erectile dysfunction...need answers...please help!

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I'm 30 yrs old, physically fit and good looking. I have no problem meeting women. I'm only saying that because even though I have those attributes, I've suffered from ED for most of my life.

I was with a girl for 6 yrs from when I was 18 until almost 22. During that time I barely had erection problems with her. After we broke up, no matter who I was with, or what they did, I couldn't keep it up.

For the past 8 yrs, I have lost great girls because of my problem. Since viagra came out, I have been using it until recently trying cialis. I've had 1 relationship where I told the girl of my problem. I ended up getting better with her over time, but it never went away.

I used to masterbate frequently, especially after the 6 yr relationship. Up until recently I have cut back, but its been very hard for me to break the habit. I do it a couple times a week now, and its always been to pornography. I've been to counseling for it. I know porn has a great deal to do with my problem as sex is very stressful for me. Looking at porn is almost better. I know that sounds crazy, but believe me, I want this to change and have been doing everything I can to do so.

My main question is, will stopping porn and masterbating (masturbating) actually restore my natural function (erection)? I know some of it is mental too, but I do get occasional morning erections, and some at other times as well, and always while masterbating (masturbating). Is it worth seeing a urologist, or does my problem sound obvious?

[marra]

hi , i think its an anxiety problem , maybe go back to see a counsilor , if your break up was bad or a shock for you it could be you need help to get over her ! you just need to build your confidence up as the more you think about it the worse it will become , please get some help x x

[freakin-natural]

i dont mean to be pushy but.. why do u have those "x x" in ur end line? -tnx.

[marra]

im a woman !  kisses mean good luck , maybe i should stop them it may confuse folk ?? x x

[freakin-natural]

no! its ok.  i was just asking. anyways, keep up the good job.  you're a great adviser and im a fan of you or that.

god bless

[scorpio1104]

Well, that sounds a lot like what otot_mu_bahu would have said!  Check out the "to mara" post below.  You need to come up with some different replies so as not to confuse your identities.  

[freakin-natural]

where in the word did you came from>?? just signed in eh?!! if i were you old lady better stop monitoring me or anyone here.. ur aint inspector gadget.  gago.. tnx

[scorpio1104]

Not only do you have multiple personalities (that talk to one another), but you're also psychic??  How'd you know I was an old lady?  You're amazing and such a "good adviser".
So, what's with the threat that "better stop monitoring me or anyone here"?  Ummm......what's going to happen?  Are you going to send one of your other personalities to come after me?  All I have to say is I hope you're busy creating new accounts, because you'll soon be gone (all of you).  I hope it's all worth it to you after investing all this time.  When you come back as someone else, you may want to think about changing your style of writing.....and learn to spell while you're at it.  

[Trialanderror]

Wasn`t me this time. I really only have one persona...