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loss of erection when I'm on top
My partner loses erection when i am on top. Questioned him many times about what he thinks it might be happening but the answer i get from him is that he doesn't have a reason for it. The only thing he says is that he stops feeling his penis. He says it is like if it doesn't exist. He swaps position and says it takes a few seconds to get back to normal. I have wondered already if it is me, the way i move, if i am too slow , if he doesn't feel attracted by me, or if my vagina streches too much to the point were he doesn't feel anything. He says it is nothing to do with this and that he doesn't know what is happening. Please help
Since you are confronting him about, did you ask if you masturbates and watchs porn at same time, most men who have ED issues with thier gf/wives/friends, never admit it.
Switching who is on top is nice for variety and often it is better for the female, but it just doesn't work for your partner. To me, it has nothing to do with you, your vagina, how you move, how fast you move, nor your attractiveness. As you've stated, he doesn't know why, but as he says, he just loses the feeling in his penis. Without that feeling, he is "high and dry".
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