Body Development

[LoneWolfVamp]

So this is a rather embarrasing question to be asking, however I am worried about it so I better ask now.

I am 18 years old, however, I look like I am 13, I am not really that "developed" yet and it seems as if I am in stuck in the 3rd stage in the purberty scale. I am only about 5in maybe even smaller. I am not really that built, like I said I look like i am bloody 13. I wank/jackoff about once a day sometimes more depending on my mood or if I am really that bored. I know its stupid to wonder, but could me wanking everyday have something to do with me now growing as I should?

I am just wondering wtf is going on because it really depresses me because I am not large at all and not developed as well as I should be. Is there something I can do, what? Any conditions that cause this?

Its sad that I am afraid to have sex because of my size and I am bloody 18.

So any suggestions?

[auziez]

well, im 16, im bisexual , and well uhm yea i understand from your point that people usually want bigger, though no one ive been with really said they want bigger (im 6inches i think)..i wank at least once a day, probobly more if i can, and i dont think its efecting me but i always wonder how to get bigger.. so uhm i guess it doesnt effect anything. And id rather look younger than older (which right now i kinda am tall 6ft, and i kinda look mby a bit older) so i think ur a lucky (my preference is the smaller guyz than the larger ones)s

[lilmo20]

my mistake!  Sorry to assume!  But again, WHOEVER your partner is, if they REALLY love you, that won't be their first concern.  And maybe there is something a doctor can do.  I've seen things done on surgical shows, you never know.  It all depends on what the cause is and how far you're willing to risk your body for confidence.

[LoneWolfVamp]

Well i am not straight so thats why I am more worried about it. Size matters in the my wolrd. But yeah I will certianly make an appointment with the doctor because this is not really normal.

[lilmo20]

I'm pretty sure your extra-curricular activities are not affecting the size.  There is probably not much you can do about it.  If you're really concerned, make an appointment with your doctor and let them know your worries.  I can tell you from personal experience, it's NOT all about the size, so don't sweat it too much, okay?  If that's all you're worried about 24/7, then when the time comes, whatever lucky lady is with you will wonder why you're acting weird.

[drymouth]

Not to worry,  you won;t go blind.  However, doing that is not going to stunt the growth, or make it bigger.  I always heard, its not the size, butt how u use it.  Don;t be afraid,  there's many other ways to satisfy a partner,,do some research, and don;t be afraid to ask, some girls, maybe a friend.