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How come he cant stay hard?
Okay, now before I tell you anything, I don't want any rude comments about how we are too young. I've heard enough of that and one more person telling me, isn't going to change anything.. Sorry, I don't mean to come off as a biatch...
Anyways, he's 18 and I'm 16 and we have had sex for over a year now. We were both virgins and our first time was with each other. It is always so amazing the first time, but artery that, he can't stay hard.. he usually can the first time, sometimes the second.. but if we try anything after that, he can't stay hard.. we've tried blowjobs, anal sex, watching porn together, everything. We were just wondering if theres something wrong with him or is this a common thing?
Anyways, he's 18 and I'm 16 and we have had sex for over a year now. We were both virgins and our first time was with each other. It is always so amazing the first time, but artery that, he can't stay hard.. he usually can the first time, sometimes the second.. but if we try anything after that, he can't stay hard.. we've tried blowjobs, anal sex, watching porn together, everything. We were just wondering if theres something wrong with him or is this a common thing?
Thanks you guys :) and we could wait two hours before trying again, but he still can't...
That is normal get used to it. But if you are getting twice to three times in one sitting then you guys are lucky! Really. Wait until you are 30 or 40...or more and more than once is a dream.
Normally, after one orgasm or ejaculation, one requires half an hour to one hour to 're-arouse' himself. Perineum massage may help to hasten arousal. Perineum is a triangular muscle between anus and scrotum.
Hi,
Yes, it is natural with many men, they do have a refractory period to get back to form after an ejaculation. In fact, they switch from a climax during ejaculation to an anticlimax following it so that they can not enjoy any sex immediately. If you Google for 'refractory period after male orgasm ', you will get more details. I believe, it is the way the body is ensuring that the males do not lose vital body fluids from their body by ejaculating too often.
Solace
Yes, it is natural with many men, they do have a refractory period to get back to form after an ejaculation. In fact, they switch from a climax during ejaculation to an anticlimax following it so that they can not enjoy any sex immediately. If you Google for 'refractory period after male orgasm ', you will get more details. I believe, it is the way the body is ensuring that the males do not lose vital body fluids from their body by ejaculating too often.
Solace
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