Suffering from involuntary/spontaneous orgasms

Im 28 years old and for a few years now I’ve been suffering from almost daily spontaneous dry orgasms. Many may think this is actually a great thing but it’s not. I hate it. And it happens almost every single day. Before the last few years, I’ve had nocturnal orgasms like every once in a while with actual emissions. That didn’t really bother me that much. Now I NEVER have any emission but like I said it happens almost every day. It almost always happens just before I wake up and when it doesn’t (which is rare), it happens during the day behind my desk  at the office, while I am wide awake. Those orgasms are also very short and don’t feel nearly as strong as regular orgasms from having sex or masturbating. It almost feels like someone is flipping a switch in my brain. Now It might not be so bad if it didn’t affect my personal life but it does, severely.

As a result of these ‘’orgasms’’ my libido is very low. Almost non-existent. I also used to be a pretty funny and sharp guy but that’s also gone now. I cannot enjoy music or watching movies or any other activities as much as I used to. I don’t even care for regular social contact with friends or family anymore. I lost my girlfriend because I just don’t care about it anymore. I just can’t be myself anymore. And before all this got started, I lead a pretty good life and I loved spending time with friends and what not. Now all that is gone, and I’m pretty damn depressed about that. Does anyone know what the hell is wrong with me and how I can change this? Because I’m really fed up with it. thanks

I did read this but the solutions dont help: http://healthmad.com/conditions-and-diseases/spontaneous-or-involuntary-orgasm-during-sleep-treatment/

[boyblue]

Have you had your prostate checked ? It could be going into spasms- this could be due to an enlarged prostate- nerve damage... you should def go to a urologist

[Dennis051]

hi boyblue. I dont really feel any spasms. It starts with some kind of sensation in my stomach followed by a sensation in my brain which immediately brings me in that low libido/ mildly depressive state of mind. I almost feel dumber, especially verbally, after that happens. And it remains that way all day until it happens again the next day. It really ***** bigtime. are u sure it could be something like nerve damage? how does that just suddenly occur? thanks.