Question about an interesting situation...

[j12345]

One day I was sitting with my girlfriend in her basement. I got sexually aroused and may have had a pre-ejaculatory drip due to my arousal. There was a wet round spot on my pants. She was like "Whats that?" and touched it, there was NO ejaculation. She (at least an hour later)touched her vagina *possibly* with that hand. She claimed she had in itch, and she never went "up". Well a little over 48 hours after this happened, I "fingered" her, and now am worried that she might get pregnant. Note up until today, when the fingering happened, we have both bathed since, and actually just came in from swimming in a pool. Am I in a bad spot? I'm only 16 and a good christian and don't want to screw myself over,I know this will likely drive me to abstinance for sure however.  

Please help me :(

[tlh777]

calm down and relax.the chances of getting someone pregnant from any of what you described are probably one in a billion or less.

[cyndy_07]

it's always better to be safe than sorry so if you are not going to be a complete "good christian" then use protection....oh and by the way, she cannot get pregnant like that, so relax and think things through next time. better luck next time.

[banter]

It is actually refreshing to hear something like this coming from a 16 year old.  Here I was thinking that anyone and everyone over the age of 13 were sure to have had multiple sex partners by then!  (It is certainly a different age than when I was a teenager back in the.... well, a long long time ago!)

But yes, as others said, what you described would present an extremely low risk of pregnancy.  One thing I would like to say, however (drawing on my own experience).  Sex is like a drug to a teenager.  Once you get started it is hard to stop and, as with drugs, you always want more and more.  You might think you will be okay with just sexually playing with each other but - no risk there at all right?  But before you know it, you'll be having full-blown sex - possibly leading to an unexpected pregnancy.  For the Christian teen, it is much better to not even tempt fate in this area.  If need be, don't allow yourselves to be alone together.  Date in groups with other Christian friends.  You might think such steps and precautions crazy.  But trust me - sex is like a very powerful "drug" and it is all too easy to succumb to its lure.  It is great inside of marriage but can lead to great troubles outside of marriage.

You might want to go to Amazon.com (or a local library) and check out some pro-abstinence books, such as this one (oriented towards females) -

http://www.amazon.com/Truth-about-School-Senior-Girls/dp/0970883102/ref=pd_bbs_sr_1/105-1270987-4661228?ie=UTF8&s=books&qid=1183742547&sr=1-1