pregnancy

i took almost 6 tests and they all came back positive and i told my boyfriend on new years day that i was pregnant and then three days ago i started to bleed, it wasnt a normal period blood so i got super scared and my friend looked it up on the internet and found out that its normal to have a little blood in your first trimester but then the blood got really heavy and my mom had to me take a test last night and today and they both were negative and the blood stopped this morning, what can this be and what caused this????

[bunkababy]

i really need help im scared that i might have had a chemical pregnancy...someone please help me!! im so lost and so scared.

[Carly1306]

Spotting or light bleeding can be normal in early pregnancy. It's when the bleeding becomes heavy, with clots etc that it's more serious and usually indicates miscarriage. I would wait a day or so and re test with first morning urine - if it's negative then looks like your miscarried, if it's positive then looks like you're still pregnant but go see a doctor.

[stacey10]

it does sound like you may have had an early miscarriage and the only way to be sure is to either wait about a week and retest using first morning wee or go to your doctors and have a couple of blood tests done to see where your hcg levels are at

[bunkababy]

thank you guys for all your help, i went to the doctor yesterday and had blood tests done, the blood was a little heavy though and there was very minimal clots and if i was pregnant i would be about 5 weeks right now, and the blood is more of a bright than dark color of blood, im waiting on my test results and this is the scarest time of my life so far, what should i do if i have a miscarraige (miscarriage)?!?!?!

[Carly1306]

Unfortunately if it is a miscarriage then there's nothing you can do. Just rest up.

[bunkababy]

well i found out lastnight becuase i had horrible pains in my lower stomach and there was a lot of blood i had a miscarrage (miscarriage) i was 4 weeks and 4 days yesterday, i cryed for like 6 hours straight and i blame myself for not doing something correctly.

[Carly1306]

I'm so, so very sorry for your loss. I to have had a miscarriage so I know how it feels. Trust me when I say this though, that there is NOTHING you could have done, and it wasn't your fault. I hope you're doing a little better now.

[bunkababy]

my boyfriend and i are still crushed about it, he cryed for 3 hours after i told him the horrible news......i cryed for about the same lengh of time and he blames himself for the miscarrage (miscarriage) i told him that it was not his fault anymore than it was mine and its not even my fault that this happend it was gods way of showing us that it was just not our time to have a child, what should i tell him to help make him feel better i know its hard and everything i just want to help him as much as i can