Hey, I'm 30 years old, and have a minor problem. I absolutely can not maintain an erection during intercourse first thing in the morning. It feel great, and my wife turns me on so easily, but if we try to make love first thing in the morning my erection will only last a couple minutes and goes away. Conversely, any other time we make love, afternoon, evening, whatever , I have no problems and my erection is strong and we can go for as long as we want, and even during that dreaded morning time if she gives just me oral my erection will be strong and will last until the "finish", but as soon as we try to have sex it goes away in no time. So why would I only have a problem during this one specific scenario? I'm so embarrassed to have to ask this and it makes me feel horrible, but it is causing her to think there is something wrong with her (she is overweight and very self conscious about it, but to me she is the most beautiful woman alive and I have no problems with her weight) and she is more important to me than all the pride in the world, so here I am swallowing my pride and looking for an answer. Thank you in advance for your wisdom.
This is common for men. Im the morning your body is not up and running full speed. Your still in rem sleep. To maintain the sexual stamina you need to be fully conscious and awake and have all your chemicals pumping. Ive experienced this most of my life.
It's weird that you can perform in the afternoon and not in the morning. Do u have some sort of "weird psychological" trip with sex in the morning? Mental beliefs and ideas can really damage an erection I'll tell you that...
Probably good off by inspecting those thoughts... Or maybe you just need some food boost to keep u goin in the morning.
Hi Derrick, try taken these for a while, I'm or these and more, for ed there just herbs and a hormon, but just leave out the hormon for now, at leaset for the next couple of years, yopu may find the boners you get will wake you up in the night, and some real good ones in the mornings.
But some things, simple things you could try are Cayenne, Garlic and Ginger.
OK the Cayenne mix in tomato paste and thin with olive oil, mix to a heat that suits you, this you take 3 small spoonfuls 3 times a day, the Garlic a whole head and cloves chopped very fine, again mix with olive oil, and take the same 3x3 as above, wash both down with water, and take on alternate days, and last the Ginger this I keep in the freezer, grate down a pile to the size of a large egg, put in a mug with a slice if lemon, either micro wave 30 sec or just add tea black or green, green is best for ED, add some honey, all the Cayenne, Garlic, Ginger, and the Green tea are all good for your blood and its flow down below and all should help with your erections, you can google them for more info, just add ED to them.
With this you could either try some Tribulus a herb ,or some DHEA a hormon, the DHEA you read up about, as it can have some funny side effects with the odd person, and they both will help with your testosterone, boost your libido and energy levels.
Look Iknow you say your testosterone is OK, but these are both well known help for ED.
The Tribulus takes around 8 weeks to get to full power, and start the DHEA low, 25mgs and buld it up to what you think suits you, and after the 8 weeks cut both down to 5 days out of 7, the reson for this if you keep taken 7 days a week, then they wont work the way we want them to, OK
If you can get hold of some herbal Tribulus, make a 2 pint tea pot with green tea and let it steep over night, and drink with Ginger, lemon and honey throught the next day, after the first 2 mugs refreash the pot to full with boiling water, and it will last the day well, or save some for the next day.
Thanks for the answers. No I don't have any mental problems or anxiety about morning sex, well not till recently anyhow, but I can tell you in the mornings it's like my entire body is weaker. I have very little strength, no energy at all and just feel around blah in the a.m. I thought maybe my lack of energy was either the problem, or caused by the same problem and I guess I hoped maybe there was some kind of magic vitamins or something to help me out. Thanks again Oh, thank you "NOHARD" for the suggestions, but whatever I do I really need to try to keep it on the down low from the wife so she don't know I'm making this big a deal out of this, and that many doses of that kind of stuff i could never keep secret, and she may get angry if I have to admit to her I went online and talked about this :-(
Hi Derrick, The one person you need be straight with is your wife, she is the one you do love, so now is the time to tell her, just say you thought you was having a problem and been on line looking for answers without trying to upset her, and when you had found some you were going to sit with her and discuss them with her, she must have noticed something wrong when making love first thing in the morning, all the things I've suggested will help down below, and the tribulus should help with the early morning low and should start giving you some good early morning woods, and if like me even wake you up in the night.
But first get it straight with the wife, make that part good and a good sex life.
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