i need help :,(

[Rony322]

So I been having problems getting a full erection with my girlfriend I'm really deppressed now its been 2 girlfriends that this happens I think something is wrong I find them attractive they were both really beautifull but when it came down to intercourse Id get hard but a soft erection untill it just went down :'( I have stopped watching porn for 3 weeks I have stopped mastervating for 2 weeks and today my curent girlfriend came over and we started kissing I got turned on quick and I got hard and when it was time to do it I got soft !I'm embarrased I don't know what is wrong and I don't want to loose another good girl cuz of my situation I need help I can get a full hard on alone but with my girl I can't !want can I do I don't want to b single for the rest of my life !I'm 21 years old used to mastervate everynight to go to sleep !am I gana b okay  

[llarry]

These girls may not really be right for you. Spend more time with them before entertaining sex.  Dont try to have sex, let sex happen.  Also try some of the products or seek a qualified doctor.

[Rony322]

im gana try my best  thank u so much i need to focus on my anxiaty its all in my head i gues

[test2009]

don't focus so much on the "i just wanna kick *** in the bedroom" aspect. Try focusing on the mutual sensation, not the "i wanna take you to pound town" parts of sex. Good luck.

[Rony322]

I do I talked to my xgfs just so they can make me feel better asking them how I performed when I was with them they made me feel better cuz I know I satisfied them but now I'm suffering from this with my new girlfriend I've told her the situation and she is willing to work things out help me fix my self but I know I can get a full erection I've made sevral girls happy.I really lik my curent gf I don't wan loose her cuz of this problem I have already lost 1 gf cuz of this I want thi t go away

[test2009]

Don't block your thoughts - talk about them. Suppressing these anxieties will only make it worse.

[Rony322]

Omg so true I have anxiaty n I phyched my self with anxiaty too I know I'm fine I feel great It just my self esteem n I know its all in my head :) u r truly right ill try my best to block my thoughts

[test2009]

There are two causes of erectile dysfunction - physiologic or psychologic. As it sounds to me, you have no difficulty obtaining and maintaining an erection during masturbation - this means that it is not physiologic.

This is good news. However, I am going to be blunt and say that it is "all in your head." No, that doesn't mean that you are crazy, but it does mean that you have "psyched" yourself out about it, and now you are so worried about it that it perpetuates the problem. Dealing with some of your underlying stresses and depression may help with this. If you are truly concerned - seek out a sex therapist or a psychologist!

Good luck!