Your wife is no longer interested in sex "...and that is why I have 2 friends on the side"? I hate to see a grown man blame another person for a choice that he had the free will to make or to resist. Your wife changed a very important aspect of your marriage, but what you chose to do about it says something about you. Presumably nobody held a gun to your head and robbed you of your integrity and forced you to cheat. Is this interesting choice OK with your wife? If not (or if it would not be if she knew), for pete's sake get real and tell her it is time to end the marriage. It is perfectly reasonable to end a marriage over not having any sex. It's immature to lie, blame, and cheat, all to keep the marriage stuck in an unsatisfactory place. By sneaking around, you've shut the door on anyone fixing things. If they are unfixable, at least if you were both free, you could seek happier lives.
That happened to me and my wife is 10 years younger than me, and that is why I have 2 friends on the side! Oh..and my wife just turned 36.
Sheez, what a thing to say, "Focus on your old age." My husband became a father at 67 for the first time. Good thing I didn't suggest he focus on his old age.
Please ask your wife if she is feeling all right physically, and have a heart-to-heart talk with her about whether she is happy in the marriage. (Not with the hardness of the penis, but with the dotingness of your connection.) I am not aware of anyone ready to give up on sex at 63 if they are happy with their partner's emotional connection to them.
Hi,
I agree, you should convice your wife about the agelessness of sexual life. Also remember that healthy sexual life is essential for better general health. Try to spend more leisurely time together.
Solace
try to convince your spouse thats the best thing you can do xoxo