Masturbation

Hi, I am 24 and I used to masturbate daily for past 5 years, some days back me & my girl had sex first time and I was unable to ejaculate. Please also note that I masturbate by lying down on stomach and rub my organ against mattress. Is there something wrong ?? Please help.

[Punkinhead75]

Hi Sameer,

Sometimes we get used to having an orgasm by doing a particular thing for long enough that it becomes the only way we can get off.  Since this was your first time with her maybe you were just a little nervous.  I have had times where I didn't have an orgasm.  I didn't worry too much about it though.

[harrald]

Another young man just reported the same position to masturbate and that he could not ejaculate. He also thinks he may have damaged his penis and testicles. I do not know how this position for masturbating is suppose to improve ejaculation. It appears to me that you are placing too much pressure on your penis and testicles, and may interfere with the mechanical process involved for ejaculation. In your case, I think you achieved such success from masturbation, your brain may not give orders to your penis to ejaculate with a girl. Let me explain: There is a saying, "Man's sex organ is between his ears."  It is like you have to return to the old ways of having sex where you romance the girl and become aroused  and enter her and ejaculate. Masturbation is a very private act where you concentrate on bringing total pleasure to yourself and you do not have to concentrate on helping a sex partner reach organism.

This is just one opinion, and other people should supply different answers for you to choose.

Harrald