Why doesn't he want me more?

[Cafemom]

Help!

I am a 25 year old woman and have been married to my 26 year old husband for four years. For as far back as I can remember, he has had a VERY low sex drive for such a young guy. I had very little sexual experinces before him, so I didn't really realize it until later on. I have gently approached him about the issue, and he said that he has never had a history of any kind of abuse. He also confirmed that he finds me very attractive. What  is going on here? Could it be some sort of imbalance? We are both too young to being going through this! I am so frustrated and feel so unwanted, that I have considered leaving him. What can I do to fix this problem? I am desperate for answers!

[crazywillie]

Prem ejeculation may be his problem, 1 minute Wow, I had a friend that had the same problem, the doctor told him to masturbate about 1-2 hours before making love to his Wife, it worked, they both have a good sexual relationship now.

As far as your Hubby having a low sex drive, well my Wife is the same, I asked my doctor to give me something to stop me from getting sexy, he asked me to take my Wife to see him and he gave her an injection, that worked like a dream until someone told her she may get a lot of facial hair, she gave ita miss when she found that out.

The reason I mentioned my Wifes situation was maybe they have some kind of patch or injection to help males gain more libido.

Hope you can get your problem worked out, not very nice being at the prime of your life, I feel sure your husband must love you, after all he still thinks you are attractive.

You could also pop your question on another board, try.

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[Cafemom]

As I was saying(sorry,I sent it my mistake) he is emotionally distant with me during sex. Also, has an orgasm in about 1 min.from start to finish. I want to be patient and loving to him, but I get very frustrated sometimes.Going to the doc is the next step. Thanks for the advice!

[frustratedman]

Send him to an endocrinologist to get a panel done on his hormones.  you didn't say if he ever has any problems during sex or not, also.

[Justaguy73]

Also depression can cause lack of desire. Just a thought. It happens to alot of people.

[tlh777]

maybe you should ask him to go to a doctor for a hormone test and you both should get marriage counselling.you should also be trying other forms of sex.you can enjoy being touched by him and showing him how you like to be touched and you can have oral sex with him.and you might also buy a few sex toys that you can share with him.