Hello all,
Just need some advice. I've met a great girl about a month ago and we started off having great sex.
A week or so ago we went out for some fun and ended up doing drugs. Bad i know but we did MDMA and cocaine. We went back to have sex and then I was unable to get an erection. The next morning I managed to get an erection and sleep with her but later that day after trying again I had a problem with getting it again.
Since then i'm not sure what it is but I feel like I now have trouble getting erections. I have managed to get them on my own but I feel like the next time i'm with her it will happen again and this is worrying me a lot.
I've never had a problem in the past, it never even crossed my mind. They just happened.
I've been taking supplements such as ginseng, horny goat weed etc and I manage to wake up with solid erections but feel like i'm also having problems getting it as hard as it was and it will go down while i'm with her next.
Any advice would be great.
Thanks
This is how most erectile dysfunction problems start. One random distraction (in your case, drug) which causes loss of erection. Then the mind becomes so focused on that problem happening again, you are no longer focused on the subjects which are naturally arousing to your body.
Take your focus off your penis by focusing on how good it feels to be with your girlfriend then enjoy the feelings in your penis.