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I really need some help... 21 years old...
by archaen, Nov 06, 2009 12:19AM
Hi.
I've read most of the threads on here but I wanted one specific to my case to ask specific questions.
I'm 21 years old. I have probably masturbated 1.5-2x a day since I was 14. I watch porn, and I can make myself ejaculate pretty quickly. My erection while watching porn seems to be OK.
Recently I've been having sex with this girl and I have found that for some reason my erection is not hard enough to penetrate. Like I will feel a strong erection, put on a condom, and then when I try to penetrate my penis is just not hard enough. Then it becomes soft, and hard again, but never really hard enough to penetrate. I was able to penetrate once for like two minutes and then it became soft again. The first two times we had sex I had masturbated a few hours before, and I had been drinking so I thought that might be the cause for why my erection was not strong enough. But we just tried to have sex tonight and I had the same problem, and I was sober.
I feel like my penis has been desensitized or something. When she is giving me oral sex, it is absolutely nothing like I imagined it would be. Like... it isn't even really enjoyable. While some of this might be attributed to the fact that she is 18 and probably inexperienced, and I don't have anyone else to compare it to, it's really disappointing.
I have a couple questions:
Has anyone on this board experienced something similar (and FIXED this?)
Should I see a doctor? (would something like Viagra help?)
If I stop masturbating will I become normal again?(this will be hard but it must be done)
Thank you for your time... I need to fix this.
I've read most of the threads on here but I wanted one specific to my case to ask specific questions.
I'm 21 years old. I have probably masturbated 1.5-2x a day since I was 14. I watch porn, and I can make myself ejaculate pretty quickly. My erection while watching porn seems to be OK.
Recently I've been having sex with this girl and I have found that for some reason my erection is not hard enough to penetrate. Like I will feel a strong erection, put on a condom, and then when I try to penetrate my penis is just not hard enough. Then it becomes soft, and hard again, but never really hard enough to penetrate. I was able to penetrate once for like two minutes and then it became soft again. The first two times we had sex I had masturbated a few hours before, and I had been drinking so I thought that might be the cause for why my erection was not strong enough. But we just tried to have sex tonight and I had the same problem, and I was sober.
I feel like my penis has been desensitized or something. When she is giving me oral sex, it is absolutely nothing like I imagined it would be. Like... it isn't even really enjoyable. While some of this might be attributed to the fact that she is 18 and probably inexperienced, and I don't have anyone else to compare it to, it's really disappointing.
I have a couple questions:
Has anyone on this board experienced something similar (and FIXED this?)
Should I see a doctor? (would something like Viagra help?)
If I stop masturbating will I become normal again?(this will be hard but it must be done)
Thank you for your time... I need to fix this.
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by archaen, Nov 08, 2009 01:25PM
To: myself
bump!
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