Why am I losing my erection immediately after penetration?

[reallyconfused79]

I recently became sexually active with a girl I've been dating for a few weeks. The first time we tried to have sex was after an incredibly exhausting weekend of work and it took several attempts and a few hours for me to finally be able to perform. Since then however, I have been losing my erection almost immediately after penetration. I am incredibly attracted to this girl and I have no problem getting hard during foreplay. The last 2 attempts that have been made have also been the most physically intense orgasmic feeling I have ever had but I went soft and didn't ejaculate. The 1st of the prior 2 times my whole body was having spasms and I had hardly any balance when I tried to get up and then tonight when we tried I was hard as a rock, we started, I had the crazy intense feeling again, went soft and then my hands locked up like t-rex arms. Why is this happening? I'm a 33 year old man in good health and I'm about to or may have already lost the most beautiful and amazing girl I've met in a while because I can't keep it up.

[NOHARD]

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Good Luck

[SkaterDave]

Well, it's easy to say "don't worry about it" but obviously it's not that easy.  Many men suffer from erectile problems soley from the state of their mind.  For you, this woman is more beautiful and amazying than any you've met in a while so the pressure's on.  You may not feel it directly or maybe you do, but with what she represents to you it's totally common to loose your erection in those moments.  I'm very open with my friends about life's issues and two of my best buds have this type of issue although for slightly different reasons.  The base reason is the same though. You aren't comfortable enough to keep it.  There's something about penetration that is different from kissing and stuff when you get hard the first time.  My advice, laugh it off as best you can.  Feel free to state to her in as nonchalant and/or manly way you can that it's just because youlike her a lot and it'll take you just a bit to feel completely comfy.  Women are all over understanding that kind of stuff, believe me.  Just give yourself time and it'll be fine.