Hello Joshua. It's fairly common. There are different treatments available, that's the good side of all this. I'm from Philly myself and I heard on the radio of this new center that opened up. It's by Dr. Gittens. I think it's called Philadelphia Center for Sexual Medicine. Maybe give them a call. See what they can offer. Good luck, man.
"Premature ejaculation" is quite common. Of course, it all depends upon how long you think you should last or want to last. However, the timing of an ejaculation is often not easily controlled once you reach the point of no return. With research, one can find information on delaying the orgasm, and some of the suggestions may work for you.