  I think my clinic had a 3 month wait between cycles.  That article said they usually increase estrogen to high amounts with a thin lining.  I hope you're okay and even though you feel like giving up you're a tough cookie and you said before whatever you have to do you'll do.  Do you consider going to another RE?  I know you said you really like him but maybe you would do better with another practice?  You could transfer all your records.  My cycle from beginning to end was 3 months with all the testing from scratch.  I feel your sadness but DONT GIVE UP!!!  There is alot of hope for your, remember the lady I told you about on the discovery channel who ended up with four babies.  She tried like 9 times total!!!  There is alot of hope for you!!!  If your Dr says to cancel cycle, maybe you could do some research and see if you should try another RE?  When I started my cycle it was with one RE, her by herself, when she merged with RMA of NJ I was so disapointed until I saw the way they did things, it was so different and they were so much more thorough, confident and their approach was much better, remember I'm an old 40 year old with fair quality eggs and I'm pregnant with twins!!! No eggs left to freeze, my one and only chance and it worked for me!!  I hope you don't think  I'm being bossy, I'm just trying to give you more hope!!! Hang in there, write  back so I know you're okay!  You will be in my thoughts this weekend.  Love Andrea

[DEVISTATED]

I read the article, Thanks for looking that up. I have thought about changing doctors before and I have done some research on others. I'm not sure what to do now. I feel like if I wait I'm losing time. I'll be 37 in November. My doctor did not say how long I would have to wait if he cancells on Monday. I'm assuming I can start next month after I get a regular period. I don't think you were being bossy. I'm glad you care enough to talk with me. I put the estrace pill in vaginally tonight and I'm not sure it went far enough, I feel like it's gonna fall out. And I'm afraid to pee. I never thought I'd be doing this kind of thing. Maybe there is still a chance for me, come Monday. We'll see. I will be OK I have to work this weekend and it will keep my busy. Thank you for listening, I mean that. Linda

[willcometrue]

Fertility science and methods are a funny thing...To tell you the truth I think your Dr. sounds and has always sounded a little insensitive. There is one thing to be blunt but another to question a person's committment or ability to follow instructions in such a  sensitive time in their life. Is there anyway to get a second opinion or do you have on;y one fertility clinic is driving range?

Keep the faith...if you take a break it does not mean you have given up but rather that you are allowing your mind and body to rest. I hope your husband is supporting you well through this whole process. I know I was not the most pleasant person to be around when failed attempts occured or added medications were needed.

Feel better and know that your turn will come ;-)

[sista486]

Hope your weekend is going good and fast.  I agree with Willcometrue, your Dr. seems a little insensitive but then again so do alot of Dr.s.  Hopefully your lining will be thicker come Monday and if not, you can consider all your options.  Even if you would have to start over, it'll be worth if for a better result.  Keep me posted on what's next.  You'll be in my thoughts.  Andrea

[DEVISTATED]

Hi, guys. Just an update, I went to the doctors today and I swear it was like talking to someone different, he totally changed his tude. My lining has gotten thicker, but not quite a 6 he wants an 8 or more. Just when I thought it would be cancelled, he turned around and told me that we are gonna do this and he doesn't care how long it takes, he said if it takes another 3 weeks to get my lining where he wants it then so be it. Wow, I'm now excited. He told me that all of my blood work is and has been perfect, it's not a medication dosage issue, it's just a time issue. I've been praying so hard all day and all night everyday and I have just begun this process. So much more to do. I go back Wednesday so I am living with the same hopes as before, Thick Thick Thick Lining.

How are you guys feeling? I hope all is well and thanks for checking in.
Linda

[sista486]

I'm so glad for your good news!!!  I checked in hoping you had left a message and you did!!  I'm happy things are looking up!!  So you go back Wednesday for another ultrasound and bloodwork?  Are you still taking estrace vaginally!!!  Keeping my fingers, toes and elbows crossed for you!!!  THICK THICK THICK.  Keep me posted!! Andrea

[willcometrue]

It is about time...I'm glad your docotor got on board. Maybe he figured out that the "perfect" circumstance is not always an option. I am glad that the sun is shining where you live. Let us know when you go in for the transfer.

Sista486...I have only gained a 1 1/2, 2 lbs at best. I am a very picky eater right now and can only eat small frequent meals...big meals do not sit well with me. I have a pudgie belly but nothing that looks like a pregnant belly. I am telling everyone at work tomorrow and i feel like I am setting myself up... really nervous....


So, I am going to take me and my pudgie belly into the kitchen and make some pasta so I can catch up to sista486...

Best wishes to you both...Devistated - love the emails but I never get the pictures!

[DEVISTATED]

Hi, A- are you clicking on the attachment at the bottom of the e-mails? The last one I sent you (I think yesterday) had no attachments the "Table for sale" You should have seen the picture under the words. Really??? I wonder why. They are so funny, I wonder if it's something I'm doing wrong, my sister has told me that before to. Anyway I'm glad you are telling work people. That must be so exciting. I'll bet most of them tell you that they already knew!!!!!!! I'm sure you told your sister by now right? How's hubby? Do you have any cravings yet? (weird ones?) I go back to the docs in the morning to see if the lining got thicker. I'm kind of in limbo, I'm scared and it's a whole different stress that the 2ww. (I think I like the 2ww better) I'll keep you posted.

Sista 486--Hi how are you feeling? I'm in love with Rocco on D w/ the stars. He is so cute, love him. I don't think hell be around for long, unless he has a huge fan base. Greys Anatomy is also a great show. Oh yea, I wanted to tell you that I found another post on this same site and I started to talk to some of the girls there and they are all going through the 2ww if not ready to start another cycle (like me) and one of the girls told me that she was surprised that I was still on Lupron and that her doctor told her that Lupron thins the lining. How crazy is that. Looks like I have a new question for my doc tomorrow. Now that makes sense, cause I never had a lining issue and I've also never been on Lupron before. Well I hope all is well with you and you are feeling good. I hope you guys get really fat soon......LOL HA HA HA  I asked Alex the same thing, Do you have any cravings yet???? Talk to you later Linda

[sista486]

Linda-  hey I didn't know that about lupron, that's really interesting.  You have an appointment today?  Let me know what happens.  Rocco is sweet, he got booted off last night and his Dad is still on.  I felt bad for him because he is so good and he is gone already.  I really like the youngest guy, I think he is sweet and they never give him good enough scores!! I would like to see Susan Lucci get the boot next!!  (can you tell I am really in to this show?)  I am still really sick.  So much indigestion and still vomiting and dry heaves alot.   Wondering if I need to call my Dr sooner than my next appointment.  I was crying yesterday to my hubby, I felt so sick and couldn't get any relief.  Do you know any remedies for indigestion?  Hope you are well and everything keeps on getting thick!!! Write me!! Andrea

Alex-  Wow, I'm jealous you only gained 1 1/2 pounds.  I am 5'1" and my pre pregnancy weight was about 115.  I weighed myself two days ago and I am now 128.  I don't know if it is because I am usually very active and I have really just been lying around all the time because of being sick or if it is fluid or what???  I don't want to gain too much weight!!!  Are you feeling much better now?  Hope you are, when is your next ultrasound?  Mine is in two weeks from today and I think I will be 14 weeks then.  Keep me posted!! Andrea

[DEVISTATED]

Hi,
Andrea--you have me confused, Rocco stayed on last night he is the chef from New York. Kim Kardashian got kicked off last night. The judges do not really like Rocco, but he must have the fans on his side, he dances with the girl who danced with Mario Lopez last year. Anyway I'm with you on Susan Lucci and then they can get rid of the old lady to.
I had my doctors appointment today and my lining is thicker it is now almost a 7 and he said anything above 6 is good. He gave me a date for next Thursday. We are gonna transfer two. I was so happy today, I could have kissed him. I'm still gonna take the medication to make my lining THICKER. I'm really excited, I need to catch up with you guys. I do not have any remedies for indigestion. It is the wost pain in the world, I did read that you can take Tums when you are pregnant, they say they are a pregnant girls best friend. Did you take them?  I get indigestion alot, but tums work for me. Good luck with that. I'm sorry it really *****. Besides that did you start to tell your family and friends that you are pregnant? I'm not sure if you were gonna keep it a hush hush or not. How's all my goat friends? Are they listening to you? Keep me posted. Linda

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I've told my Sister but she is not the brightest bulb in the package. She looked at the ultrasound but didn't really look...She passed the ultrasound to my Aunt who said are there more than one? My sister freaked out and said - there are two? i could have stangled he since I allowed her to see the pciture first which she passed off within two seconds (She is definately ADHD!)

Telling people at work was very excited and overwhelming at the same time! A lot of them did say they knew already.."Yeah right!"

I am 5'6" 128lbs prepregnancy..now I weigh 130! WOW! I have an appt tomorrow - I think to see if the baby could possibly have Down Syndrome. I am not officially 11 weeks. I ope everything is okay..I've had a rough two years with deaths and illnesses in my family so theis would be a great change in pace.

Keep me updated in all your affairs. It is nice to compare my experience with another who has twins (only a week ahead) and to another to pray for THICK lining!

Bye Gals.

Alex

[sista486]

Alex-  Congrats on getting to tell all your friends and family your good news, it is a really exciting time!  I had a really rough couple of days, actually had to call my Dr. today to find out what is going on.  I have been vomiting, alot, acid indigestion, terrible and nauseated so bad.  Unable to keep food down at times and alot of dry heaving.  The nurse called me back to say it sounds like I have an abundance of acid in my belly, which is making me sick.  She told me to start with x strenth zantac, vitamin b6 tablets and unisom, the sleep aid.  I'm okay with zantac and b-6, but not comfortable with unisom, she said it is not for sleep but for digestion.  I have to take it 4 times a day and try to work?  I'll be like the walking dead!!! She was really not that nice to me!! I told her I was concerned because I feel worse now than I did earlier on in pregnancy and I was nervous something was wrong,  she said you need to chill out and stop looking at every little thing!! Your stress is probably contributing to this!!! WHAT??? I wanted to say lady you are the one who sounds stressed!!!  Hopefully I will not have any dealings with her again!!  I hope it soon goes away anyway, it will all be worth it in the end though.   I opted out of all the genetic testing, my dr told me when they factor in my age and then the fact i'm having twins, my numbers would already be elevated without any testing at all.  She said they are not that acurate unless you do amnio.  I didn't want to worry about that so I decided not to do it.  How old are you if you don't mind me asking?  Well, sorry for all the complaints, tomorrow will be better!! Hope you feel well and congrats again!!  Andrea

Linda-  Hi how are you doing?  Any news on your lining yet?  Are you getting excited about your transfer date?  Sorry, I was thinking rocco was one of the professionals, now I realize he is the chef, yeah I like him too.  He's really cute.  I think Karina is starting to seem like she likes him alot too, what do you think?  How is your hubby holding up thru all of this?  Is he excited about next week?   Keep me posted on your progess!! Andrea

[DEVISTATED]

Hi, It seems like all of these nurses can be BEEOTCHES. Don't sweat it, she probably hates her job, not to mention her life. Sorry you are feeling worse than ever. For the record you are allowed to look at every little thing. It's your pregnancy and they work for you. Try and remember that. Do you have one person at the doctors you can always ask for, someone who might be a little nicer and maybe someone who has compassion for those who are scared something might be wrong. At my office, since my doc is a one man practice (love that about him) his staff is always the same. (love his staff even better) Is genetic testing common, I'm not sure I know anything about it.
As for me, I'm sure my lining is doing fine, he doesn't want to see my until next Wednesday the day before my transfer, so I'm sure it will be nice and plump ready for my two perfect little embies. Hubby is doing fine, he is the one constant in this entire process. He shows no excitement, I guess he figures If he does and we have a bad news, I'll have to comfort him and we all know that there is no room for that. (LOL) I hope you feel better,  Talk to you later. Linda

[willcometrue]

Hi gals...
I can't follow you two on Dancing with the Stars. I can not get into it at all. I like Grey's Anatomy, House, and Project Runway.

I am 25. I needed IVF due to my medical past. I am not new to medical science. I've had lots of surgeries between my Crohns disease and chronic ovarian cysts (that blew up to the size of a grapefruit)!

I opted for the geneic testing since I work in elementart special ed and I am telling you that statistics don't mean anything...I have students with disorders, diseases, etc. regardless if their parents are 21 or 51. I did the testing since it was another opportunity to have an ultrasound paid by my insurance. My husband also got to go this time and see "A" and "B" do acrobatics in my womb. It was SO funny. Baby B did  a complete 180 degreee flip and was standing on its head waving its little arms! It look really silly and fake but it was all real. They moved together as well. At one point the ultrasound tech stopped moving the doppler and laughed saying she was not moving at all while we all looked at the screen and saw both of them moving up/down and back/forth.

It was a good day.

Linda- Just a week and a half to go before transfer, correct? Wow. Just around the corner! I think of you often. Good luck.

Andrea- I do not feel as bad as you do, actually, I am almost back to my old self. I do get acid indigestion..I have to be REAL careful of what I eat otherwise I can't eat for the rest of the day due to the sour stomach.

Talk to you ladies later.

Alex

[DEVISTATED]

Hi, That is so cute, 180's and flips, do you feel anything when they are moving around like that? It must have been indescribable. Was that the first time hubby got to see the ultrasound? COOL. I'm happy for you, you are my original friend on this site, and I feel like I've been with you the whole time. (I just need to catch up to you) My transfer is actually this Wednesday, 4 more days. Then the evil and stupid 2ww. I am already planning on when I'm gonna do a hpt. This is my first 5 day transfer. (even know it's frozen, they were frozen on day 6) I also don't have a trigger shot this time. I'm excited. I'll talk to you later. Greys Anatomy is the best. Do you watch The Practice. (it's a spin off of Greys Anatomy with Addison) By the way I love that name for a girl. I loved it the first time I saw it on Greys Anatomy........ Never got into House or Project Runway.....Did you get the e-mail "I picked a pumpkin for you" If you didn't get the pic, I'll re send it. I'll just re send it anyway it's a good one. Linda

[willcometrue]

WOW! You go this WED? That is so exciting! I know what you are saying about being there from the beginning...my heart has broken for you and soon it will weep tears of joy...I am so interested on how the freezie embies work. I have read great results online. You have just about the same chances as fresh ones. You are REALLY lucky to have had some to freeze. I never had any AND that you are covered by insurance so there are some postivies in the stream of negative things that may happen to you. The 2 WW is the worst...How long will you wait for an hpt?

I do watch the practice when I can...It does not start 'till 9 O'clock which is really pushing it for me. I have turned into an old lady. Being up past 9 is way too late for me. The first 8 weeks of pregnancy was a roller coaster ride. The sleepiness was the worst since I have so many things to accomplish throughout the day. Now I am behind trying to catch up...

Now I have heartburn like Andrea...I get it at night. It ruins your appetite for anything else.. Oh, well. I don't want too much weight. Right now you can't tell on me hardly at all... I hope I stay rather small with healthy babes. I think I wil know sexes on the 19th of Nov...I am really excited. I hope I have one of each or two boys. I don't know what I would do with two girls.

WELL back to you!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! WED is the day. It is about time. I know it seemed like a long time for you but it was rather fast ... the DR must be rather sure of himself to go ahead to get this right this time around. Oh, I hope all goes well. You surely deserve it and are ready for anything!

Alex

[sista486]

Hey girls,  sorry I haven't been on lately, I have been soooooo sick, heartburn, indigestion and vomiting.  I am praying I will get over it soon.  When I am home and not working I just want to rest.  Everything I eat makes me sick!!!  Linda, I'm so excited for you, now only two days from your transfer!!!  I started hpt's five days after transfer and continued to the day of my blood test.  I actually saw the line disapear and then reapear.  Do yourself a favor and don't buy cheap tests, I bought answer early prediction and I also bought cheap $3.00 tests and the dfference was amazing.  I figured no matter what the result at least I was preparing myself for it.  So do you go on Tuesday for a lining check?  Are you still taking lupron or did you stop it yet?  Tonight is dancing with the stars (I'll think of you when I watch ROCCO). Keep me posted!!!

Hi Alex,  that is so neat your babies were moving!!  I'll have to ask our tech if ours are moving.  Did you feel it in your belly at the same time?  I go back to Dr 10/15 for another ultra sound.  Did you have vaginal ultrasound or on the belly?    Heartburn is the worst, don't you think???  I can't wait to feel normal again, but only after I deliver two healthy wonderful little babies!!  Keep me posted on your progess!! Take care!  Andrea

[willcometrue]

Remember not to take the HPT's too early...BUT you are not taking a trigger shot so maybe you can take them whenever you feel like it! I am so exicted.

Andrea. My heartburn is not nearly as severe as yours. Mine is every single night around 6:00. Then keeps moving around until I go to bed. I can not feel the babies. You will definatley see your move on the 15th. You should be about 13 or 14 weeks then?
When was the last time you saw them? I had the last one on my belly (doppler?). The pictures come out way better vaginally so if you can get away with it - do it!

Night!

Alex

[willcometrue]

It's WED. So, what happened?. How did everything go? Dying to know!

Alex

[DEVISTATED]

Hi, I went today with a perfectly full bladder. I got there at 1100 for an 1115 transfer, while I was there he was with another patient, who he was discharging back to her regular gyn. And I overheard the receptionist saying Congratulations on the phone to another patient. So my spirits were good going into this. My bladder was so full this time, and the transfer happened at 1130 (15 min late) so I thought I was gonna pee on him. (of course I didn't) Anyway, no trouble at all, and I saw the whole thing on the screen, I saw the two little bubbles floating in my uterus. Amazing. They thawed all three embies, cause one did not make it with the original two thawed. I was worried about that and how that works, but all is well, now I just have to go through the two week wait. Easier said than done, Right? I think I'll be alright this time. I'm gonna try not to think about it or stress over it. Oh yea remember I told you I lied to my sister last time. She found out and questioned me on it tonight. She said she heard from someone who went into her job (husbands sister), I told her that she (hubby's sister) did not know what she was talking about. And really she didn't  cause I never told her anything, we don't ever talk to his side of the family. Anyway my sister knows about this time and like I predicted, she is on my nerves already. "Don't move around, no up and down steps, no laughing, no sneezing, and stay still, when do you go to the doctors, what does it feel like, what are you supposed to feel?" That was our conversation. She even calculated a due date!!!!! She's worse than a 2ww. No just kidding, she's not worse, but close.
How are you feeling????When do you go back for another ultra sound? Keep in touch, I'll talk to you later. Linda

[DEVISTATED]

P.S. I go for my beta on Friday the 17th.

[willcometrue]

WOW! That transfer is way easier than doing the whole entire process again. TWO embbies...the 17th? That is right around the corner. Tell your sister to find a better hobby. Your sister seems smarter than my sister becuase my sister had not clue unitl i told her then she couldn't even read the ultrasound. My husband's side of the family are a bunch of gossip talker too. GO figure. Our fmaily dynamics have some similar qualities.

I have migraines and acid indigestion...EVHAUSTED today.

I'll check in later. Keep still, don't move, don't even sneeze!

Just kidding..

Alex

[willcometrue]

5 more days to go!!!!

[DEVISTATED]

Hi, How are you feeling? Did you try to put ice on your head when you get your migraines? Are you allowed to take anything? I have had them before and they are almost the worst thing I've ever felt. So, I've been feeling good. I had a slight cramp in my lower right side starting on Friday and on Saturday I had period like cramps. Today I'm good no period like cramps but once in a while a little twinge of the slight cramp again. I have no blood anywhere. Remember last time I had a pinkish discharge. Not this time. Ya know this is my third time, and I swear they are all different. How frustrating is that. I'm kind of glad cause now I have nothing to compare to and every time I feel discouraged I say to myself "think positive" I go back to work tomorrow and I should be busy all week, I'm not off until next Saturday. EWWWW. Do you think I should HPT. I'm not sure, I'm actually scared to. I need your opinion. Remember both times I was pregnant before, the hpt came up negative and I didn't test to early. I'm so scared this time. Maybe I'm not a HPT kind of girl they just don't work for some people. Oh what to do, I have been hangin tough, not sure how long it's gonna last. Hopefully work will keep me busy. Talk to ya soon. I wonder how Andrea is doing???

[willcometrue]

Last time I didn'y do an HPT until day 8 or 9 and that was b/c I wasn't being tested until day 16! So, I would just wait for your appt on Friday. They are checking you early enough where you should wait it out as hard as it is...I am glad that you feel different this time. You might be feeling success! Keep busy, let me know how the appt go that DAY! I am dying to know.

I still have horrible headaches. I am typing in the dark right now since the lighting rea;;y kills my head. Andrea is probab;y busy with her sickness. I hope she has found some relief in the past week.

Alex

[DEVISTATED]

I think I'll take your advice on the hpt. It's gonna be hard around Thursday, plus I have one left over from last time so it's kind of staring at me, calling my name. This is what I feel today. MY (.)(.) are so heavy and I think they've gained 40 pounds each. I have discomfort when I lay down, but they don't hurt to the touch. I have a slight cramp in my lower right side. It comes and goes. I also feel bloated really high in my belly. I don't get to explain these things to others so I'm glad I have you. I guess there is no one else going through this 2ww right now.
I'm gonna go now thanks for checking in. I will let you know A.S.A.P. on Friday. I am working that day, so it won't be until after 5. See ya,keep everything you can crossed. Linda

[ababyhopes]

Hi Andrea

Hope all's well with you and the twins. Congrats!! I live in NJ and go to RMA in Morristown as well. I am into my first IVF and my preg test is on 10/16 (2 very good embryos transferred on 10/7). Really nervous about it and the wait is killing me. I've been looking for some feedback about this clinic ever since I first consulted them and so happy to see someone who's had a successful cycle. My DR is Paul Bergh. Can you please let you know what your experience was like witht his clinic? Who is your doctor and was this your first time with them? I like them so far and also the nurse, but feeling very nervous at this point. I have slight lower back and lower abdomen pain since the last 2 days and can't stand for too long. Hope my test comes positive.

To Devistated: Hi, I've been reading your posts and sorry to know you past cycles weren't successful. How's your current FET progressing? Hope all's well and I wish and pray for your success.

Good luck
babyhopes

[DEVISTATED]

Hi, Yea I'm so happy I have a buddy who is testing with me. I test on Friday as well. I can't help you with your clinic, but Andrea talked good about it. I have done some research on it cause I was thinking of dumping my doc. I decided to stay with my doc, I like alot about him, and I just get frustrated with him, when we fail. Plus I don't think I could change docs this late in the game. I am comfortable with him and he is a single man practice which is what I like about him the most. He has a good rep and Alot of people I know have gone to him. As you know (from reading our posts) I've done this 2 times before, both fresh cycles and they both failed, I do not have any children and I don't have to tell you how much I want one. This is a first frozen cycle for me. I feel different this time. But I felt different the other two times as well. My doctor has a high success rate with frozen transfers. Weird HUH. Well I'm glad you are here and keep us posted. Are you gonna HPT???? WATCH out if you do, they play with your mind. Good Luck Linda

Alex----I'm starting to lose it!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Today was hard for me. The hpt test I have upstairs is saying stuff to me.....HA HA HA.

[ababyhopes]

Hi Linda

Good luck this Friday. Mine is tomorrow and I'm having difficulty concentrating on anything else. And, I don't have the courage to do HPT, Iam scared of the false results that may show up. Also, I have mild cramps and thats bothering me. My nurse can't tell anything from it and says every woman is different. Don't we all wish there was some sure sign of what's going to happen!!

We have 6 (may be more) embs in the freezer, just in case...

I'll keep you posted on what happens tomorrow. Good luck again!

[DEVISTATED]

Sending you all the luck I have inside of me for tomorrow. I hope you can get some sleep. Sorry for the confusion, I thought you tested on Friday. Good Luck, Linda