wants to be preggo but it wont seem to happen!! plz help

[rellz]

my boyfriend and I have had unprotected sex numerous times , in most occasions, he hasnt pulled out. we were diagnosed with chlamydia but we were treated for it. chlamydia can cause infertility but we got treatment right away. once we were treated, we continued to try and concieve but we have had no luck, except for the chlamydia coming back again, and now we're being treated again.. but im very worried.. do you think it is because of the chlamydia that we cant concieve or does it just take a while to get pregnant. when exactly should we try if i have a 28 day cycle?? i've heard numerous times that u can get pregnant anytime... pleaseee help

[hungry]

Just wondering how old you are.  


You may be being a bit naive.  Chlamydia does not just "come back". If both of you are treated, then one of you is not being faithful.  Chlamydia is an STD SEXUALLY TRANSMITTED DISEASE. One of you is contracting it repeatedly, which makes me suggest that you wait a little before having a child together.  

I wish you well, whichever way to decide to go.

[wisconsingoofball]

I was going to say the same thing, unless I'm misunderstanding you. It just doesn't sound like either of you is responsible enough to enter into this situation yet. How committed are you, will you get married, how long have you been together? Babies are hard work and put strain on even the most solid relationships, and if you guys keep "getting" chlamydia, your relationship doesn't sound that solid to me. Maybe you should work on that, first.

[tif1]

How about treating the std you keep getting,  get married, then try for a baby.

[Jaces312]

I have to agree with the other posters. You need to find our first why you guys keep getting chlamydia (ie, somebody is sleeping around) because if you get pregnant and you have chlamydia,(or any other pelvic inflammatory diseases) it can actually cause a miscarriage. So it would definitely be worth it to address that issue first and foremost, then of course, i would recommend getting married before having kids, only because alot of guys freak out after the fact and decide they dont want to have anything to do with you after they get you pregnant. It happens alot and its not fun to have to go through pregnancy alone. Not saying your guy would do this, but things change when a baby comes into the picture. Just my 2 cents.

[Tempuress]

I've never had an STD of anykind, BUT , one of my best friends had that and they got treatment as well. However when she got it again YES IN FACT she found out her man had cheated on her once again with the same girl he got it from befor when he gave it to my friend. She was so embarrased and hurt and discusted. I guess what i'm saying is ya i may not have had an STD but i'm not completly ignorant to realize that once u get treatment for something that can stay gone afterwards its not just gonna come right back for no reason at all. So in my advice i'd get to the bottom of the whole STD thing befor bringing any baby in the mix. Because what if you get it while ur pregnant? Then what? I certainly wouldnt want to put my baby at risk!

[mami1323]

Exactly, chlamydia once it is treated no longer exists after that.  If it's coming back and it's not from you sleeping around, than I think that you should stop trying to get pregnant with the boyfriend and think about his loyalty.  One thing about chlamydia is that it depends on how long you have had it for.  If they catch it right away it shouldn't cause infertility.  If you have let it go untreated for long periods of time than yes it could cause scarring on the fallopian tubes.  Treat the chlamydia and have your doctor send you for a hysterosalpingo gram (HSG).  This will show you if your tubes are blocked or if there is any scarring.  I was once diagnosed with chlamydia and am now pregnant with my first baby.  So it doesn't always lead to infertility.  If I were you, I would be more concerned with getting chlamydia multiple times than about trying to get pregnant.