Question about erections

[blackrose]

I have a question it is for my brpther-in-law.He has been having problems with getting an erection for about a year.My sister is wanting answers,but I don't know what to say.He is all so having problems with his heart and his prostate.He has another test done in December,the blood test to check his psa levels.The last time he had the test they where high.His heart has a leaky heart valve,and is weak.I was wanting to know if it is his heart or prostate.I was thinking it might be both.He had a lot of urinary tract infections at the first of this year and had to be hosptalized two times.That is when they started thinking about his prostate.Do any of you guys know what is is caused by?Is it both or just one.Thanks

[who_dis]

Try having him watch some porn.

If that doesn't do the trick, then it's probably his prostate.

[who_dis]

BTW, JJety told me to say that.

[JJety]

*GASP!!!*

[who_dis]

Oh, sorry.  It wasn't you.

*offers oreo kindly*

[JJety]

Why thank you.  It isn't tainted with anything, is it?

[sparkeler]

You seem overly concerned about your brother in law.  I would die if my sister told me her husband couldn't get it up.  TMI.  I don't want to know that.

[blackrose]

I hear about it every day,thats why I posted on the mens forum.Hoping to get replies from men who have gone through this or going through this.I was going to email her the comments so that she would stop asking me and telling me about it.I am only looking for answers to get her off my back!

[JoAnnaRF]

It all sounds way too wierd for me. I have seen you post about your sister's husband before, and I gotta tell ya, it is just off the wall.
You know WAY too much about this man. And for someone that supposedly just wants to quiet her sister, you seem to entertain her and her problems A LOT. If you honestly didn't want to be bothered by their VERY personal relationship/physical problems then you could simply tell her that it is inappropriate for them to discuss these things with you and that you would like to have a more appropriate relationship with them that doesn't involve her husband's prostate or ability to perform.

[blackrose]

I do have eyes for my hubby only.My hubby asked me to do this.He looks on this website to,he saw the mens health forum.My hubby is all so concerned for our brother-in-law.Its not just me.We both know all about it,I tell him every thing,we have a great relationship.My hubby feels sorry for our BIL.There is just so much that is wrong with our BIL.He has a leaky heart valve,and all so maybe prostate cancer.Hubby wants my sister to stop asking me questions and telling me things,because he knows that I don't feel comfortable with the discussions.There is a lot more to there relationship,that I haven't talked about.Like how she doesn't cook or clean house.Our bil does all of it.He isn't suppose to do anything.That is another reason he want let her go out.Because she says she don't feel like cooking or cleaning but feels like running the roads.My sister has all so changed a lot since she had her breast reduction.She flirts with my son-in-law,and my step daughter doesn't like that.She all so flirts with there friend,and he doesn't feel comfortable about it ,because he knows that she is married.My BIL has put up with a ton of **** from her,she didn't know who she loved him or her ex-hubby.She went for my BIL because he worked,and made money and would buy her anything.Our BIL is now disabled,he doesn't have money like he use to,and she doesn't like that.She is all ready talking about him dying and finding a new man.She thinks he is going to die,because of his leaky heart valve.I have told her it can be fixed,because they found out about it soon.As for the prostsate cancer he want know,until his next PSA blood test.See there is a whole lot more than I told you.My BIL doesn't even know I did this,and when and if he finds out,he will ask my sister why didn't she do this for him.She doesn't even act like she cares for him no more.How would you feel,if your husband was like this or in my case BIL,and you knew that there wife could care less about them.I think you would feel like I do,because nobody on this earth should be treated this way.Maybe you can understand now?He took my sister and her baby in,he even wanted to adopt her son,and he did.She doesn't even want to have anything to do with her granddaughter,well stepgranddaughter to her.She use to want to have her come up all the time and spend the night with her.Now she calls her a smartass.She doesn't sound like much of a grandma does she?All she cares about is sex.She wants her husband to hurry up and die so that she can go to clubs and bars,and meet men.That is how my sister is now.Thats what she emails me now,about what she is going to do,after he dies.She isn't worried about if he can get it up now,because she planning a new life with out him.What do you think about all of this,new information that I spilled on the Mens Health Forum,just so that you will get the bigger picture now.

[JoAnnaRF]

Sounds like your sister needs some serious work. And just because she doesn't want to be a proper wife to him doesn't mean that you have to take on that chore. You didn't marry him. I stand by what I said before, for your own sanity, tell them to keep all of their mess in their own backyard, that it is none of your business. You have to focus on your own home and family. Not that your husband is unhappy, but imagine how much happier he'd be if you placed all of your love and concern in his direction. Worrying about your sister and BIL is taking away from you and your life. You are so upset by all of their "stuff" and I hope you can find a way to gain some joy and happiness behind your own front door.

[pricej]

That is some info you gave everyone. I haven't read your other post but it semms like you have something agianst your sister. You say you do not want her to bug you with all her problems but you posted the question on this site to get responses to email to her wich if I were your sister I would think you were trying to help me and I could keep comming back for more advise. The reason I say you have something agianst your sister is because you talk very deeply about her and not in a good way. I am not judging you because I do not know you and your sisters relationship. I understand you are trying to be helpful to your brother in law because you care about him (and I care about mine) but there is a line that should be drawn, he might read into a different way than you attend for him to. I can tell you care about him and his health but it might be better if you do some research on some clinics and doctors that can help him and email those to her. She might get mad if you email this to her now. I hope everything goes well for him and for you.

[misslollipop]

any problem,s with the heart or prostate, can have a direct on having an erection

[juswanano]

If your bil is on medication for blood pressure, these meds can keep him from having an erection, as well as a lot of other meds.

[YRAtomic]

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