Ejculating early

[lanli]

hi,i cant seem hold it in that long,just a min or 2 then i ejaculate.any help.
me and my girl just started having sex this last few weeks so anything would be helpfull.
thanks.

[monkeyflower]

Rapid ejaculation is usually due to anxiety. The best advice I could give you is to slow down. While you're masturbating, tune into your body, and pay close attention to how it feels when you start to get aroused, when you get ready to come, etc. When you identify the sensations and triggers, you can learn when to stop as needed. I would also get a copy of "Great Sex," by Michael Castleman. Awesome book, and I think you'd get a lot out of it.

[otot_mu_bahu]

we always hear that rapid ejaculation is the cause of anxiety. but on the other side, this is not the case, since this is also due to over exitement or prolonged stimulation (oral).

however, don't loose hope u can still avoid it.

but when think that oral stimulation rapids your ejaculation, try to minimize this phase.  but make sure that your partner gets enough of it, then that's the time you can get inside her.

when you're inside her and you feel that you are gonna explode, hold that feeling...stop for a while.

think of something that would distract your concentration.  then when you feel that it has subsided, bomb again.

.

[otot_mu_bahu]

we always hear that rapid ejaculation is the cause of anxiety. but on the other side, this is not the case, since this is also due to over exitement or prolonged stimulation (oral).

however, don't loose hope u can still avoid it.

but when think that oral stimulation rapids your ejaculation, try to minimize this phase.  but make sure that your partner gets enough of it, then that's the time you can get inside her.

when you're inside her and you feel that you are gonna explode, hold that feeling...stop for a while.

think of something that would distract your concentration.  then when you feel that it has subsided, bomb again.

.