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by debs7272, Mar 17, 2005 12:00AM
So sorry I haven't posted. Really bad news. On saturday my dr called and said that my hcg numbers were dropping. From then, I knew things were not good. On monday I had an ultrasound and there was nothing there. He said it was a loss and had stopped growing at about 5 1/2 weeks.(should have been 9 weeks) I was devastated. Still wasn't bleeding or cramping so my ob set up for a d & C on thurs morning. On tues morning I woke up cramping and wiped and saw a little brown blood. By the afternoon I was bleeding but not very heavy. The cramping was pretty intense. I had the D&C tues evening in labor and delivery. Everyone was really great and supportive. The pain is minimal now but my heart still aches.   I will keep checking and posting.  Sending hugs and good wished your way.
Debbie
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by jluhart, Mar 17, 2005 12:00AM
To: debs7272
I am so sorry for your loss.

by blondie72, Mar 17, 2005 12:00AM
To: Debbie
I am so sorry for your loss.  I know exactly how you are feeling.  The good news is you got pg so it CAN happen again.  I suffered a missed m/c a year & a half ago and got pg again 3 months later.  I was devestated and angry.  I was scared that I would not be able to have anymore children.  I saw women in stores with thier babies and get angry at them.  I thought it was so unfair.  Time DOES heal the pain.  I do wish you luck and I hope you keep trying and I hope it happens again soon for you.  Keep in touch.  This is a great support board for m/c

by Babycakes1, Mar 17, 2005 12:00AM
test

by manman, Mar 17, 2005 12:00AM
To: Debbie
So sorry for your loss. I too know the pain you are feeling, it is not an easy thing to go through but talking to other people that has been there will help alot. I had a mc in October 2003 and got pregnant again in March 2004. Try to stay positive and take it one day at a time.
Mandy

by Debra_Maine, Mar 17, 2005 12:00AM
To: Debbie
I am so sorry for your loss and I know exactly how you feel. I too discovered from an u/s that I had m/c. I remember how empty I felt, but we waited the one month the dr. told us to, then we tried again and voila, pg. I am currently 29 weeks. Everything happens for a reason. I wish you the best of luck. All I can say is that time truly heals.
Debra :o)

by Myah's Mom, Mar 17, 2005 12:00AM
To: debbie
So very sorry for your loss. Not much anyone will say to you will help, but it's always nice to know others are thinking of you! I too had a loss about about 6 weeks, and once my period resumed, it only took us one cycle your way.
You sound very strong-keep your chin up :)
Sending hugs and prayers your way.
L
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