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Crazy
My daughters lovely piece of **** father is at it again. I hate the guy but we have managed to reach civil terms. He hasn't expressed any interest in seeing my daughter but he does occasionally call to check in and I always give him an update. Well tonight I had 4 missed calls from him, followed by a couple texts. I responded to the texts and he started saying that I was dumb which seemed really odd to me. He's an *** but he's dyslexic and hypersensitive about using words like dumb and stupid. As I was in the middle of texting back he called again so I finally answered. Turns out it was his girlfriend. I didn't even respond and just hung up immediately. She has called me 8 times since then and has been texting me non stop. I just keep ignoring her. I'm starting to feel seriously harassed and I'm getting upset. I don't think there is anything I can do about it but I'm going to call the sheriff tomorrow and change my number. I may even go retain an attorney.
If i were you mizzz, i'd tell him what she has been doing, just in case he is not aware. She's just trying to cause trouble.
I understand. And you have every right and reason tofeel that way. She was verbally (or they may call it tech) abusing you.
I agree with you flick. What gets me is he's choosing crazy over being a good man and a good father. He's responsible for setting boundaries for himself and in his relationship so for her to do something like this means that she feels she can do something like this and he won't do anything about it. I can't believe how much it really upset me. I seriously cried myself to sleep that night. I just felt so violated. I know it my not seem linked a big enough deal that I should have felt violated but I really did.
He probably doesn't......but since he allowed her into his life and into his child's life...he's partially at fault as well. He's gotta take a stand..he'll either let her get away with this crap and jeopardize his career or he will tell her to step. (I'm getting all 90's gangsta all of a sudden..lol)
I am for sure saving all the messages. I also took screen shots of my call logs. She called me several more times after I made this post. I called the sheriff and he tried calling them just to intimidate them a little but they didn't answer. The sheriff said I could file for a restraining order but he said at this point he doesn't think it will actually hold up. He said he thinks my best bet is to just wait it out and hope that was it but if I hear anything more from her go retain an attorney who can advise me how to proceed. I don't want to sound naive here and I don't want to give my ex too much credit. I know he is a real ******* but he's not stupid. I'm just really really surprised that he would allow her to act like that. He's smart enough to know that one could come back to bite him. He's a financial advisor for Wells Fargo so he has to have an extremely clean record for his work. He knows he can't risk any trouble. As much as he lacks people skills, his job means so much to him and he is really good at it. He knows that this kind of **** could seriously backfire in him. Now that I've had some time to calm down I'm wondering if he actually knew she was doing that. I just kind of have this intuitive feeling that there is probably more to the story.
How'd it go today? New number? Did you end up calling the cops?
Sounds to me like she's got mental issues. I would def be calling the authorities and saving all those messages.
Change your number gurl save all the texts and print them out too and you can record phone convos if u have an I phone
What is she calling you for? And what is he/she texting? If its inappropriate harrassing i say definately tell the police, so you can get a restraining order or something. I don't understand what she would even want to be talking to you about.
I would call too. Get a restraining order as well. What an ***! Both of them!
It's harassment and you have every right to demand her to stop. I agree with calling the sheriff. You could even do it tonight if it hasn't stopped.
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