Boyfriend, 22, not able to keep an erection. HELP!!!

[unhappysex]

I've been with my boyfriend for two years and our sex isn't horrible, but it a lot of the time is unsatisfying. He is 22 years old, mildly overweight, drinks moderately and smokes. He has had a past of some drug usage (weed, pharmacuticals), but has stopped. The problem is that he can barely keep an erection during sex and even when he's only consumed one alcoholic drink he cannot even get an erection.

On the off occasion that he can maintain an erection he only lasts during sex for at most 7 minutes, even when we change positions frequently.

It is so hard on both of us, because he is so discouraged for not being able to satisfy me sexually, as well as I am discouraged because I cannot arouse him enough to get an erection.

What could be the problem?
Please help...

[Dalubaba]

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[SixStringer]

For what it's worth, a group of sex counselors got together and decided that good sex lasts from 7 to 13 minutes.  Anything longer than that is carrying things on too long, and the quality goes down hill.  You can probably find this study somewhere on the Internet, if interested.  Of course, your boyfriend should quit smoking, exercise, and eat healthy, as many of us should, for his general health.  However, you might want to try something other than p-v intercourse if it is not working for either of you.  Is he ever satisfied sexually?  How long would it take for you to be satisfied, in general, if he were able to keep an erection?  If he would go the oral route, would that satisfy you?  These are questions to ask yourself to help you arrive at a solution.