Can we conceive a baby by stimulating penis by hand and inserting into vagina right before ejaculation?

[rajkum74]

I have a quick question for you. We are trying to conceive. I am having some problems in ejaculation (we think it is because of anxiety). Its kind of delayed ejaculation. We keep trying but it does not ejaculate for a long time and after some time, my penis becomes soft. Then we wait and then try again. Is it OK to stimulate the penis for sometime and when its time of ejaculation, insert my penis into the vagina (before semen comes out). Will the sperms be still alive and fertile?

Please let us know. We will be very thankful to you.

Take care.

Sunny

[PaulK9378]

Assuming that your sperm are normally healthy and in sufficient numbers, any way they find their way to the cervix is fine. Manual stimulation will not harm them.

[SixStringer]

This sounds like an innovative idea considering your situation and should give you some success.  Your partner might want to give you a daily hand job for a few days so that you both can see that everything is working properly by viewing the ejaculations and noting that they are strong enough.  Of course, you will want to enter into normal kissing and other foreplay before doing your plan and making sure your partner is properly lubricated.  

[ks78]

Hi,
I am also in a similar problem.
Its been like this for a couple of months now.
Ur idea seems to be worth trying.