really need advice ladies please

okay here we go i am a mother of 6...i have a very regular cycle...on the 15th nov i had unprotected sex as we decided to all those who are against large familys that this would be our last child...anyway as long as we pay for them and love them it shouldnt really be a issue...anyway my af was due on 1st anyway on the 28th..i began spotting which was early obviously..it was very clotty and heavy..now it has stopped my usual af lasts around 5 days and is usually on the dot dates wise..my breasts are sore..with slight nausea if i wasnt having this bleeding id swear i was pregnant...i have a slight pain down right hand side...im not thinking ectopic...as im not in enough pain...also i bled every few days heavily with my 8 year old until 30 weeks...theh blood went from red and clotty to being now brown...should i do a test,,,im sooo confused thanks everyonex

[stacey10]

hehe I wouldnt worry about how many kids you have :) I've got 10 and have just had a miscarriage (old eggs) and I'm trying to have one more before its all over :), with this last pregnancy, I thought I was having my period, it was heavy bleeding with cramps and it lasted for 8 days, 3 days later for some reason I decided to do a test and it came back positive, soo I shouldnt have really been pregnant, but it managed to stick through all that bleeding, but didnt go past 5wk2dats, anyway,  so I would do a test, either your pregnant or you've maybe had a very early miscarriage, or do bloods, good luck :)

[stacey10]

hehe I wouldnt worry about how many kids you have :) I've got 10 and have just had a miscarriage (old eggs) and I'm trying to have one more before its all over :), with this last pregnancy, I thought I was having my period, it was heavy bleeding with cramps and it lasted for 8 days, 3 days later for some reason I decided to do a test and it came back positive, soo I shouldnt have really been pregnant, but it managed to stick through all that bleeding, but didnt go past 5wk2dats, anyway,  so I would do a test, either your pregnant or you've maybe had a very early miscarriage, or do bloods, good luck :)

[joBirnie]

thanks hun and i just feel pregnant but the blood is getting silly now lmao...and wow 10 kids bloody hell i thought i was fertile..have u ever had bleeding and then gone on to have a healthy baby cos i did get a faint bfp about 11dpo arghhh this is driving me crazy

[stacey10]

well actually this last pregnancy that I miscarried, I thought it was my period except that I didnt want to eat everyone lol, but I bled and it was just like a period, but I had 2 really heavy days and was passing teeny clots the size of rice, it went on for 8 days  and then after it finished, 3 days later for some reason I did a test and it came out positive, actually have no idea how that happened as I had been using ovulation sticks right from day 9 of my cycle thru to day 22 and they were all neg, then on day 29 my period arrived as above so who knows, it managed to stick thru all that bleeding only to stop growing at 5 wks :/

[stacey10]

look at that, see thats how 10 kids affect your brain, I've just answered your question again with the same answere I gave you before !!! sorry :)

[joBirnie]

mY SILLY DOCTORS THINKS IM STILL PREGNANT LOL ...i soo doubt it i have been bleeding a lot but only lasted 2 days,,,usually it lasts about 5 im sooo going crazy..i just posted what she said on another questionx