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Cant hold it

Heyy,
So been having trouble lasting long during intercourse, started out using protection and could hold it for ever (had to stop cause started to hurt her). Then after a few times using protection we had unprotected intercourse, this time i couldn't hold it for long at all and man that snaps your confidence greatly, and ever since its been getting shorter, now when i go in i get the urge straight up. BUT when ever iv been drinking and am on the tipsy to drunk side i can again hold for ever (until she's ended up starting to hurt), and when I masturbate or she does to me i can also get no urges for quite sometime.

Soooo whats the dealio here? Help would be greatly appreciated.
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Look for condoms that say increase profomance on them like these http://www.durex.com/en-gb/products/condoms/pages/performa.aspx

you could also try try masturbating 5 mins b4 you have sex this will decrease the rush to climax during sex.

also if you go to early during sex, give urself 5 to 15 mins break (during this time give some foreplay or oral to your partner)  and you should be able to go again


when drunk, your testostirone levels drop and testicles shrink which is why you can last for ever while intoxicated, but if u get too drunk u could end up with e.d. for the night.
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Thanks for the relpy, and thanks for the advise.

But how can i help lasting longer without the us of condoms??
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