Pre Cum or what?

[JoshX]

Hey guys..  
My little brother and I had a talk 2 days ago about his problems..he was saying that whenever he kisses a girl his boxers get "wet"(just a little ,he doesn't ejaculate) and doesn't get a "hard-on".I didn't really know what to tell him . He masturbates a lot without a problem , but watches a lot of porn.. Could porn be the problem? Is it something physically or mentally?  


Thanks

[monkeyflower]

Yep, it's pre-ejaculate, and perfectly normal when he gets aroused (and for teenagers, kissing or even just holding hands or talking to someone you're interested in is plenty arousing ;-)).

As for not getting hard, that could be a result of anxiety, or not having optimal arousal, or whatever. Not all guys automatically get hard with any contact. Porn is unlikely to be a problem, unless it becomes the only way he can get aroused or get off (generally speaking, the more options you have sexually, the better). If that's the case, it's no big deal; just lay off the porn a little and work instead on increasing his awareness of his own arousal/turnons/fantasy.

[carlos790]

ok heres the deal, im 15 years old, athletic, healthy, and have a 17 year old girlfriend. While we kiss intensily or just normaly i tend to get my boxers wet. I do not get an orgasm or ejaculate but just drip dop kinda stuff. Sometime when she goes down my pants i have a feeling she realizes that my boxers are wet before handjobs, etc. Is this PREMATURE EJACULATION, i need help... (note : i am uncircumized.... could this problem be from masterbating (masturbating) too much?

[carlos790]

please hlp!

[carlos790]

still no help?! Please?

[sugarpea013]

You will have better luck if you start your own thread instead of hijacking someone elses.

[blueeyedboy192002]

pre *** is normal, some guys pre *** heaps some dont, i am cut and i don't know guys who pre *** **** loads and its natural....its not premature ejaculation as that is when you *** very quickly., pre *** is like a release of seamen as an over build up, you probably don't even know you are doing it till you feel the wet sticky bits touch your skin...

nothing you can do about it either, its just something that happens to people... its natural.

circumcision and non circumcision means nothing

[carlos790]

thanx brooooooooooooo