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127124 tn?1326735435

Do you like to cuddle with your mate?

No.  I do not like to be touched.   I will cuddle for a few minutes but prefer my own space.  
I loved to snuggle with the kids when they were little.
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549511 tn?1271775930
wannabenana yeah sure thats what your telling us :) LOL
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419964 tn?1333301906
I like to cuddle only while im awake tho cant sleep while cuddling...my boyfriend dont cuddle with me its more like i cuddle him lol but its all good i know he loves me sometimes he will cuddle me not very often tho which makes the cuddles times even more special :)
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495284 tn?1333894042
Im not a big cuddler.  It is okay in the winter when it is cold and he insists we keep the heat down.  When i go to sleep it is hands to home please.
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494623 tn?1278279352
lol I agree with Jaqui ...... separate events for sure there is nothing worse than someones hot ( as in hot not HOT!!! ) body sticking to you when your trying to sleep Eeeeeek! urghhh!

Cool cuddles only for me hehe!!
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401786 tn?1309152034
Yep.  Sleeping and cuddling are two seperate events for me...I cannot sleep with someone all over me either.
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270405 tn?1293035621
I only like to snuggle when I'm in the mood.  Usually for just a few minutes, and not when I'm trying to sleep.  I can't sleep with someone all over me.  
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186166 tn?1385259382
not no... but hell no!!!!!!!  after 23 years and 4 children...i dont want anyone touching me :)
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Avatar universal
i like cuddling with my bf too!!! i wish sometimes he would cuddle more when we sleep together, he's always like on the edge of the bed while im sleeping in the middle waiting for him to join me.....***sigh*** oh wells : )

what i dont like is, when we are out like food shopping or in the mall and im looking for something just right and he's hanging all over me and hugging me....YUCK! i need space to go shopping for anything!!!!
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489099 tn?1286220981
I love to cuddle...well i mean i still love my space but we love to watch TV or lay there and snuggle. We laugh at how we sleep...its like we are doing combatives or some type of puzzle. One leg in between his, his on top of mine, while he hugs me. It doesnt last all night but thats how we fall a sleep. Yup and we been sleeping in the same bed now for 9 years.
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401786 tn?1309152034
I love to cuddle with my husband....I have a specific position I like to....with him flat on his back, me on his side with my head on his chest and his arm around me, and my leg over his....My hands, hmmm....I'm not sayin', lol....I love to lay against his warm, firm body, and just breathe in the smell of him.....Mmmmmmmmm....Now I feel all lovey!
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212720 tn?1304375415
I love being cuddled by my DH. But also like SurpriseB not while sleeping. It is nice to nestle into his big tattooed arms and feel safe when I have had a bad day.

However almost every night we hold hands while watching the news. It is the little things like that which keep me from kicking his a** most days. LOL
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150937 tn?1235943880
I love to be held by dh....but not while sleeping...I need my space.  SO DOES HE...
he farts and snores in his sleep....enough said!  (who would want to cuddle with THAT!!!!)  
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Avatar universal
Thats funny MH bleeped out Mr Morris's name,,,,I guess I would have to say "Richard" morris, but no one would know who I was talking about......well you know you I meant - his name rhymes with Mick :)  
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Let me clarify that last sentence.

I meant on top of the balnkets, not on top of hubby. LOL
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105530 tn?1279585282
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I love to cuddle..... It does feel so safe being the arms of my hubby !!!!

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Avatar universal
NO,...cuddling is forbidden!

I feel like I'm smothering and I need my space.

Half the time hubby is under the covers and I'm on top, with all the windows open.

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I like to get a massage while I watch a movie. Even if its just my feet. My husband is not always in the mood though cause he wants to relax when he watches a movie. Last week we watched a movie and I put my feet on his lap and told him to pretend he was **** Morris:)  **** Morris wouldn't complain about a womans feet on his lap I told him.
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277836 tn?1359666174
that will change LOL Im just playing
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298824 tn?1349955177
I love to cuddle....I feel so safe and relaxed with my hubby..
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535822 tn?1443976780
Well he snores now but I dont mind if he hops in my King size for about 5 mins , then I nudge him as hes already off to the land of nod, and he stumbles out to his own room and his full size bed!!  Hey, I do get a Peck on his way by.
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184674 tn?1360860493
I LOVE to cuddle with my boyfriend! I can't get enough of it!
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277836 tn?1359666174
I agree teko
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