Is there a possibility of too much masterbation

[fungolfgirl]

I recently started dating a man and I am unable to get him hard. He masterbates a lot by himself, and he can get an erection when I am there and he touches himself. I dont knows what I can do to help. I have tried performing oral, by stroking him the way he does, nothing! I am a highly sexual woman. Is this a hopeless situation?

[jml1986]

There has to be something you can do that can turn him on. I think it just may take some work but hopefully you will find success.

[crazywillie]

Masturbation gets talked about quite a bit on this forum, to me there is no substitute to making love to a woman, I suggest you ask your partner to leave himself alone for a while to see if that helps.

Looking at it from another point of view the problem may be in your partners head, I remember taking two weeks to achieve an oirgasm inside a woman when I first met her, I guess I was used to my previous partner, eventually we resorted to extreme measures, there were guys working in the street outside our bedroom window, we opened the curtains and I reached an orgasm in just a couple of minutes, no the guys could not see us but just the notion that they could was enough to do the job, why am I telling you this? I guess there are things that can go on in a persons head that can interfere with his sex organs.

I had this problem with every new partner I had, I could never have a one night stand, it would have been a total waste of time.

[SeriousSam]

Depending how much a lot is, yes it could make a difference.  Particularly depending on how good his physical condition is.