preseed and bd'ing

hi, my O date is the 11th. Used preseed for the first time today, not sure i did it right tho. Should i bd tomorrow and up until my O? and use preseed everytime? Im not holding much hope this month. I have been taking evening oil capsules and vitex but still do not feel very positive. Can preseed be any use to women who do not suffer from vaginal dryness? i do not but haveheard so many success stories i thought id try. My boyfriend said it didnt feel any different to him but i thought ot felt wetter. (sorry if tmi). My boyfriend has not had a sperm count but if i have regular periods, ovulate everymonth could there be anything wrong with me still?  thanx, sticky babydust to all xxx

[projectbaby]

Hey girl...I used preseed this past month and I do not have problems with vaginal dryness (yes, tmi)  but I tried it anyway... What the Dr. told us was to bd every other day but definitley before O and a couple times after you O, just to be sure..... We have been ttc for 2 years (with help from a fertility spec for 1 year) and my periods are very normal...28 days to the tee!!! and I have never had any problems... they just call it "unexplained fertility"... my husband count was also done and he has a great count!!!  I think your next move would to have his count checked.... if you have been ttc for 1 year you can see a specialist unless you are older than 30 (in which you can go earlier)...so, I think I answered your ?'s.....  I really didn't think the preseed was that great and it was really odd to insert (gross, I know) but it never seemed like I got any in there (TMI!!!!)  Oh, well...I wish you luck and I hope I helped you with your ?'s...good luck to you!!!

[Hope2OneDay]

I used preseed in July, and got my BFP Aug 14th.
Perhaps you don't even realize that you may be drier than you think. Bd'ing a lot can cause dryness or a change in cm consistency.

Preseed allows for a better enironment in which the sperm can survive longer without getting killed off. Do you use OPK's?
It turned out that I actually ovulated two days before I was actually supposed to, which I learned by using an OPK. So if you're supposed to O on the 11th, you may want to try an OPK to make sure the date is correct. Some people O early, and some late.

After a couple of months getting a BFN, I finally used OPK's, and discovered I was O early. After two tries with an OPK, I got pg. (the second month was with preseed)

As for your bding...I would probably skip tomorrow and then bd first thing in the morning on the 11th, then again that night...using preseed.

If you feel you MUST do it tomorrow, I'd do it early in the morning, so the sperm will have at least 24 full hours to build up before doing it again on the 11th. Also, sperm count is highest in the morning. So don't take hot showers or anything first...heat will lower the sperm count. Just bd first thing, then elevate your hips with a COUPLE of pillows for about 20 or 30 minutes.
Also, you may want to alternate positions each time. Missionary in the morning (or one day), then from behind the next time you bd. These two positions help the little fellows get the best head start for the big swim.

Best of luck to you!! ~*~*~*~*~*~

[mommie2]

I used pressed in April and got bfp in May. I am now 21 weeks, I liked the preseed myself, but everyone is different.

[neparker]

Hey girl!

I used OPKs and only used preseed on the day of ovulation (according to the OPK) and the day after.  Before then, I used regular KY Jelly spermicide free of course.  

As you might remember, I did get pregnant, but it ended in MC at a few days after 6 weeks.  I just recently finished my first AF after my MC, and we're going to start TTC again.  I will do the same thing.  BD every other day from day 10 until I O, use preseed on that day, and then BD two more days.  WIsh me luck, and I wish and cross my figers for you too!

[IaoAbri]

Where can I get preseed? I see that alot of internet sites offer it is there anywhere local?