labia size please help

my labia is bigger then what I would like it to be.im VERY self consious of it and I haven't yet had sex only because of my labia size.I don't want the guy thinking they're gross.they're kinda flappy so I'm also afraid that they'll get in the way during sex. will the guy be able to get his penis in? would a guy about 15-18 find larger labia gross?
PLEASE ANSWER AND BE HONEST

[mjbrown]

This question doesn't belong in the men's health forum. You should post it in the sexual health forum.

[CMHYDE]

This question absolutely belongs in a men's health forum.  My wife told me recently she thought her labia was too big and was thinking about surgery.  She said it had embarrassed her for years and she just has never told anyone.  I was shocked. Men actually prefer a large one from the guys I have talked to and just my own opinion.  Most guys don't even consider that a big deal they are just glad that they are getting some!  Seriously I've never turned down a second encounter or even considered it based on that!  You can even google large labia and you will find that men prefer it typically.  If a guy can't get past it that's his problem not yours!

[Abby_17]

I'm 17 and i have the same thing. I've always been like scared of what guys think of it but there are sooo many people with different sized labias. I've only slept with one guy and he's fine about it he likes it and most other guys do to. i still cant really see why but hey ho! I'm still worried when it comes to doing stuff with another boy cos im still "embarrased" about it and dont want people going around telling everyone about it and people to start calling me Flabby abby! or being nasty. But most guys dont give a poo about it. And if you find someone nice that likes you for you not just your fanny then youll be fineee! Honestly babe dw bout it :) x

[Pinkcutie]

Hey, Im 17 years old also, I have the same problem. I went to the doctor for mine and she said that it was swollen. I was like um lady this aint normal I want a surgery, and she said something about it could mess up some of your nerves and what not when your having sex, I honestly dont care if I have nerves in my labia minora anyways its not like it matters. But anyways, I have had sex with 3 guys and none of them seemed to have complained. But Im still self concious about it but at least we know that more than 1 person just has it which means it is normal. Every girls vag is different. So dont be embarrased because if they dont wanna have sex with you because of it then it can be him and his hand, which Im sure he would rather not use his hand. So tell the guy to suck it up and get over it. Im sure he wont mind. :]

[abbielouise]

im 17 also and i have the same thing...and my name is abbie too, this is just trippy..i am also very self consious and worryd about being made fun of or gross ppl out. i wanna go to the doc for it but i dont kno how to explain it to my mom, she would just freak out and assume that ther is something freakishly wrong with me and rush me into the hospital and completly embarras me, i just feel like if i didnt have a large labia that i would feel more pretty and confident.