scared and i don't know if anyone could help..

hi ladies...i last had my period dec 26th and lasted until the 30-31st...my period is amazing since ive had my ds...well i am due to stop my pill on saturday and then start back the following sunday..i am due to start my period anywhere from next tuesday-thursday...well for the past 3 days I have been having this cramping like af is about to show her face. I've not missed a pill and have been pretty anal about taking them about the same time...The last time I got these cramps were when I was pregnant for my ds last dec/jan...It's too early to test and we've used condoms up until this cycle and he pulls out...but it's been my 3rd and we've only bd a few times this month so far...ive been extremely emotional and could just be from fear..I really want to go back to school in may or sept and this cant be happening again..ive been trying to convince myself its only cramps from my uterus trying to go back to size....my ds just turned 4 months on the 12th..I'd love to have more children just not right now...if it were after my placement were done okay but oh god...After everything I've been through with this pregnancy with  the mother in law and all...I don't even think I'd be able to tell my bf that I'd be pregnant...As horrible as it sounds I think i would just pack up and leave...I'm soo scared...we've not had unprotected sex...im on the pill and have been for 3 months and last cycle we did and did not use condoms all the time and im okay..my period was heavy so...argh any words of wisdom..i hope im just over analyzing everything,....

[waitingwithhope]

It takes a while for the body to get back in the swing of things. It also takes a while for the pill to kick back in again which can cause cramping or irregular periods for a while. So can the fact that you gave birth only a few months ago. I would not stress out yet. If it happens you are pregnant, then deal with that then, but honestly, it probably is just because you are back on the pill plus your body is trying to get back into a natural cycle again...this can really take time.

[CYW]

thanks i hope thats it...it just feels like af is on her way and its really annoying because im on the pill and you dont get af until you finish your pill..or so youre not supposed to and so it has been scaring me...things seem to falling into place and i fear this could be what would be stopping me

[hldeskin]

I know that in the past when I was really worried about being pregnant I would get so stressed out that it would actually cause my period to not come on time or not have one at all! (talk about freaking out...)  So try to stay as calm as possible until you have cold hard facts.   I know, easier said than done.  Good luck!

[CYW]

well i have about a week left to wait and i hope it happens..thanks alot..stress has done that to me as well before..so we will see...

[kcs08]

With birth control pills, condoms, and pull out, I can almost be 100% sure that you are not pregnant...

[CYW]

we havent been using condoms this cycle however we have been using the bc and pullout..i would love to know why these cramps are happening...its that same feeling as when i was pregnant...but the only confusing part is i finished my period dec 30-31st..it would be pretty early to be having symptoms...i dont remember exactly when i strted the symptoms so one week or so left to wait until i am done the pill for my period to arrive and when it does..hoping it does im going to shout out to the world lol...