Pain on arousal

[CuriousAboutMe]

I first observed this after I got a girl friend. We dont have penetrative sex yet but do fondling and a bit of oral. After an hour or so it starts to pain around the groin area around the testicles and doesnt stop till some time after ejaculation.

Is it not proper to hold back for long time after arousal? Will it cause any problems later? I have also observed this when I dont ejaculate for some days, say a week and get aroused.

TIA

[grounded]

you need some intensive training

[CuriousAboutMe]

What sort of training?

[sunseeker]

I just guessing here, but it sounds like your groin muscles and tendons are just a little fatigued by prolonged erections.  I wouldn't worry about it unless it's persistent without the erection.

Try not to stay hard for so long.  If you're really into foreplay or don't want to have intercourse,  then go ahead and ejaculate and let it get hard again while you pleasure her orally or manually.  

[RiverPhoenix]

I have just end a 9 year relationship and have just started seeing a new person and we have tried to have sex twice and both times I can not get my self to become hard for a long time, but I also had this same problem with my 9 year relationship.  Just want to know if anyone knows why this is happen.

[girlfromtrain]

This has been going on since July. Boyfriend in late 60's. Really desperate due to pain in center groin and testicles at first. Ruining quality of life has an appt. w/urologist but not for 2 mos. What do you think it could be?