Big problem with Penis

[Leo111]

I dont know where to start since there has been so many symptoms but i try
i am now 32 years old male

5 years ago i had some unprotected sex 1-2 weeks after i got itching in the testicles and penis
It felt like a lot of things moved around in the testicles and penis like a virus
or put in other words like aints crawling inside everywhere it was almost constant

after this my penis was no more normal
shortly a big red spot apeared on the penis gland
then i started to feel pain during peeing
then the itching spread to the anus

Then it was something was Burning inside the penis
this burning was special felt during peeing or after orgasm

I felt strong itching in anus and the on the pubic hair also after orgasm
so much the whole pubic area got red the anus later felt swollen

Then after the burning sensation began go away (a week or so)
the penis began to feel number specially in the lower part of penis and on the glande

there was no itching any longer in the penis or testicle but still in anus and public hair
sometimes pain/burning sensation after orgasm (the pain during pee was gone now)

the numbness made me feel much lesser after orgasm
the peak is right before orgasm but after orgasm is just like felt is over but not much
sometimes the orgasm just feel like a release and sometimes i felt even pain
the penis felt imflamed or swelled right before orgasm and i suspected this too made it felt more numb during orgasm.

When i started feeling numb i got to the doctor not until then i should have gone before
I told the doctor i had unprotected sex with a lover and the doctor Laughed in my face and asked the nurse to come in
he told her "this guy had sex with a lover"  it made me feel bad this was not joke

I told doctor my symptoms and he said i have "Vaginittis"  (can a male have that?)
I said how can you know without even checking me  
doctor replied "I can because i am GOD"  

after this i lost faith in doctor and went on with the symptoms for some time

The numbness got worse and the skin on the Penis feel now more dry
the form of the penis feel different like before this happened to me
is like is somewhat smaler on the side thinner or like it has lost some muscle masses?

i Got to another doctor after some times and he gave me some medicine that didnt work
took a semen test that didnt show up "Contaminated" they did again and it didnt show anything bad
Did a Pee test but didnt show anything either (did not do blood test)
he sent me to a specialist that got angry because the doctor sent me to him since i looked healthy
(This was before even checking me just by looking at me)
He checked the prostata by using a hand and said it was fine
that was all he said then sent me home no more test

again i lost faith in doctors and went on with the problems for 3-4 years until now

I want to add I had some problems long ago before this illness apeared some erection problems
that i got some kind of injection and med for and it got better
back then it felt like the mass inside penis was disapearing not making penis possible to get hard
after the injection and meds it felt like masses growed in penis again and made my erejection normal again
unfortunaly i forgot what Meds i was given for this

Now lately since like 1-2 years ago i do have some smale erection problems
I have to focus strongly on sex if not i loose erection but touching the penis will always make it hard right before orgasm , but this problem are very random some days i have this problem some days not

the problem however now 5-6 years after the first symptom apeared is the numbness and the big reduction of pleasure
i feel like 70-75% lesser pleasure and has reduced masturbation from once a day to like 2-3 a week because i dont feel the sexual need to do.

Also during ejaculation sometimes the semen just drips out not even shoot but with prolounged touching this help to get the ejaculation more normal

If i prolongue the foreplay for like 3-4 hours without ejaculating (yea i know that is very long)
by doing touch with pauses then sometimes i can feel good orgasm  but is still not feel the same as when i was healthy

The problem prolounging the foreplay is that the penis often swell very big so if i prolounge it too much without ejaculating the swelling itself will reduce the pleasure during orgasm and after i will have itching in/near anus or/and pubic hair.

Sometimes right before orgasm penis get over-sensative (like after a orgasm and you cannot touch again)
this again reduce the sensation during orgasm (again this is one of many symptoms and very random)

The last 6 months I felt the penis to be very Rigid (not like the skin is swelled but like the skin is streched)

some months ago another thing happened during touching i started to bleed from the penis
it seem there was a smale hole in a vein on the penis i had cold water on and it stopped bleading
but this scared me a bit

I have noticed that after orgasm the penis forehead feel sticky like there a tiny hole that some semen
comes out so far i have had no luck confirming this except for the blood comming from that vein on the forehead

also the veins on penis look like they are much older and are more curly than they use to be
the only part of the penis that is not afected of the numbness seem to be the highest top that join the gland with the forehead

The testicle also feel numb and a bit dry

There is so many symptoms i am sure i not name them all but i told the most importants.

What has helped me so far is prolounged foreplay since somehow it make the ejaculation stronger and then there is more pleasure (Except too long foreplay can sometimes swell the penis very big and it take 24 hours to get normal again this normaly happen after 3 hours of foreplay)

i think certain kind of food and drinks help but i have not confirmed which yet

I almost not get erection when waking up in the morning like i did before
i do get that sometimes but is now rare

there is now no pain,itching when peeing
however 4-5 years after the itching and redness in anus is still present
but is also random not often

is more common with itching in pubic hair after orgasm and the skin there is then red

Oh and many times after orgasm i feel pain in the lower part of my back on the left side mostly
and sometimes i got a smale short lasting pain over where the pubic hair is  (bladder?)

also after orgasm i sometimes get very tired
it feels like the tireness comes from testicles or prostate and make by whole body tired
after orgasm

As you can see there is so many symptoms
doctors here only give you 2-3 minuts for each person so not easy to explain all this
and then have time to get checked

private doctors are expensive and I can not afford private specialist if i am derived to them
so i probaly have to go through state doctors

Anyway any idea what my problem is

I suspect the thing moving as crazy in my penis was somesort of virus
the burning sensation i suspect the virus burning some nerves ?
and the numbness could be a result of that

is there anyway i can get my penis back to normal
i am so depressed because of this

Thanks for reading my story
sorry for bad spelling i am not native english