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just curious as to why he cant '***'
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just curious as to why he cant '***'

This is kind of embarrassing to ask as while i have had a couple of sexual relationships, ive never really had to worry until now.
basically i am in a relationship with someone i am completely falling for. we do a lot more foreplay than sex and i was thinking he liked it more than actually having sex but recently he said he does enjoy sex also. he has told me from the start hes a 'hard nut to crack' in that unless he masturbates he doesnt usually ***. while i completely respect everyone is different i'd like to make him go all the way - whether its sexual intercourse or foreplay. he says im doing all the right things when we foreplay and that i am 'amazing' particularly compared to previous relationships. but how can i help him to go all the way? are there techniques? or are there others out there who experience this also? i dont think its bad for our relationship as we both enjoy ourselves but i just feel somewhat inadequate as in the past ive had no problems 'satisfying' my man all the way (and heck i know im not all that experienced!). ideas?
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Don't feel inadequate. Obviously guys are usually in control and he likes using that control right up till the very end and foreplay seems to be a major part of that process (as it may get him off more). then when he's feeling ready, he wants to also enjoy the sex part by prolonging ejaculation (that's what i think he means by being a 'hard nut to crack'. Not meaning he's hard to please, but rather he prolongs it before he goes. You sound like your there with him until the end, so i don't think you have anything to be concerned about. :)
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