What do men really think about Asymmetrical Labia (minora)

I am so embarrassed about my Labia. It’s asymmetrical. One is longer than the other. It’s getting to the point where I can’t sleep at night. I remember at a very young age, I had scissors in my hand ready to cut them off. Ever since I watched Labiaplasty surgery on ‘Embarassing Bodies’ I can’t stop thinking about how I can fix it. It gets uncomfortable at times, especially when you wear jeans.  I’ve looked into getting labiaplasty done but obviously the cost is a problem especially being a student and working part time. I’ve stopped myself from being sexually active in the past, I’m 21 now and recently had oral sex, the guy noticed I was uncomfortable and asked me ‘what I was ashamed of’. I’m just scared the next guy that comes along will say something about it. What do guys honestly think about uneven labia? I hate the fact that women in the porn industry have perfectly shaped ones!!

[AntiHelium]

Honestly, I would say that 99% of men don't really care if the labia is symmetrical at all or not. There's really no need to worry about it since you did have oral sex and the guy you were with seemed more interested in pleasuring you rather than looking at your labia (since you said he asked what you were ashamed of). If I were you, I'd honestly try to not think about it and if you're really uncomfortable talk about it with your boyfriend before you have sex. I'll guarantee you he doesn't care if it's not like a porn star, since he's interested in you no matter what.

[beb21]

Oh thanks so much!!! I feel better hearing this :)

[makomboki]

i love the labia whether symmentrical or asymmetrical.

i wish  you were my gal friend

[beb21]

LOL!