gay???

My best friends husband has been periodically looking a gay porn online.  On most occasions, it is mixed in w/female porn or lesbian.  He has done this on and off for several years.  She recently began tracking again, and realized he has been having conversations w/gay men in chat rooms online.

When he was about 10 years old, two older boys attacked him, pinned him up against a wall, and pulled down his pants....he hasn't disclosed any more.  He explains his interest in this as a way to understand why those boys did this to him when he was young.

Do straight men look at gay porn for any reason?????
Please help.

[tlh777]

it could be that he is asking gay men if they were abused.most straight men try to avoid gay porn.i would say he is bisexual or even gay.

[Yossarian]

I would say it's a bit simplistic to just lump people into one of three categories.

Plenty of women have feelings for certain women, have been curious what it would be like or have even slept with other women and most people wouldn't consider them to be lesbians.

A friend of mine had a homosexual relationship when he was younger and he says it was just something he wanted to try.  He's now married with kids and says he's not gay but is glad to have satisfied his curiousity as otherwise he would have spent his life wondering.

A helluva lot more guys than would admit it have either done something sexual with other guys, have wanted to or have watched gay porn

[dlerag]

I think men look at a lot of things for curiousity reasons. If he's looking at lesbian only, he wants a threesome. Now, lets hope the wife is into that. This isn't good for most marriages. If he's looking at bi or gay, he may have bi tendencies or be in the closet. Some men who are married never mention the last 2 or stay in the closet. As for the chat room, that's a different story. He maybe searching and wanting to explore. I found one guy like having gay friends; no sure if he is bi or just like the drama --g--.

The big thing you will find is that men look at other men and admire them. Men will check out other naked men. It's just they way men size each other up and not feel threaten.