Rules of attraction

[chapo]

Guys, has anyone else found that when you are with a female partner the opposite sex seem to find you more interesting than when you are single.  I can't figure this out, the more women you have the more you can get, it builds up on you.  When you are single again it is a drout.  This whole area o attraction is fascinating but hard to follow.
Secondly, what is the best way to treat female body language in the courting areena, I'd especially like to hear a female perspective on this.  If you read the popular books on this and compare to real life situations it seems contradictory.  All opinions welcomed.

[Silly_but_Cute]

Hey you want what you can't have. We like to be better then the girl your already with it's all about winning the game. If there's no chick there's no point that's how some look at it. Shallow girls think like this or really young ones. Go to Help.com. See the big difference of ages and how they talk. The teens are me me me. I'm Miss?????? in  there. Yes I help teens some but mostly guys trying to get their old love back. The site has sex,drug,love and even home improvement help in there. Sign up for free and start posting today. I'm a girl with the very big smile in dating and love. Hope to see you there!

[siren of the sea]

i suppose it all depends on the age of the woman. myself being in my mid 30's find a man attractive by character and maturity. what i mean is does he treat woman with respect. does he work haha. not smothering. you can only be yourself. its not easy to read our language at times if its in a bar. yes there are droughts but it could be where you are meeting women. when i was single the men in my age group wanted 20 somethings. the early 20 somethings wanted an older woman. the 40 year olds were wanting whatever they could get. and the dirty 50 and sixty year olds just wanted to be nasty haha. i dont mean this is the norm for all by no means. just what i experienced. i dont know if this gives any information to you or not. good luck to you finding ms right or whatever your interested in!!

[star queen]

Women are a varied lot.  Some women, like men, just want a good looking partner on her arm.  If you have a good looking female on your arm, you must be "straight" so it's okay to "go for it". If you are alone, there must be something wrong with you, or you are gay, especially if you are out with the "guys". Some women are very competitive and get a kick out of taking you away from someone else to prove to themselves that they are "better" than other women. They want to prove to themselves that they can "have any guy they want".  These women will often make bets with their friends to see how long it will take them to get somthing out of the guy.  It may be a phone number, date, gift, etc.  Some women like to go after men who are "taken" just for fun. Some are just out for a "good time" and want a relationship without strings. They will put up with seeing you on the sly because the danger of getting caught adds to the "fun".  When they are found out, they leave the relationship because it just isn't exciting any more.  These types of women are the ones to avoid because they are users. good luck