ttc after a miscarriage

Hello, I am 21 and have one healthy 2 1/2 year old son, no complications with his pregnancy.  I got pregnant again march 07, had a miscarriage in may 07 at 10 1/2 weeks. I was so devestated.  I waited 3 months before ttc again.  I found out I was pregnant around easter.  I was so excited.  I had another miscarriage a week and a half ago at 7 1/2 weeks. I want to have another baby.  I don't want a big age gap between my children.  I was wonder when I should start ttc again.  I just don't understand why this happend to me.  But God has his plans.  I know I am young but I am very mature for my age. Thank you.  I want to hear if there us still hope for me to have a successful pregnancy.

[pmperez]

Ok you had 2 miscarriages this year? First did they do any test on the tissue? And then I think whenever you are ready thats the best time...I had a miscarriage and got pregnant immediatly and so far so good....IF you get pregnant again and miscarry I would definetly have some testing done if you didnt this time....Hope everything works out for you...

[em0ti0nz1086]

Thanx, no they didn't do any testing on the tissue.  The e.r. Dr. Just told me that my next pregnancy I will be at high risk. And if it ends in miscarriage then they will do testing.

[xxangel]

hiya girly well i have had 3 miscarriages in a row ( im 18 and thought i was healthy)  anyways
my 1st miscarriage was a missed m/c at 12 weeks (had d&c ) my period came exactly 21 days after . then i had my 2nd cycle 27 days after that

i concevied my 2nd angel on my 2nd cycle after m/c but sadly miscarried again , at 6 weeks naturally.

i fell pregnant for the 3rd time before my period arrived after my 2nd m/c  but sadly miscarried that one at 8 weeks ( was onother missed miscarriage)
i had all my bloods tested but docs couldnt find any underlying problem and just put it down to badluck!! ( my doc is a real gd doc) also my mum has had 3 miscarriages so has her mum , however i do remember my doc saying about my family miscarring aswell so 2% could be due to that or something!
anyways hunni dont loose hope it will happen , its now 9 weeks since my3rd m/c and im on CD13 !! i really hope i catch this cycle, i was spotting for 5 weeks after m/c!! and my period finally arrived 7 1/2 weeks after m/c longggg time!!

i hope this helps a little, well you knwo you can carry a baby to term because you ahve a 2/12 year old, i really hope this works out for you!! also make sure you are taking your prenatals !! xxx best of luck

chloe

[em0ti0nz1086]

Thank you.  Idk how long its been since my miscarriage exactly.  Do you count from the day you start bleeding, pass the fetus, or when you stop bleeding.  I have been counting since I passed the fetus.  Its been two weeks and I believe I am ovulating.  I hope I get some good luck.  This miscarriage I haven't really felt anything..no loss...I feel kind of bad saying it like that.  But my 1st miscarriage I was heart broken.  Depressed for awhile.  But God will let me get my babies.  I have faith in Him.